There's a part of me that is severely depressed over the idea that my body is nothing special. 3 billion other people have tits and ass just like me. My body, my sexuality, is replaceable by anyone else willing to step in and be the object instead.
I once got into a conversation with a guy who said that ultimately, a guy is with the woman whose pussy feels the best. End of story. The other day, I read a "scientific study" that said basically that it's not men's fault... They simply cannot control themselves when boobs are around or in sight. This news of course makes me self-loath and hate myself even more.
My boyfriend, however, gave me an alternative point. He says that it's not that a guy is simply with a woman because she feels the best, but that she feels the best because of the way HE feels about her. That made me think that maybe there is some love in the world.
He also said that many men transcend "animal urges" and can control themselves just fine when there are tits around (that one I'm still not sure about).
I feel that as a woman, I still don't have nearly the amount of control over myself as I'd like... Not simply at home, but everywhere. I hate hate hate objectification, but it seems to be everywhere (not just with women, but in all types of circumstances.) I don't know, I find it all depressing. It makes me not want to leave my house. If one more guy cat calls at me, I might just kick his fucking ass.
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everythingyouthink posted on Jul 05, 2008
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Lucytorial said on Jul 05, 2008....
Either that or pick your nose... it works for me every time honey! I had a very similar conversation with NotTheOfficeWhore... who like billions of women all over the world are attractive.. it gets to me too but then your partner is right. He's with you because of how he feels about you as well as in you, with you, around you, because of you and through you. Focus on the great things about life and this little thing called natural selection... tits and ass.... it isn't ever going away but you certainly have a head start with a smart man. -
everythingyouthink said on Jul 09, 2008....
Lucy-Thanks for your comment... You're right. -
Lucytorial said on Jul 09, 2008....
It still doesn't stop me from getting really pissed off though... I remember walking up to a guy once and said point blank to him;
My tits don't talk, they also don't have eyes if you want to say hello and not look like a total fool I suggest you behave like a human being and look at my face moron. The guy stuttered his way through a sorry then he tried to get away with staring at me again whilst doing so.... my response I picked my nose of course... his face dropped so quickly I laughed my proverbial off until I got home.
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whiteAngel. said on Jul 10, 2008....
..standing out by perfect body is impossible.There is always younger and sexier girl.You shouldn't try to impress your man with tits or ass.My close friend says that many women attract him only with appearance(though he thinks they are dull or annoying),and maybe because of the game itself.After he gets what he wants he losses any interest.It's so humiliating for the poor stupid whores(they are such...because no one lied to them,they knew what is expected from them-to get laid and to whip off)...so the perfect body is not the answer to keep the man you want,it's something you do for yourself,for your own self-confidence,because like everybody knows beauty is a feeling -
silverwhisper said on Jul 10, 2008....
actually, i've always felt that a person's sexuality--body & soul together--are most distinctly unique.
please don't let your experiences blind you to the fact that you are unique.
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