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I spent 20 or so years pursuing pornography in its horrendously  various forms. 

 In the years since I was set free  from this monstrously evil addiction in 1998, God has been helping me see and understand HIS  perspective on  the intrinsically malevolent and deleterious effects of  pornography on the human heart, mind and soul. 

 I created this blog posting  to share this enlightened  perspective with others  and also to  answer my critics who I’m sure are going to ask  the question, "What is so bad about pornography?" 

Well….to such people I reply:

 Overall, porn affects every viewer negatively, regardless of their  race, creed, gender or age.  

 Here is my list of reasons that explain why.

 

1)  Pornography feeds the atrocious  lust of the eyes and the reprehensible  lust of the flesh, which are insanely insatiable and quite simply  never satisfied. 

 It leaves the viewer craving more and more in order to achieve the same "sexual high." Hence, (like illegal drugs) it easily and inevitably  enslaves people to their own cravings and opens the door to other forms of evil, like anger, physical and sexual  abuse, violence, hatred, lying, envy, compulsiveness and selfishness. 

  The power behind porn is revealed when the porn addict tries to stop their habit - it is virtually impossible to do this  without help.  

 

2)  Pornography sexualizes the viewer's mindset.  

 It warps and perverts their perspective on virtually everything, so that perverted   sex is unnaturally elevated in their thoughts.  

Worse yet, porn's images are stamped into viewer's  brain’s  with the aid of hormones released during sexual arousal, so even if a person decides to stop looking at porn, the past images that they’ve viewed and remember  can remain in their minds for years  there after or even remain etched on their memories for a lifetime.

 

3)  Pornography promotes destructive practices and can lead to progressive addiction to perversions the viewer was previously unaware of or uninterested in. 

 For example, porn sites routinely link viewers to depictions of every type of sexual perversion imaginable, such as child porn, homosexuality, bestiality, necrophilia (sexual interest in corpses), masochism (pleasure from abuse or suffering), rape and sadism (gratification from inflicting physical or mental pain on others). 

 The unwary  viewer's exposure to such themes naturally increases the likelihood that they may attempt to act out what they've viewed. 

This can lead to sexual crimes, a la the late Ted Bundy and Gary Ridgway (The Green River Killer). 

 

 

4)  Pornography intensifies an individual's drive to serve oneself, rather than serve others. 

 For example, masturbation, which typically accompanies looking at pornography reinforces a self-centered sexual orientation (i.e. lust), which can detract from a person's ability to give and receive love.

 

 

5)  Pornography addiction can lead to debt. 

The convenience of credit card transactions on the internet encourages covert spending without limit. 

Additionally, pornographers flood common internet areas with enticing banner ads ("teasers") and spam email, which bait potential viewers with free porn. 

 Once lured by the free porn to the site, the viewers must then pay to see more.  

 

6)  By viewing and/or purchasing porn, viewers are supporting the porn industry and facilitating its growth. 

 By viewing porn, the viewer is also contributing to the sexual exploitation of whoever or whatever is in the images he or she is viewing.

 

 

7)  Looking at porn can damage the viewer's family relationships, not to mention increasing the chance of his or her spouse and/or  children finding the material. 

 Porn may also inspire the viewer to explore incest, which is a common porn theme (WHICH CAN BE FOUND RIGHT HERE ON SOULCAST TOO.)

  Other thing’s porn may inspire in the viewer (which could in turn affect their family) include sexual frustration, lying, abuse, affairs, debt, violent behavior and irrational thinking. 

 

8) Looking at porn at work could damage the viewer's reputation, decrease his or her  productivity and lead to job loss. 

 It could also inspire unhealthy and/or inappropriate relationships with co-workers.

 

9)  Looking at porn can damage the viewer's current or future marriage sex life. 

Porn viewers may find that it's difficult to enjoy true intimacy with their spouse when they're fantasizing about somebody else! 

 Additionally, porn builds an unrealistic perception of sexual relations. 

 Porn sex is a portrayal or an act made for the viewer's enjoyment.  It takes what God intended as a private expression of love between a husband and wife and prostitutes it for entertainment. 

When a person has been looking at sexual pictures of other people for entertainment, he or she will have a downgraded value of sex.  This in turn will detract from  their appreciation and value of sex with their spouse.

 

10)  Looking at porn will increase the viewer's tendency to lie, because he or she will have a natural desire to keep it secret to avoid criticism, embarrassment, shame and/or having to surrender their habit.

 

11)  Looking at porn can lead a person into masturbation addiction.

 

12)  Looking at porn brings serious spiritual consequences. 

For  example, it opens the doorway to spiritual oppression and confusion in the viewer's life. 

The power behind pornography is inherently evil.  It seeks to control and dominate the viewer's life, while allowing other forms of evil to gain influence over that person. 

 Once a person starts looking at  porn, their eyes become the gateway for the evil power to enter them. 

 As it gains influence, the evil can numb the viewer's ability discern right and wrong , and as traditional moral values are blurred, confusion sets in.  

13)    Looking at porn helps you start to believe the lies it promotes. 

 Examples  of such  lies include:

  • Sexual freedom = happiness
  • Perverted sex (homosexual sex, incest, BDSM, etc) is more enjoyable than "normal" heterosexual sex
  • There are no consequences to sexual promiscuity
  • Sexual expression is a right, not a God-given or God-defined gift
  • You can live a healthy life with the porn images floating around in your mind
  • Porn doesn't harm anyone
  • Sex is something to be done primarily for self gratification
  • The porn stars are the happiest people on earth
  • Adults can view porn without any lasting side effects
  • Porn will help your sex life
  • Porn is just a harmless thing that everybody looks at

 



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  • SeanRenaud said on Jul 04, 2008....
    Most of your reasons are bullshit.  I'll group them and try to make snese of it cus you write with the clarity of a twelve year old.
     
    Reasons 1,2,3,7, 9 and 13 are all the same point reworded slightly.  They are all based on the assumption that watching porn makes you a pervert which is patently false.  Even if it did a world with more sex is better than a world with more violence but you're not decrying WWE.
     
    Reason 4 defines human nature.  Sorry we're selfish critters has less than nothing to do with porn.
     
    Reasons 5 and 11 are the same just reworded.  The reality is that there are people with weak minds who cannot control themselves.  Given porn they will buy so much they'll go into debt, lose their jobs and masturbate 24/7.  Taken to a casino this same person will gamble away their life (Chinese people are particularly vulnerable to that particular vice) given liquor they will drink until homeless and given a hobby like minature trains they will stay in the basement and spend thousands upon thousands on minatures and painting.   Some people are just weak.
     
    Reason 6 means nothing. 
     
    Reason 7 and ten are the same and silly.  It doesn't inspire incest (which is no where near as harmful as it's rumored to be)  If your worried about your spouse finding your porn your already in a bad relationship and need out.  You're kids shouldn't be splunking through your belongings.
     
    Reason 8 and 10 are  related to 5 and 11.  Why would you be watching porn at work?  You could say the EXACT same thing bout portable gaming systems like the Nintendo DS.  There is a time and place for everything and work isn't the place.  People who can't figure that on their own are already damaged.
     
    12.  Well I dont' believe in God
     
    13.  You reword reasons 1-12 which are often rewritten from earlier ones.  Gods I hope you don't make this easy the entire time.
     
     
  • LENNY said on Jul 04, 2008....

    Sean Renaud

     

    You are the spawn of Satan!

     

    There exists a symbiotic relationship between you and all the pedophiles, porn writers and other assorted perverts here on Soulcast.

     

    You make it easier for such people to justify the filth they write about here!

     

     

  • anonymous said on Jul 04, 2008....
    You born-again types are always the biggest hypocrites.


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  • FRIT77 said on Jul 04, 2008....

    Anonymous you are 100% CORRECT!

    I also believe that there is such a thing as bible based pedophilia....

    After all, God himself impregnated    Mary with a baby when she was only 12 years old!

    If God has sex with children, how can we, mere human beings, condemn child loving as wrong???

    And Jesus himself was a pedophile!

    After all, did not our Lord say "suffer the little children to come on to me?"

    Jesus used the word "suffer" because he was referring to the penile penetration of children....

    So, God (in Christ) not only permits pedophilia....He commands it!  

    And Abraham had sex with his two daughters’ according to the book of Genesis...

    And since God never condemned Abraham for these acts of incestuous sex, it is quite clear that God approves of incest too!

    People like Lenny just DO NOT understand the sound scriptural reasoning you and I are using here…. 

    Most so called “Christians” don’t understand, the bible based arguments for pedophilia and incest…..  

    But I (FRIT77) DO see what you are saying, and I   salute your wisdom! 

     

     

  • LENNY said on Jul 06, 2008....

    The only reason I am permitting the two comments above to remain on this posting, is to show people how perverts try to twist the meaning of the bible to justify their evil ways....   

     

    Both Frit &  Anonymous deserve to be shot!

     

    Sean Renaud  , should just be locked up and desexualized.

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