ok so a while back someone posted a blog annoucing that they are a sexual being, and i appauld them & they have inspired me to do the same!
i am a sexual being and i am not ashamed! i am proud
so me & my friend were talkin about how society & even music dictates how we dress...society somewhat tells you if your into hip hop then u should where baggy clothes or if your into roc then you should wear tight pants( even if your a guy) but what if you're into everything? then what r u suppose to do... dress how you want right.. well thats what ive been doin.. & ive only been dressin a certain way & have decided to change up the way i dress.. & let ppl think or assume what they want
ok confession: ok so i consider myself to dress somewhat conservatively, & i think most of my frens would agree... i don't like showin a lot of skin, i dont always wear the latest fashion i just find what is cute & comfortable to me & i wear it... now here is the little twist to how i dress...my underwear has been known to hang out quite often, now i dont go around with my thong raised up to my waist... but if i happen to bend over or if my paints are a little loose & my cute underwear is showing.. i dont mind... but of course i am mindful of it when im in a professional settin... but otherwise i let it show
now some of you may be thinkin... & my fren pointed it out to me that this might give ppl that dont noe me the wrong idea...that i am a certain way when im not.... but i say 4get that... if some1 is gonna judge me by how i dress then i dont need them in my life...
& i like my underwear to show from time to time because it allows me to show my sexual side without being to out there.. or without showing to much...
there are so many unwritten rules to society that it can restrict us from being who we are... so i say forget that & make up ur own rules... 1 of the reasons i love christina aguerila is becuz she isnt afaird to show her sexual side... & yet she is a great person, a great mother, and a great artist... & when every1 was talkin about her when her dirrty video came out...she is one of the most down to earth artist out there because she isnt afaird to show & me who she is...
well thats me & what i think... so what do u think?
Thinker89 posted on Jun 17, 2008
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uniquely-ironic said on Jun 18, 2008....
Nothing wrong with dressing in things you find attractive and comfortable as long as they don't offend others. I know a lot of people say it's none of their business, but really, is it that big a deal to dress so that you don't attract unwanted attention? I think people should dress to fit the occaision, such as something nice for a dinner out, sweats at home, etc. -
Thinker89 said on Jun 18, 2008....
yea i agree... i think u should dress according to how u feel but be mindful of the occasion & the enviroment..so that way u dont affend n e 1 but u still can be comfortable
thanks uniquely ironic
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