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okay...just so you know, im going to be a college freshman and earlier in the year, i was deciding on what college i wanted to attend (or possibly continue after i get my degree) and there's an art university i really want to go to...
 
but it's clear across the country...now i told myself that i wouldnt let a boy get in the way of pursuing my dreams, but im in love with my boyfriend. And i truly do love him and he loves me. Since i am young, you may think "you dont know what you're talking about" or "you're too young to know what love is"...even if that is true, i still love him.
 
i really want to go to that college sometime in the future. now, my personal belief is that long-distance relationships won't last and are just plain bad news. but even with though i believe that, i don't want to break up with my boyfriend. i talked to him about this and he said that he wants me to go and that we'll try and work it out...even with that said, i still had a bad feeling things will go wrong...
 
what should i do?? im so confused...
 
[thank you for reading and commenting (if you did). and also, thanks for taking the time in trying to help with my problems. i truly appreciate it]


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  • WalterMitty said on Jun 28, 2008....
    Go.
    1. If it's meant to last it will. This will require a special level of work and trust on both of your parts...but if it's meant to last it will.
     
    2. You need to focus on all aspects of your future. If it does work out-you're miles ahead, it's win-win.   If it doesn't, and you delay or skip college you will be angry, which is a lose-lose situation.
     
    Change is terrifying but worth it.
     
    What happens if you don't take risks in life...nothing. 
    Except regret.for what you SHOULD have done.
     
  • blueskye said on Jun 29, 2008....
    rock angel, I say go now.  follow your dream.  everything will work out as it supposed to.  I know that is hard to believe right now.  think of your future. if you do not go, as wm said, you will regret it.  good luck with your decision.
  • secretlife said on Jul 01, 2008....
    i'm a mother of 3 teenagers, my oldest heading off to college in a few months.  her boyfriend of the past 2 years will be  heading off across the country.
     
    you have to follow your dream honey-  it's just something you have to do for YOU.
    these types of chances don't come often in your lifetime, and take it from someone who knows, the sacrifices you make today in the name of "love" will become resentments and disappointments in the future.  you must be your own person and live your own life before you can promise to spend it with someone else, or make sacrifices so great for another-
    if this is true love, and meant to be "forever" love, then somehow the two of you will stay in touch, and continue forward...despite the distance- 

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