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I put up a post asking an honest question, and I get a bunch of (what I believe to be )
steroptyping and racist remarks.
 
I put that post back into Draft mode.  Perhaps, there still is a back door into it, and if it is, feel free to say all you want, but I will not Post it PUBLIClY.
 
And if you want to hurt my feelings even more so, I guess you can smear this one as well, and I will put it back into Draft.
 
The purpose of this post is not about racism or stereotyping.
 
The purpose of this post is to let you know how disappointed and hurt I am with comments on that post....   If you would like to apologize, that would be appreciated....even if you do it anonymously.....
 
Update!
I have re-editied the post I am referring to and deleted offensive remarks, and have re-posted it!....Thank you!....


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  • uniquely-ironic said on Jun 24, 2008....
    CB, I saw the original post and I gotta say, even though it was posed as a question, it contained comments or quotes that were in poor taste.  Even if they were not your comments it is my feeling that if you put them on the web or out in public you should expect some harsh words.  That is why I did not comment.
     
    I'm sorry your feelings were hurt, but perhaps you can take away the lesson that words of hatred that are put forth for discussion will almost certainly result in someone getting hurt.
  • starchini said on Jun 24, 2008....

    Im sorry u were hurt...i dont recall the post ur speaking about so i dont think i read or commented on it and im sorry for that too...If i woulda read it chances are good i would have been polite. 

  • starchini said on Jun 24, 2008....
    maybe, i dont know...test me....put er back up and let me have a whack at it : > 
  • crybabylu said on Jun 24, 2008....
    U-I---I think you are right.  It was not good judgement on my part!  Didn't realize that till I got so many disappointing comments.  Thank you for telling me this.  I really appreciate it!....:-)=dee.
  • crybabylu said on Jun 24, 2008....
    starchini----you  have always been thoughtful and polite on my posts, and I have always appreciated it. Thanks!....:-)=dee.
  • Mamie said on Jun 24, 2008....
    I am sorry your feelings are hurt. I do not know what blog you had up with bad stuff on it, but I do know it is easy to feel the pinch if someone you like is critical or mean. Hang in there. People love ya!! me too!!
  • SeanRenaud said on Jun 24, 2008....
    Hi!  I'm here to not apologize.  If I hurt your feelings you should have steered them well clear of my interests!  If I didn't hurt your feelings then uh, I'm glad you have thick skin.
  • crybabylu said on Jun 24, 2008....

    Mamie---Thank you, it is alright, I'm fine now!

    Sean----You didn't hurt my feelings at all!  You are honest and direct, but rarely hurtful!  Thank you for responding!

  • crybabylu said on Jun 24, 2008....

    Hottips  (Jessi)  posted on that post I am referring to in case you saw her comments, ....I want you to know I found nothing offensive at all about her comments either!  Hers was straightford and insightful as always.  She was not the one I am referring to in this post,... ...

    Just so you all know!

    Thanks to Sean and PapaJack and Jessi for their remarks on that post.  I appreciated them.....dee

  • crybabylu said on Jun 24, 2008....

    I just now went back and re-read the post in question, and I can see by my leading off with offensive remarks, sparked some of the dialogue that ensued, so I am editing that post and re-posting it.

    There was only one person who I thought their remarks were unacceptable, and I am deleting his. All of the rest went in line with the text.

    Fallyn, Duke, Expendble, Cuppajava, -ocean-  -----I appreciate you taking the time to comment on that post and for being polite and respectful in your comments.....

    Thanks again.....

    :-)=dee

  • sheltercrow said on Jun 25, 2008....
    Point do you have a point? You and fractured flicker you call your husband are not amusing I gag.
  • crybabylu said on Jun 25, 2008....
    sheltercrow----Sorry you feel that way, I truly am.  Let me know when my friend gets back in his own mind and body.  I miss him....
  • sheltercrow said on Jun 25, 2008....
    Not to be apostate but the sheer concern of others is what?
  • sheltercrow said on Jun 25, 2008....
    If there is one thing that is lacking here it is understanding of others.
  • crybabylu said on Jun 25, 2008....
    I admit, I don't understand racism or hatred.
  • SeanRenaud said on Jun 25, 2008....
    I really don't see how anybody could not understand racism when it's such an ingrained part of who we are.  I have a difficult time grasping hatred myself, but I have an equally difficult time grasping love in the way that most people seem to define it
  • starchini said on Jun 25, 2008....
    Like the age old saying sean, there is a fine line between love and hate...they are one in the same.  Ill agree i dont understand either, but i know ive felt both...

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i had a very interesting conversation today.....

all about the astrological signs and everything.... not sure i totally buy it.... but it brought up very very good points.

the boyfriend and i are very very compatible when it come...
I wear this crown of shit
Upon my liar's chair
Full of broken thoughts
I cannot repair
Beneath the stains of time
The feelings disappear
You are someone else
I am still right here...
*curls up into a ball and tries to shake away the pain*...
My words, my thoughts....