The last couple of days has been really full on for me, work mostly and emotions of health yadda yadda. I haven't been sleeping well, so last night - my Friday - I was shagged. I just wanted to have one glass of wine, dinner and go to bed early AS IN VERY EARLY.....
My sister phone, she's going to court to finalise her divorce on Tuesday and she's stressed. For the last year you could say she's been introduced to the real world. She has had to get a job (never had one before) take care of her two boys and pay bills, make money last, take care of everything! Its been hard for her, along with the fact her ex is being a prat about the whole divorce situation, he wants to give her nothing ~ Seriously nothing and he wants her to take care of the kids without child support ~ Twat as I said, calls her nasty names, assaulted her in front of their kids... just plain bullshit.
Now she has this thing where she thinks because I've been through so much I will be able to help her deal with the stres.... errr what? well I can offer advice but I don't feel like I can cope too well myself with stress however she called last night in a total dither! talkingrealfastliketheskywasfalling on her head...
It was nice that she called in her words "Honey your the ony one I know who says "who gives a fuck" and means it and everything turns out okay, I love ya sis and I just need to be reminded" I almost started crying because she really leant on me last night, it was lovely also hard.
Its like over the last year our roles as siblings has reversed, she's the younger one needing a little guiding, I'm the older one with experience that she wants to know about.
Has anyone been through this with their siblings before? its strange in a really lovely way.
