What do you do when you're engaged and you find someone else that makes you happy?  You suck it up and be a man!  I wouldn't be engaged if I didn't have true feelings for her.  I wouldn't be happy with the other girl if she weren't great.  By the way, yes...she knows I'm engaged.  What do I do now?  I stay.  I love my fiancee.  Where does it say, however, that I can't have feelings for someone else as long as I am loyal and true to my wife?  There is no way I would ever cheat on her.

Sometimes life just sucks and you have deal with it.  This just happens to be one of those times.  Great.

Thanks for the input.