Tonight at a party m best friend decided to confront me about my having become more sensitive than she's used to me being. Frankly speaking, does the fact that I'm going through a breakup from someone I've been seeing for 3 years not allow me to be more sensitive? The examples I was given of my "sensitivity" didn't even make sense (it was about a rap song that I found offensive, which is something I would have voiced my opinion about regardless).  She said she was "annoyed" at my recent sensitivity.  There were a lot of other things she said that did somewhat mitigate the situation, but I am appalled that my best friend would confront me in such a way, in public, at a sensitive time like this.  On top of the hurt that I'm going through because of my break-up, I get to hurt because of this. She had told me a couple weeks ago, when I was just making the decision to finally end this relationship, that I should go to her more, when I needed to. And now that I have made myself vulnerable and have gone to her when I need someone as she has encouraged me to do, she throws it back in my face. She says she's happy that I am being myself, more sensitive if that is what I am at heart, and that she loves me and is there for me.  But why would she throw my sensitivity back in my face when I have a damn good reason to be!? When I need someone, once again people act unavailable! How in the world does she expect me to be able to go to her with anything, especially this, if I have to be concerned about being "too sensitive" for her. WTF!? I'm furious, and just distraught, betrayed.  Nothing left to say.