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Once you get married there are many things that you will need to adjust to. There are a lot of things that you are not used to sharing, consuming too much, or doing too much; that will change though once you tie the knot. If you think that things will stay the same you are mistaken and you are not prepared to get married. If you are interested in some of the things that you will need to get used to and that you will get used to then keep reading this article as I will talk about 5 of those things.

- More laundry
The laundry will never stop coming in when you're married. You will both get dressed in the morning, dressed after work, and possible even get changed for bed. Those are six pairs of clothes a day; trust me there will be a lot more laundry to do than when you were single. Most women will also have the job to this so remember to ask for help from your spouse if you need it; if he's hesitant then just talk about this calmly and explain that you can both pitch in.

- More worrying
When you get married the worrying will never stop. You will worry about health problems, money issues, each other's family, for one another's friends, for the relationship, for each other while you're at work, etc. The worries will never stop and you will need to get used to this and you will also have to learn to cope with it in a way where it doesn't stress you out and cause you to stress too much. If you're worried about something the best thing to do to help ease that worry is to talk to your spouse about it. You might have the same worries as he and so you can comfort each other.

- More cooking
Of course now you will not be able to go everyday on microwavable food or only one course meals. Now that you're married you will need to start cooking more and more often. Your husband wants to have a home cooked meal and you should be cooking it. If you feel that this should not only be your job then ask him to help. If he says no then make a deal; you cook, he cleans. Make him understand that you can't do it all. If he doesn't cook because he doesn't know how then encourage him to learn from you and to try things himself.

- Not being in full control
You will no longer be in full control of what happens to you once you're married to someone. That other person will have control over the things that happen in your life and that's something that you will get used to. It might take a while but if you have trust in the relationship then it shouldn't be that big of a deal. Just trust each other and make sure to keep each other in mind when making life altering decisions.

- Bathroom/Shower supplies will go faster
As silly as this might seem to some people, this is definitely something that you'll notice right away. Before the toothpaste, shampoo, soap, and toilet paper used to last you maybe a couple of weeks if not more and once you get married that's not the case. The toilet paper will run out almost each week depending on how much you get, the shampoo bottle will go by faster, and the toothpaste and soap will be used by two so they will also finish quicker. Make sure to make a pact to not use these things in a wasteful matter as using more bathroom/shower supplies means spending more money on them.


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  • cotterall&elaineadams said on Jul 14, 2008....
    If this is all there is to complain about, then it is obviously not that significant.  He can be told at anytime to do his own laundry and cooking.  She can refuse to do it.  She can refuse to marry him.

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