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Ok, so I read starchini's post of "I have" and decided to follow her lead and post my own sordid past (if it really is I can't say)
Do I regret what i have done? not really, I'm alive and headed in the right direction in life.
most if not all happened while I was in the USMC when I was young and dumb and oh so fucking horny LOL

I was single and led a very different life than I lead now.
Some of the things I write are current which you'll notice as u read them.
The list is not in any particular order and if u want details, u can ask in a comment and I'll answer it.
I do not write this list to be judged or to brag or to even be commented (tho comments are always welcomed)
What will follow has never been spoken of in any shape or form until now.
These deeds have been kept hidden and locked away from every soul till now.
1. I love strip clubs...not sure but I may be addicted
2. I have touched strippers while getting lapdances
3. I have had sex with strippers (outside the club)
4. I have had strippers give me hand jobs
5. I have had sex with 12 partners
6. I have recieved a blow job or hand job from 8 others not included in the 12
7. I have been around pot and coke heads but have only done pot twice
8. I have stolen food, comics, school supplies and toys
9. I have been to Thailand
10. I have been to Canada
11. I have had anal sex 3 times(my cock in her ass u freaks)
12. I have had sex in a dressing room
13. I have gotten road head
14. I have masturbated today ;-)
15. I have masturbated on webcam for someone to watch
16. I have watched someone masturbate on cam
17. I have had phone sex
18. I have my current gf saying she is my dirty lil slut/whore and she loves it.
19. I have never cheated on a serious relationship
20. I have taken pics of an ex naked and posing for me.

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  • DaddysLittleSlut said on Jun 21, 2008....
    Is that everything?  ; ) you aren't holding out a few more dirty little secrets that you don't like to admit to yourself are you.  I'd love to hear a story about going from watching a stripper to sleeping with one.  Being the proper lady most of my life, I've never been to a strip club.  Being to fat and discreet to become one I can only fantasize what it would be like to experience turning on a whole room full of men with my body.  If it pleased you to write about of course.
    Thank You,
    dls
  • phoenix_paradigm said on Jun 22, 2008....

    dls: I'll tell u about the first time. strip clubs do have some of the most beautiful women working in them. I happened to walk in to one a lil before the regular crowd came in, there were about 6 girls walking around...checking out the customers most likely, lol. anyways there was this one blonde (I have thing for blondes,dont know why every girl I've been with has been a brunette except one, lol) and she noticed I was eyeing her - she was about 5'4, nice big tits, long long blonde hair wearing, I'm guessing about 4 inch heels and these lace booty shorts, u know the ones where just the bottom of the girls ass is showing... very sexy. she came n sat with me and started rubbing my leg (usually this has no affect on me as its just a ploy to get stimulated and say yes to a lapdance)but she was just gorgeous and extremly friendly...and we talked a bit not once did she act like she wanted money (maybe that was her ploy) but I just hadto ask for a dance...so we went back to the booths where she began to dance for me...mind u I dont intiate touching that could be trouble ... but she grabbed my hands and put em on her ass as she bent over and began to sway back and forth .... loved that ass, it was smooth and round and just the right amount to smack and watch jiggle just a bit... I was hard in an instant and I guided her down to where she was basically humping me through mypants .... she leaned back putting her head on my shoulder and kept grinding on my cock, I then started caressing her tits and her nipples were so hard, she started to moan and go faster and faster pressing her ass into my cock.......I just wanted to fuck her so bad.... I reached down between her legs and her panties were soaked...
    right then the lapdance ended the song was over...we were both hot and she was outta breath...
    never had I gotten a dance where a dancer was so into it... she wanted to keep going (I wasn't gonna pay over and over...for more dances, thats how u go broke!! lol
    so we went and sat back down and cooled off and we talked and hit it off...and she decided we should fi nish what we started. she hadbeen working all day and had planned working 2 shifts but now was horny enough that she was gonna leave early...with me. we left and I followed her to a hotel not far from the club. once inside she sat me down and gave me a lapdance and then pulled out my cock and began grinding on it...threw on a condom and she sat on it reverse cow girl and went to town while I fondled her tits and helped her bounce on me...we were there for a couple of hours and I think i came like 5 times and she came like 8 or 9 times...Definitely some of the best sex I had...
  • starchini said on Jun 23, 2008....
    omg!  Phoenix!  Im so surpised!  Actually no im not...Most men have slept with strippers, ive recently learned this...My boyfriend admitted to me that he had a threesome with a stripper...I was pissed...Even though it was like ten years ago it still makes me feel dirty because ive slept with him too.  Plus, i dont know i just dont like the idea that my boyfriend has fucked a stripper.  Ewwww....So im a little disapointed in u for that.  But ah well...Good list...just reading urs i thought of about a zillion other things ive done...its hard for the list to ever be complete...maybe ill go edit mine now : P 
  • starchini said on Jun 23, 2008....
    Despite people trying to reverse the old stereotype that all strippers are whores and are only young women trying to pay there way through school i refuse to believe.  I know 6 men, personally, all pretty good guys that have fucked strippers...they are indeed just whores...that number doesnt include all the random men ive heard in my lifetime talk about fucking a stripper...if i included the ones ive only "heard about" that number 6 jumps to atleast 40...and i dont know that many people so that average is quite high....anyways, im just glad u wore protection.  Ewww....
  • DaddysLittleSlut said on Jun 23, 2008....
    Thanks Phoenix, that's a pretty hot story.  Strippers have the bodies and the moves.  I don't know why anyone wouldn't be turned on by them.
     
    Starchini, why so grossed out?  She's using protection.  Is it just that someone has had sex with many partners?  There's a good book to read called "The Ethical Slut"  you will probably disagree with it completely but, maybe it could help explain a different point of view to you so you can at least not be so grossed out by it.  Your boyfriend really sounds like alot of fun how did you two get together....just teasing really.
  • phoenix_paradigm said on Jun 23, 2008....
    true to the contrary many strippers (in my experience) do enjoy what they do to a degree...do i believe them to be dirty ass hookers?...no, lol
     
    the majority of strippers can't afford to be non discreet tho cuz many places do have undercover cops looking exactly for that type of stripper, so the amount of guys "confessing" to being with strippers to me is nothing more than someone "trying" to brag to being with a stripper and not as high as u may think...and this is coming from a guy who lives in a big city of stripper clubs - los angeles.
     
    and its rare that a stripper is gonna go home with anyone for free. especially when they can make thousands from paying patrons.
    (i really wish i had proof, but my experiences with strippers were done free of charge, if u don't count hotel charges, lol)
     
     
  • starchini said on Jun 23, 2008....

    well daddy's little slut...ive seen some pretty ugly strippers...maybe in the great big cities they are hot but where i come from they are regular chics.  Pretty much anyone who wants to be a stripper can be.  Stripping being their career of choice.  Not to mention they dont get paid a quarter of what the big city strippers get paid.  So this is why i think they are dirty whores, bc they are.  Like i said- not all of them.  But all of the ones ive seen where no hotter than any other chic, just much looser.  Im the one that brought Phil out of his shell, remember that when u think he is the fun one.  : >  We met at the bar, our mutual friends hooked us up. 

    Phoenix, of course u dont want to believe they are dirty sluts, u slept with them, u want to think u are the only one and are special and that whoever u took to the hotel had never gone home with a patron before.  Id tell myself that too...And no i dont know anyone that has ever "bragged" about being with a stripper.  Usually his buddies rat him out and he gets shit for it the rest of his life.  Very few men i know have slept with a stripper and not regretted it.  Mostly they go straight to the doc and get an std screening, even when they are safe they are still paranoid.  But hey, maybe where u are from the strippers really are classy and virginal...i think that is only on the coast...I think all land bound strippers are disgusting...Ive been to many titty bars and have been grossed out completly...They dont know how to dance and are oogly...If ur wondering why i have frequented them if i dont like them, its because they are funny as hell and make me feel super hot.  haha...

    Naw, on the level though, i dont have anything against strippers personally, to each there own.  I know some are good girls, but none that i have met.  I am a cosmetologist, i worked at a salon a block away from a strip club, i did stripper hair almost every evening and got to know many of them quite well...  i was no impressed. 

    Ive just recently developed a grudge against strippers, having found out my boyfriend fucked one.  Its disturbing to me. 

  • phoenix_paradigm said on Jun 23, 2008....
    which is why my gf, will never know that history of mine.
     
    i'm not naive, i don't doubt that she's had sex with others outside the club.
    but like i said, why is a stripper gonna waste her time being slutty for free when she can make thousands staying in the club and getting wealthy patrons to pay her? 
     
    maybe it is a coast thing where money is priority uno and sex is secondary in stripperland. u ever come out to cali give me a call and i'll direct to you to the hot clubs lol
  • starchini said on Jun 24, 2008....
    haha, ok will do Phoenix. 

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