I spent over 40 dollars round trip to drive all the way up there for my sons to sit in their room where I am not allowed to go per our agreement. My daughter kept hitting me with a baton like stick despite my telling her it hurt and to please stop.
After almost an hour of sitting alone in the living room with just me and my ex, I called them out and asked them if they wanted me there and despite the understanding of their young ages I didn't drive up there on two hours of sleep to sit alone in the living room. They wanted me to leave, she wins again.
I told her to file the petition, she wins.