• uniquely-ironic said on Jul 17, 2008....

  A very good mindset regarding death.  I hope you don't suffer the loss of someone close to you any time soon.  I'm not sure how I will feel when it happens to me.  The loss of my grandparents and uncles was pretty hard to bear.

• Eilan said on Jul 17, 2008....

  I was much closer to my maternal grandparents than I was to my paternal grandparents.  I feel that I did a lot more mourning for my grandpa than I did for my grandma, even though I was closer to my grandma.  I think part of it was, like you said, that I knew how devastating his death was for her.  She lived another 10 years and never truly got over finding his body.
  
  When my dad's mom died back in April, I didn't cry for her at all, and I don't feel guilty about it.  I'm sorry we weren't closer, but that's the way things were.
  

• secretlife said on Jul 17, 2008....

  i remember being where you are, and not having experienced death other than that of my grandparents-
  in some way, even though difficult, those deaths made sense.  my grandparents were all in their 80's......had lived good long lives. 
  i lost my brother in law in an accident when he was 26 and i was 27....that death really hit me and my whole family very hard.  it was out of sequence.......it made no sense.....and it took a very very long time to recover.
   
  unfortunately, although we all dread death, it's part of the whole life thing-
  sooner or later, it touches us all.
  there's no escape.
   
  i'm 48 and still having a hard time accepting this truth and especially when things like what happened in my neighborhood happen........it's hard to make sense of it....hard to accept.
   
  i think we all want to believe that we'll be "celebrated" in death for our lives.
  nobody wants to think that those we leave behind will be crushed-
  but i think alot of the "celebrating" part has alot to do with how old you are when you die, and how you die and your relationship to the person who died.   sometimes it takes alot longer to be past the mourning and into the remembering and "celebrating" part.  i think we all get there, but it just takes longer depending on the circumstances.

• madstorm said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Let's get this thing we call 'death' clear... 98% of the human body consists of six elements... carbon, hydrogen, nitrogen, oxygen, phosphorous and calcium. 55% to 78% is hydrogen & oxygen combined as water... take away the water and the body is a tiny pile of carbon dust...

  The question is do these elements die? ... and the answer is no... what then is death? ... nobody knows if there is a 'soul' or a 'spirit'... they can believe that there is.... they can have faith that there is but nobody actually knows... because nobody has ever returned from death for all to see... and please don't mention Jesus because once again... they can believe, they can have faith but they don't know... to know is fact... faith or belief is not fact...

  What humans call 'death' is merely a release of molecules from the chemical structure we call the body... those molecules do not die... they are immortal. Humans say only something moving or breathing is alive... the truth is that everything is alive. Death does not exist.

  So what are you crying about?

• whiterose said on Jul 18, 2008....

  The human body may decompose, but the soul never dies. When a love one dies people tend to presume that he/she has gone to heaven. We really don't know how the soul has been judged. It possible the soul is in Purgatory (the state of being purified before entering heaven). If the soul is in purgatory suffering (being so close to God, but having to wait a little longer), then we should pray for him/her to reduce the time spent in purgatory. Before a person dies, people should pray for God to have mery on his/her soul, just in case heaven isn't the souls destination. Nobody knows where a soul goes after death. It's dangerous to presume that all "good people" are going to heaven. We don't know what daily sins the person has committed nor do we know the person's heart. God alone knows. I make it a point to pray for the souls in purgatory, I see it as a duty of mercy to help them. When I die, I hope people will pray for my soul as well.

• hottips4u said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Star...you fucking liar and hypocrite !
  
  You started lying from the very first sentence of this post !
  
  I havnt ever lost anyone close to me...
  
  So the dead guy's house you robbed recently wasn't close or a friend you claimed him to be ?
  
  Can't you blog without friggin lying too ?
  
  Star lite star bright feed us another lie tonight.....hehe
  
  Hottips4u
  
  Jess ; )
  

• queenparanoia said on Jul 18, 2008....

  you know i fear the same too... i hope you feel okay now... =)

• monkeyboyx said on Jul 18, 2008....

  whiterose said it well.

• hottips4u said on Jul 18, 2008....

  whiterose said it well.....
  
  But Hottips4u said it like it is !   hehe  = )
  
  Jess.
  

• starchini said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Wow, u guys are all friggin nuts...I mean that in a good and bad way. 

  First u hottips...Jesus Christ u should really start being less stupid.  U shouldnt run around calling people liars for no reason.  U think u know it all.  If u remember, that guy chris that died, was PHIL'S friend.  Ya frickin idiot.  I never once claimed to be close to him.  If u reread ud know that.  I met him once or twice and never not once said he was close to me.  So keep ur big gay pie hole clamped about shit u have no idea about.  It honest to God is like the only reason u read my blog is because u want to desperatly catch me in a lie bc for some reason u think i lie.  Well little miss jessi, u wont ever catch me in a lie, because i do not lie.  It irritates the shit out of me for u to read me with the purpose of trying to "catch" me.  An i didnt rob anyone u stupid cunt. Bitches like u, are who give women a bad name. Get a life.

  Queenie, i feel pretty good.  I hope u feel ok too! : )

  Whiterose, i understand what u are talking about.  And realze that many people believe in purgatory.  But i dont.  I believe that if u are baptized u forgo the purgatory step.  I dont  care to get into the religious details.  I dont claim to know much about it.  But its my own personal belief that once u are baptized u dont need to worry about purgatory, u just go straight up to St. Peter to see if u are on the list.  : >  Im Catholic, i know, u prolly hate me bc of that...ah well, another one bites the dust...But im not saying im right and im not saying u are right, nor am i saying either one of us is wrong.  Im just saying i believe purgatory is for people who havnt been baptized.  I know u prolly think its dumb..."yea right, like dunking a baby in a bowl of water saves it from purgatory...dumb Catholics..."....Just remember i dont think ur belief is dumb, even though i might not agree with it.   Peace be with you : >  lol, i had to say it.  : > 

  Madstorm... like u said no one "knows" so dont tell me not to mention Jesus. Because u dont know either.  Like im really gonna stop talkign about Jesus bc some people dont believe in him.  Puh-leez.   Can i ask u to stop not mentioning Jesus, because he very well may exist?  No i cant...So dont ask me to not mention because he might not.  Its very hypocritical.  And i know in my heart that he does exist and that there is a heaven...It must be terribly empty to live in ur world with no faith in a higher being.  It must be depressing to believe that after we become carbon dust, thats the end of it all...That pretty much means, there is no point to life.  Life is just a painful experience after we become wet carbon dust and before we become dry carbon dust.  If i believed what u believe, i would just end my life right now...because for real, if there is no God, wtf is the point in living?  There is none. 

  Secret life, im very sorry about the loss of ur brother in law...It must have been terribly difficult to deal with...and u have a very insightfull outlook on death and when people accept it and celebrate it.  Its much harder when people feel the dead were "robbed" and its easier when people feel like "eh, they had a good run"...What i find hard to believe is how people think we are just a chemical makeup with no soul, its all science, no heaven no hell, just a beginning and an end with no point in the middle...I dont understand why people who believe that continue to live...If that was my belief id prolly become the uni bomber and say "fuck us all, there is no point" just before i killed everyone.  Im sorry, i dont mean to be morbid but my point was, if there is no afterlife what is the point of living.  Its a means to no end.  And my means have an end, in heaven.  I just dont get atheism...

  Exactly Eilan, i think u know exactly what im talking about, thats cool : > thank u for sharing : > 

  Oh unique, u are such a kind kind sensitive spirit i hope u dont have to deal with a death that hits home anytime either. 

• hottips4u said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Anything you say man...and I mean that literally.
  
  Your just jealous your gash of a cunt isn't as nice a pie as mine and you know it....hehe....in fact you said it yourself as I recall... (God I wish mine looked like that)
  
  News flash Miss Mc Nasty....ain't ever gonna happen...God sliced you in a fitting manner....long and deep as your bullshit. 
  
  You remind me sooooo much of t/Trav and s/Silverwhisper your could be triplets if the truth were known......hehe
  
  Read you post again and again...you indicate he was a friend....liar ! = )
  
  jess. 

• starchini said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Hottips, here is the very first paragraph of that entry u speak of...i very clearly say PHIL'S FRIEND! 

  "So a few days ago Phil stopped by the shop and told me one of his friends got splattered on the highway in a motorcycle accident.  I could tell that he was upset but he wasnt crying.  I asked if they were close and he said not as close as he was to the guy that found him, ned.  "

  so yea, u are the liar for calling me a liar when i didnt lie.  So there. 

  And yes im sure everyone that saw ur cunt on the world wide web would agree it was a pretty one. 

  So, because i gave ur cunt a compliment, u feel the need to bash my cunt???  Yea, u really are a bitch. 

  I think ur pretty pussy is about the only thing in ur life that u are justified in being proud of.

  I dont know where u get off hating me.  All i ever do is defend myself to u because all u ever do is attack me.  So yea if Trav and Silver had to defend themselves against ur crazy accusations than yes i am just like them...But i do not lie, and u have yet to find me in a lie.  I see u try really hard to.  Its just jealousy.  Ur life is boring and uneventful.  And it bugs u terribly that mine is exciting and interesting and that in general i have a life.  So u feel the need to prove that i am some how lying about it all.  Keep trying, u aint gonna succeed because everything i say is 100% truth. 

  U have a very ugly personality, i pity u.

   

• hottips4u said on Jul 18, 2008....

  lol....pity is something I am certain your enjoying ole silver one....figured that was you...completely fictitious and shallow as a human.
  
  Hate you ?  That's tooo kind.... I loath your very existence here and in reality.
  
  You make all females ashamed for you McNasty.  You do not represent American women, you represent what is known in America as a stank skank and you have the nerve to call me Gay ?   I am Bi-Sexual and not gay at all.
  
  Still, this conversation will result in good numbers for ya and I am glad to be of help to ya....hehe ; )
  
  Stop stealing from the dead....its sooooo uncool.
  
  jess   

• starchini said on Jul 18, 2008....

  U really do need to be committed.   I almost blocked u after my last comment.  In fact i did block u, but then decided that was unfair so i unblocked u. Im not silver, im not a skank and im not a liar. 

  And what is with u and trying to get me to represent american women!?  Wtf do u think an american woman is?  We are a melting pot of all kinds.  Somehow u think u represent american women better then me or something?  Being "bi-sexual" and all...U are so twisted. 

  I dont know why u think im a skank, just because i share my personal sex life here doesnt make me a skank.  Im in a monogamous relationship and have never had sex with someone who wasnt a boyfriend.  Ive only ever fricken slept with 4 people.  So u calling me a skank just makes u ignorant.  But g'head, call me a skank, it just makes u look stupid. 

  There u go, lying about me some more.  U lie more in one conversation than i have in my entire lifetime!  I didnt steal a damn thing from the dead guy.  Get ur fucking facts straight. 

  Right, numbers are what im looking for...I wish u wouldnt comment on my blog period.  U are just a pitiful excuse for a human being with the ugliest personality ive ever encountered.  The only reason i dont block u is because i feel like if uve got something to say u should be able to say it.  If that wernt my belief i would block u.  U are a pest, a liar and annoying as fuck. 

   

   

• hottips4u said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Hey I resemble that remark !
  
  Thanx skank....
  
  Actually you argue better than most here and that's all I wanted from the onset...a good argument, if it wasn't for that fact I wouldn't even be here....hehe
  
  You've stolen from the dead in your own vehicle, you trespassed on a dead man's property...even before he got cold and in da grave.
  
  American women do not do these things American female skanks do these things, you should clean up your act and grow up.
  
  Boyfriends....hehe  thats soooo 7th grade !    I have a boy-friend....lol  And, he's only the 4th !  Do you call any man that returns a second time a boyfriend and disregard the others ?...hehe
  
  Soooo....bi-sexual women make you fearful huh ?  Try it you might like it....oh thats right...you have made out w/ a female haven't you. Did the pages stick together after you licked them ?....hehe
  
  Star......get ur head out of the heavens and more down to earth, you are no star but perhaps for a falling star.
  
  Grow up lil girl...you may be 21 but ur soooooo still 7th grade.
  
  Block me if you will....but none other will do anything but patronize you and tolerate you due to your abilities to cut yourself for others pleasures.
  
  jess
  

• starchini said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Why do u force me to repeat myself? 

  I was a passanger, and unconcious when things were stolen from the dead guy.  I had no idea it happened and if i was awake i would have stopped them.  So lets jsut stop argueing about that one bc those are the facts.  U can keep calling me a thief but it doesnt make it true. 

  Why are u trying to stereo type the american woman?  Everyone is different.  I am not a skank, and i dont know what else to call someone ur monogomous with other than a boyfriend...I dont see how thats grade school, thats what they are.  Boyfriends...It does sound sorta gradeschool but i dont know what else to call it.  Dating?  In a relationship with? whatever, its all the same...boyfriend.   Point is i dont get ur obsession with trying to profile the american woman.  Its not my job to give american women a good or bad name. 

  What are these "things" that suposed american female skanks do?  What do i do that is so skankish?  I have sex, with one person...Im pretty sure mostly all american women over the age of 20 have sex.  So ur calling almost all american women skanks.  U have sex.  So u are a skank.  Just because my sex may be better doesnt make me skankier. 

  Bi-sexual women make me fearful?  wtf? umm...no...Im just saying u dont fit the "profile" uve created of the american woman either.  So ur just being silly.  And yes i have made out with a few friends that were chics.  So?  Whats ur point?

  Get my head out of the heavens?  Im sooo 7th grade? Well now, ur just being foolish.  My maturity level far surpasses urs, in the way that ive evolved beyond the chimp and no longer try to pick school yard fights, like u.  Ur nothin but a pitiful bully.  With nothin better to do than to attack other people trying to make them feel bad about themselves in attemp to pick ur ass up outta the ghutter.  And i though i had low self esteem.  U set the bar extremely high.

   

• hottips4u said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Damn right...there ya go...fight back goramit !....hehe
  
  Did you turn in the thieves with you ?  No. 
  
  Did you trespass?  Yes.  (unless his steps were in ur van too !) 
  
  Did you return the screens or whatever else was stolen from the dead man ? No. 
  
  Did you hide the evidence of a burgery ? Yes 
  
  Did you cover the crimes committed by your associates ? Yes. 
  
  Does that make you an accomplice  ? Yes. 
  
  Does that mean you've stoled from the dead ? Yes 
  
  Are you a thief ? Yes 
  
  Have you committed a felony ? Yes.   
  
  Would a grand jury indict you ? Yes 
  
  Would your acts place you in a cell ? Yes.
  
  Do most American women conduct themselves so ? No.
  
  What in that ...... don't you understand ?  erm ....  : /   eh ?
  
  _________________________
  
  Yes I am proud to be an American woman ?  Yes.
  
  Do I have a boy friend ? No 
  
  Do I have a man ? Yes  (no boi's hehe)
  
  Do I have children ? Yes  Three (3)  2-Girls and a Boy
  
  Do I own property ? Yes
  
  Do I own and operate my own company ? Yes
  
  Did I purchase my own Vehicles ? Yes
  
  Am I on a school board ? Yes
  
  Do I support my community ? Yes
  
  Do I commit felonies ? No.
  
  Do I live with a man ? Yes
  
  Do I date other men ? No
  
  Did I have a woman ? Yes
  
  Do I live with another woman ? Yes
  
  Do men like being called a boy ? No
  
  Do most women date Boys ? No
  
  Do most Women steal ? No.
  
  Do most women cover up crimes ? No.
  
  Do most women steal from the dead ? No.
  
  Do most women try to brag about getting laid ? (only the skanks)
  
  Do most women lay around drunk and doing drugs ? No  (but yes to skanks)
  
  In most womens opinions, and men as well, you are what is referred to in America as a skank.
  
  Is your sex life as good or better than most women ? (a skank would assume thus)
  
  Have you matured enough even to leave home yet at 21 ? No.
  
  Do you hold a job outside the home/shop ? No  Have you ? No.
  
  Do you own your own vehicle ? No.
  
  Do you have a child ?  No. (every time you fuck your prego's - sooo immature)
  
  Could you care for a child ?  No (you show no form of responsibility as an adult)
  
  Are you a decent person ? No  ( decent folk don't lead your lifestyle most at ur age are finishing college) can anyone say stooopid ?...hehe
  ________________________________________
  
  I have been with one man since college ; the father of my children
  
  One relationship since age 18 (9 1/2 years now)
  
  Two children in school who have passed since entering ? Yes
  
  Three children that have been raised in one home since birth ? Yes.
  
  I am an American woman without a criminal pass, a home/land owner, a business owner and member to the school board.  I pay taxes (numerous) and vote.  I do not steal....anything.  I refuse to cover up crime, for friend or foe.  I have sat upon 3 jury trials, 1 grand jury proceedings.  I donate to several youth organizations and one rest home for the aging.  I volunteer at a troubled youth camp each summer (where I was recently).  I support our volunteer Fire Hall to which my man and his father have belonged for years, by baking, helping at cook outs and Bingo each week as a volunteer. I majored in business and will further my degree when my last child becomes five and in regular school making full time possible.  My children come first above all else and all others, bar none.  I speak 3 languages (partially) beyond English, (Mohawk, Spanish and German).
  
  Am I perfect ? Absolutely not. 
  
  Am I better than some ? Absolutely  As good a woman and Mother as most ? Absolutely.
  
  Do I know a skank when I see one ? Absolutely.
  
  Are you a skank ? Probably not, but place yourself in that light star.
  
  Am I a better person than you are ? Most likely in all respects.
  
  Will you grow up one day ? One can only hope.
  
  _________________________
  
  Not picking fights but extending a lesson of maturity to a very immature young female whose life and relationships stem from a gutter lifestyle.
  
  Humiliation would become you and improve your lifestyle.
  
  Maturity is something you've not taken the time to comprehend beyond that of...I'am
  finally old enough to buy my own booze now.
  
  Do you show any remorse for having been involved with stealing
  from a dead man and covering the crime ?  Absolutely not.
  
  I am not a bully, I am simply stating the truth.
  
  The bar I set for you isn't low self esteem whatsoever, but higher to point out you can be a better more mature woman than you reveal yourself to be here and obviously in real life.
  
  Would most American women state they  wish your lifestyle ? I hardly think so.
  
  Would most American men want a woman like you reflect here to be ?  Perhaps at closing time....
  
  Do I enjoy our conversations ? Absolutely : )
  
  Jess.
  
   
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
   
  

• starchini said on Jul 18, 2008....

  OMG YOU ARE SOOOOO LONG WINDED AND SOOOOO WROOOOONNNG!!!

  Because i have a far busier lifestyle than u im going to try and do this quick and short and to the point with much less fluffy noncircumstancial shit u draw up...

  Nothin is ever a crime unless u are convicted- case closed no crime committed

  (i didnt steal anything anyways)

  And i think that most american women wouldnt turn their friends in.  Maybe the backstabbing ones like u.  Everyone handles death differently.  My friends took a keep sake from their deceased friends house without permission.  There are two ways of looking at things.  Good and bad...U my dear choose to place me in the worst light imaginable.  Ur simply wrong...

  All that hoopla crap tooting ur own horn...what is ur point?  Ur like, an old woman...If i had a kid id be on the school board too.  Jesus, u want a cookie or something?

  So, i cant even begin to retort to everything u said, u bore me.

  So ill just brief u about my life, the stuff i dont really blog about....

  I live at with my paretns to pay my student loans off, because i DID go to school.  While most people my age are still in college, ive already graduated...So all that stupid crap, yea, ur simply wrong.

  Im soooooo responsible and mature that i decided to pay off my student loans faster than anyone else by moving home.  Yea i coulda made minimum payments and acrued but loads of interest...but no...i decided it would be best to move home and pay off the debt as soon as possible. 

  I work 2 jobs, i work over 72 hours a week.  I work hard and i work well.  How does this make me immature? 

  I may not own my own company, fuck, im 21, gimme a break...But i run one.

  Im an office manager of a company, and a contracted hairstylist...

  I have a wonderful BOYFRIEND er MANFRIEND...whatever, i hardly think that calling ur lover a man or boy makes me immature...ur starting to reach pretty far... 
  

  I dont date other people nor do i engage in sexual activities with anyone else but him. 

  I do not BRAG about my sex life...according to u pretty much anyone that writes anything in their blog means that there bragging about it...wrong...

  Just the fact that u think im bragging shows that u have jealousy...

  Just the fact that u think im bragging instead of simply writing shows that u are a cynical pessimist.

  During the week i work and hang out with my boyfriend.  On the weekends i party...i dont see anything wrong with that.  In fact most american women my age would find that VERY normal...

  U say drugs plural...its not plural...its drug....its pot...big deal...

  Im not any sort of druggie because i smoke pot on occasion...

  U know what i think?  I think u are an old hag tied down to her kids and her work and have to worry about 2 relationships with lovers instead of one.  I think u are sooo tired and worn down that u crave to have any sort of resemblance of fun...

  and the fact that im still young and not strapped down to a school board makes u jealous...

  Because there are loads of people here at soulcast that are family women, such as urself, and none of them have a problem with me like u do....

  To each their own. Not everyone can be as boring and wound up as u are.

  Im none of the things u describe me as.

  I dont care that u have that opinion of me.  The only problem i have with u saying such things is that im worried that the people i DO like here will listen to ur load of bullshit and think ill of me.  U describe me unjustly.  U know nothing of what u speak of.  U make very rash assumptions based on things out of context.

  I may not be all that mature, but for my age im doing pretty fucking well for myself.

  Im happy, im fortunate, i have people that love me dearly, i have money in the bank and my savings account is growing, soon my student loans will be paid off and ill be able to go back to school for my business degree so that i can open my salon.  Im doing pretty fucking well...I have absolutly no complaints about anything. 
  So if im any of the things u describe me as, none of that would be true...

  U can twist all the words around u like and u can pick and choose my words to create ur own sentences...but the mere fact that u are a grown ass family woman sitting here berrating a 21 year old, makes u an ugly human being. 

  Anyone can tease anyone for the things theyve done.  I have no doubt that uve done things in ur life u keep secret for fear of shame and conviction from others.  No doubt...the only difference is that i chose to not have any secrets...Im just sorry there are people like u in the world with such a pessimistic outlook, bullying people in cyberspace, it truly is pathetic....

• starchini said on Jul 18, 2008....

  ok,  uve been blocked until monday...i want to be able to defend myself as u come up with ur lies, and i wont be on until monday...think up a good one and i might give u a cookie  : )

• starchini said on Jul 18, 2008....

  ok, i actually went back and read ur comment...damn u...

  i really dont know what it is that makes u think im immature...or that ive led a gutter lifestyle...for real?

  Yes i regret that my friends broke into a dead guys house.  of course i do.  I wish it didnt happen.  But i dont think they are bad people.  I think they were overly emotional and got carried away.  They had good intentions that were carried out illegally.  Could i have prevented it?  NO!  Did i help in anyway? NO!  Was i involved at all? NO!  The absolute only thing im guilty of is being asleep. 

  As far as defending my immaturity...im mature where it counts.

  I did very well in highschool i graduated when i was 17 and went straight to college.  I didnt know what i wanted to do so i dabbled in everything.  I majored in 3 majors before realizing i wanted to be a cosmetologist.  I have two years of college under my belt all my credits apply and ive got a cosmetology license...When i was 15 i got my CNA license and throughout college and highschool i worked in nursing homes.  I volunteer at my Humane Society, walking dogs.  I help my family out with their company forgoing pay checks when they cant afford it. 

  Ive been through a hell of a lot in my 21 years and u dont have a fucking clue what u are talking about when call me immature.

  Ive seen and experienced a lot of crap and am extremly proud of the degree of maturity ive achieved.  U have got no room to talk

  U can get off ur pedestal and quit giving this "im trying to help u" bit.  I dont need ur help im just fine and im EXTREMLY proud of who i am and u are an ignorant peace of shit for thinking u are better than anyone.

  NO ONE is better than ANYBODY

  U might think ur better because uve got a bunch of crap and are successfull but none of that shit matters when u judge a human being.

  People hearts are what fucking matter and that is how they should be judged and u my ignorant friend have a calloused heart.  I dont care how often u volunteer or help people, u do it all for status.

  U have no right to judge me, u have no idea who i am.

   

• starchini said on Jul 18, 2008....

  i take it back...im not going to unblock u.  Ur blocked forever...uve hurt my feelings and im sick of u attacking me.

  there are 3 things that u think/know about me that u use to judge my entire life.  and that is wrong...

  1) i smoke pot

  2) i have sex

  3) i was present but unconcious during a "break in" that i didnt want to happen in the first place.

  thats all u know...

  yet u cease to stop judging and pursecuting me by it.

  Im ashamed to admit that u actually have an effect on my mood.

  U are not causing nay doubt in my beliefs or the way i see myself

  u are only succeeding in making me as hateful as u are.

  i dont hate anyone accept David

  therefore i feel the need to nip this in the bud because u do nothing but harm people.

  I shouldtn have to defend myself to u. 

  I am a good person, and i know it.

  U are like a judgmental ice queen out to do nothing but damage.

  U enjoy our conversations, i do not.

  I dont enjoy u picking me apart and judging me

  ive only ever defended myself to u, not once have i pursued u for sake of judgement.

  Hell, ive been blocked by u for ages, ur such a hypocrit.

  Im finally gonna swallow my argumentative side and block u.

  Arguing with u is like talking to a Donkey, no one gets anywhere because u are soo full of yourself.

  And a little newsflash, u may think ur better than a lot of people, but ur not any better than the dirt i walk on.

  U think u are sooo richious

  well fuck u

  im glad we wont ever be speaking again.

   

• whiterose said on Jul 18, 2008....

  Starchini,   Since you don’t want to go into religious details, I’ll respect that and avoid doing the same.  I don’t hate you.  I don’t think you’re dumb.  However, it does appear that like many Catholics today, you have been misinformed about the Catholic teaching on baptism and purgatory.   If you want to know what the Catholic Church teaches about purgatory read paragraphs 1030-1032 in the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC) (

  http://www.usccb.org/catechism/text/pt1sect2chpt3art12.htm).

    Paragraphs 1226-1231, explains Catholic Church’s the official teaching on baptism (

  http://www.usccb.org/catechism/text/pt2sect2.htm#chpt1).  Please note I’m just trying to be helpful by providing this information.  I will respect your decision to read it or not to read it.

   

• madstorm said on Jul 19, 2008....

  Dictionary definition of the word 'contradiction'...

  1. A statement that contradicts itself.
  
  2. In logic, a proposition that is false for all values of its variables.

  The Contradictions of the Bible

  1. Jesus' death was no sacrifice at all. In Genesis God created man from dust and breathed life into him... therefore God could have recreated Jesus after death anytime & as many times as he liked. Therefore the so-called sacrifice of Jesus was no sacrifice at all.

  2. Adam & Eve could not have sinned. Adam & Eve had no knowledge of Good & Evil before they ate the apple... therefore how can they sin if they don't know what sin is?

  3. God's Love? The standard answer to 2. is "they disobeyed God"... to punish all Humans for thousands of years just for the disobedience of Adam & Eve is not the action of a loving God.

  4. Adam & Eve committed Incest. If Adam & Eve were the first and only Humans as stated in the Bible then all human beings are the result of incest because there can be no grandchildren of Adam & Eve without brother & sister, father & daughter or mother & son having sex & producing children.

  5. Hell is hardly mentioned. Of the 14,000 different words in the Bible the word 'Hell' is mentioned only 54 times, the original Greek uses the word 'gehenna' which is derived from 'Ge Hinnom, meaning "Valley of Hinnom" a valley outside the south wall of ancient Jerusalem where the Jews burnt their rubbish... all the doctrine of fire, damnation & ever-lasting torment comes from Dante Alighieri's 'Divine Comedy' & other fictional works of human imagination.

  There is no 'Heaven & Hell'... if you live a life of love instead of fear you will find it is not empty... you find it is full of joy...

• catch22 said on Jul 21, 2008....

  And the cat fight goes on and on,and on...and on.No winners here! Love and hate are like twins.PETE AND REPETE.Put away the claws and make amends.Life is short.Things have been said  that can all be repaired with the desire to stop the insanity.

• starchini said on Jul 21, 2008....

  Whiterose i didnt take offense to anything u said so there is no need to apologize.  To be honest i wasnt misinformed about baptists, i wasnt informed at all.  And ill go ahead and read what uve given me and be back later to comment : > 

  Madstorm, there are lots of wholes and lots of undeniable proof.  Miracles happen everyday that are impossible and could never be considered coincidence. The bible was wrote by man, not God...so yea, there can be many errors and lies.  But that doesnt mean God doesnt exist.  To think we are living in this world alone is beyond foolish to me.  And there are far more reasons to believe in him than to not.  I dont need any reasons to believe in him.  And i do not live in fear.  I live in hope of a better world beyong this one.  I dont fear goin to hell.  I know ill go to heaven.  U can give me all the "proof" u want that God doesnt exist, but i dont need proof, ive got faith.

• starchini said on Jul 21, 2008....

  catch, this isnt a cat fight, this is a mean ol lady picking on me for no reason but to get her own twisted jollies.  The "catfight" is over because after too much temptation i broke down and blocked her.  I can only take soo many beatings...

• Dxb2008 said on Jul 22, 2008....

  Oki..This is what I think of what happens after death...When the person takes that last breath..An angel appears..The angel of death...he takes his life away and not the soul..the soul stays inside the body even after death..Later on when the person is buried..and after everyone leaves the grave..2 angels come up to the person..they ask him Some questions and see what he have done with his life...If he is a good person that will eventually go to heaven..they give him peace and a nice dream...if that person was bad and lead a horrible life..then they would torment him..and give a bad dream..that would torture him..These dreams will go on until the day of judgment...The day of judgment is when the world ends..and god asks all the souls to go back up to him...even the dead ones...then the good ones go to heaven..bad ones to hell...of course some people spend time in hell before they go to heaven..as a punishment..what I mean is it the degree of heaven and hell depends on the person and what he have done with his life...plus its not only one heaven or one hell...there is a lot of heavens and hells..its just like hotels :D...5 star..4 star..3 star.. please be free to comment but don't be too harsh cause thats my religious belief..

• starchini said on Jul 22, 2008....

  i think it makes good sense really...

• Dxb2008 said on Jul 22, 2008....

  Thats what I always believed in, it makes sense. People think heaven or hell is the where a person goes after death but thats is somehow wrong. We all go there together.

• shiningstar said on Jul 22, 2008....

  I wonder if any one participating in this post has ever listened to other teachings about the soul than what religion teaches???There are many teaching and actually scientific  that show the meaning of the soul in a far different light. I will share what I know so far. The soul lies by the heart.  It weighs 13 ozs.(Bodies weighed after death prove this). Wonder why your heart is not in the middle of the body?The soul is in the middle pressing against the heart in its own cavity. The soul is a recorder (if you will).It feels the heart and records the feeling.When one passes it goes with the spirit(the essence of the person) for its review of its life.Feel something in your gut??The soul records this as emotion.(Energy in motion).Sorrow,hate,depression,ect all are emotions.A Master masters these emotions of the self.That is what frees them.The soul is read and flashes the life before the newly departed so they can decide what things they did not get to master here and will one day choose to return and master them or live them differently so as to grow.It is tough when someone you love passes over but one must realize it is a freedom for them.There, without judgement,  they can review their life and gain a greater perspective on what really is important and come back to live it again or go to another place.

• starchini said on Jul 23, 2008....

  So, the soul is an organ...why didnt i learn that in anatomy?

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