• Wish_Upon_A_Star said on Jul 03, 2008....

  are you serious? 

• queenparanoia said on Jul 03, 2008....

  if you know the answer please share... i have the same problem...

• cockzilla said on Jul 04, 2008....

  you need to build up confidence in yourself first because even if you get into another relationship, you won't value yourself as you should and the guy will read that and probably take you for granted since he will think no matter what he does you won;t leave him. there are a lot of guys into big women btw so don't think we all like skinny chicks

• Scarlett said on Jul 04, 2008....

  Thanks for your answers.  In spite of sounding pathetic in this post, I really am confident in myself:
  
  I am attractive, smart, sexy, funny, have great hair, skin, smile, eyes, breasts and legs....but those things get overlooked.  When I drop 40 pounds I look better but am the same person.  Men LOVE me at that weight, but I can't keep it off without strict diet and exercise but because of fibromyalgia that wipes me out...
  
  I just want someone to look past the 40 lbs. 
  
  
  
  

• BurnedOut said on Jul 05, 2008....

  For me, honestly, it's not about the size, it's all about how a girl carries herself.  Even if a model walks down the street, if she can't carry herself well, sexy, or whatever you wanna call it....it doesn't really do it for me.  don't get me wrong, I'm still gonna look...but I would definitely take a bigger girl that knows how to carry herself. 
   
  Any girl, regardless of size, who knows how to laugh and have a good time....that is one of the sexiest things for me!!  You sound really attractive already and i mean that. 

• hinana said on Jul 06, 2008....

  well scarlett ( love the name) if the plethora of men you date cant look past that, then THEY (and not you) are not worth it.
  think of it that way..all that good stuff about you you listed..its ot you whos missig out on it..its them..so if u lose the weight great..but if you find a guy who loves you without losing it..and then lose it..well even better right?

• Wish_Upon_A_Star said on Jul 07, 2008....

  I'm sorry.  Maybe it is different where i live, but plenty of bigger women have men here. Like burnedout said it is about the way you carry yourself, the confidence. And honestly it is most likely men who have the issues not you.
  And i am sorry the way the first post came out, i couldn't tell if it was serious or meant to be funny .
  

• 007Hardone said on Jul 17, 2008....

  I find a lady is not to be judged by her size. Her qualities and ability to make me happy comes first. Some of the most beautiful women do have extra pounds and that only adds to their desirireability,

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