• SeanRenaud said on Jul 15, 2008....

  Go out and buy a some toys, larger ones, it's just a matter of getting your muscles to relax enough and perhaps some practice is required to get yourself to that point.  Not everything can be forced, certainly not the first time.  I'm sure if you beg him enough he'll accomodate.

• silverwhisper said on Jul 15, 2008....

  you really, really should try copious amounts of lube. i don't think most women would be able to do that without such assistance, to be honest.
  
  ed

• DaddysLittleSlut said on Jul 16, 2008....

  I was reading ownedgalbab's blog about fisting and i think it took a few weeks of training before her and Lord Kain were able to accomplish the level you're trying to reach in one night.  Interesting that you're trying to convince your Master that he wants it. (topping from the bottom much?)  Without your Master's training you would need to go with SeanRenaud & Silver's suggestions i'm sure.   Fisting crash course huh? yikes
  dls

• collared_whore said on Jul 16, 2008....

  i've read that having your partner use a well lubriated glove helps

• Ownedgalbabs said on Jul 19, 2008....

  Hi There:
  
  dls is fairly accurate.  Being able to receive a full fisting does take time, patience and a lot of lube.  Your Master needs to go very slowly at this.  In my case I have a rather long but narrowed vagina and Lord Kain has had to be very careful with me. 
  
  I find that it helps if I am in a reclining position and try to relax.  It is also a rare scene where "No" or "slow down" means exactly that.  Lord Kain watches my facial expressions and listens intently to my breathing as His guide.
  
  In the past, I'd had only one previous encounter with fisting and this other "dom" was not patient.  The result was that I suffered a tear on my cervix that left me unable to really even think about sex in general for some time.
  
  Be careful and go slow!
  
  Happy explorations!!!!
  
  babs
  xo
  

• his-slut said on Jul 19, 2008....

  Thanks for all the comments, sorry it's taken so long to reply.  The humidity here has been terrible and my hands are really giving me trouble, swelling, stiff painful joints, etc.

• his-slut said on Jul 19, 2008....

  DLS  i am guilty as charged, however after being together for 17 years i know what my Master/Husband likes, what pleases him, and i feel that it is my fault that this experience ended in failure.  i just want to continue so He can enjoy the experience once we succeed.

• DaddysLittleSlut said on Jul 19, 2008....

  thats cool - i hope you know i was just teasing - sometimes i get a bit cocky and it comes out badly.  I'm still avoiding the fisting thing so its more my own nervousness than anything.
  Very awesome that you've been together so long and are still discovering new ways to excite each other.

• Owner_Charles said on Jul 22, 2008....

  His/slut,
  there's no doubt that you'll get some excellent information from others here, but I found "Google" to be an exceptional source of information on fisting.  Neither Me nor My slave thought it to be possible but after learning all the "ins and outs" (no pun intended), we have accomplished this and I might add . . . with great pleasure.

• klajdi2 said on Jul 26, 2008....

  Give me a fucking break!

• Owner_Charles said on Jul 26, 2008....

  klajdi2,
    
        I googled your request and found no info to help,  perhaps a compound fracture might work for you.

• DaddysLittleSlut said on Jul 26, 2008....

  Welcome Owner_Charles,
  Its nice to see to be in the presence of a person worthy of respect.
  Thank You Sir
  Dls

• Abeni[Dr] said on Jul 28, 2008....

  I agree with everything that has been said, well with the exception of klajdi2. But if I may take a moment to first say. LMAO Owner_Charles. I loved that and am happy to make your acquaintance. I think you will fit right in. Okay now back to the fist. I am not a hundred percent sure everyone can even do it. I know for me just getting the the last knuckles of four fingers is a strain and I can literally feel him pressing against the bones, almost like they are being pushed apart. Although I would like to try it once, just for the experience. We, after a couple of month, have accepted that it just isn't in our bag. But then again, 4 fingers isn't bad at all. Good luck.

• Owner_Charles said on Jul 29, 2008....

  Abeni (Dr) and DaddysLittleSlut
  Thank you both for the warm welcome, it is greatly appreciated.
  As for the fisting, it was several months ago when I was reviewing my slaves journal that I saw an entry of her curiosity on fisting. A couple of months later I did some research on the matter and then put a plan into effect that would stretch over a week or so. On the night I believed that full entry was possible I placed a vibrator on her clit just as the knuckles were ready to enter, her cum was an earth shaking one
  I do truly enjoy taking her to places she's never been before, the places in our minds.
  I've been in a 24/7 TPE relationship for years and although I didn't think I was unique, it wasn't until recently that I became aware that there were many others who shared the same lifestyle . Wanting to see how they deal with every day life I came to the net. I found lots of info on 24/7 lifestyle but not many to share views with. I hope to post my thoughts soon.
  Anyway, I somehow found myself at His-slut's post on fisting. Although I wanted to share my experience what really caught my interest was that in two of her three posts she blamed herself as being at fault.. I returned twice to see if there was any response on her feelings of failure.
  His-slut, tell your Master how you feel so he can correct these thoughts. Second, ask your Master for permission to keep a journal. In this journal you can keep your most intimate feelings on fantasies, turn on's, punishments, disciplines etc, etc. You'll keep this journal in a place where your Master can review it at his will. Even the best of Masters have some difficulties in reading minds. I for one want to know everything I can about my slave, everything!
  
  Best regards Owner-Charles

• Owner_Charles said on Jul 29, 2008....

  OK, what happened to My neatly space paragraphs. Also when I try to navigate on this site to find out "how to" I keep getting messages stating   " 

  You are not authorized to view this page or you do not have permission

  Hey, "I don't need no stinkin permission" LOL ....YES you guess it, I'm a Bogart fan and Woodstock was awesome. I did change to compose to see if it helps on correct spacing

   

• Abeni[Dr] said on Jul 29, 2008....

  LOL  Owner_Charles. I have never been told that I couldn't view an area. But I do know that sometimes they have glitches in the system. Maybe it was just as simple as that.
   
  I hadn't really thought about the fact that no one offered correction for his-slut's "my fault" comments. I can only speak for myself, but I know when I was a sub, I felt a huge responsibility to achieve everything my Dom wanted from me. And, if I didn't I viewed it as a failure, but not one that left me feeling bad but rather one that made me more determined to get past that road block. I felt more of that coming from her comments. I may be wrong, and if I am I hope her Master corrected that.

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