• collared_whore said on Jun 11, 2008....

  H there.  In terms of the 24/7 aspect, i am not currently able to be 24/7 with my Master, but W/we have done O/our own  version of it.  W/we created a set of rules for me to follow: i've posted them here on my blog and you might want to take a look at them for some ideas to incorporate into your version of 24/7 (or not, lol).  Also, in terms of anal training, i was close to an anal virgin when my Master and i met.  He began my anal training as you are doing, by utilizing butt plugs, small at first and then increasing in size. He would have me start with a small one, keep it in for a set time every night, and then increase the time until i could tolerate 3 hours and then He would start the training over again with a larger plug.  It didn't take that long, and it worked really well as i can now take--and love--a really hard anal fucking, and am able to cum from anal alone.  Have fun training!

• DaddysLittleSlut said on Jun 11, 2008....

  Hi His_Slut,
  I too am learnning about anal but i lucked out and a guy on line helped me.  He was very patient and had me gently insert something fingersized, get used to it, and then gradually work up from there.  So, when i was able to be with Master, He could take me anal-ly (sp?) and make me cum ; ).
  Since then i found this post Anal Sex and Intercourse right here on SoulCast.  I like it because it shows the patience involved when you have a sensitive hiney like we do.  I haven't worked up to a good pounding or to really craving it yet but, i notice now that when i masturbate, i'm rubbing around that area and i never was before. 
  I was feeling terrible for having this hard limit. Overcoming it taught me that i don't need hard limits with Master anymore though.  His gentleness and compassion during all this really showed me that i can trust Him completely.  And learning something that pleased Him so much makes me feel really good.  I am motivated to please Him in anyway He desires.
  Sorry for rambling - it was a late night at work and i'm all keyed up
  dls

• blogslut said on Jun 12, 2008....

  We've never really had hard limits.
   
  We spoke about what we liked and what we didn't, and the things that both of us put in the dislike column, or not overly fond of column, that became mutually agreed limits. Such as excessive pain, although we've been developing that part of our relationship more as of late and have both started to garnish more enjoyment out of it.
   
  But, with regard to hard limits, we discuss them and agree limits of what I feel like I don't want to do, but it is never a complete no go area, it's more an agreement for him to take it easy and not push that limit too hard, but in the end, slowly and over time, he's pretty much broken down most of the limits I've ever self-imposed upon myself. There's still a few to go, but while it's a no from me right now, I've always said it may not be a no forever.
   
  Blogslut xx
   

• submissivepet101 said on Jun 14, 2008....

  Hi! I'm new to this site. But i was happy to see someone going through the same experience as me. I also am try to get used to anal to please my Master. It's hard isn't it? But it's worth it just to know that they're pleased and proud. I think the anal plug is a good idea. Like a training bra for the ass lol. Sorry I'm a dork!
  It's nice to know marriage and kids is possible in the D/s lifestyle. I'm in my first D/s relationship and I'm feeling my way through the first few months. Its cool how we're in almost completely different situation but experiencing some of the same things. Ok I blabbed enough! :-)

• his-slut said on Jun 15, 2008....

  Thanks for all the comments guys. It's great to know that others have been/are in a similar position and what worked/works for them. Yesterday we purchased a jelly double dong for me to start training for deep throating. I really don't care for the taste of cum so I thought this might be a way to get around it. I found a website that gave detailed instructions on how to practice until you are able to do it. They said to use the dd as it is about the size of an average penis and you can measure how much you can take. So now I have my next goal to work towards.

• Abeni[Dr] said on Jun 16, 2008....

  his-slut,
   
  You were a good girl to not only see a desire of your Master, but to also push yourself to work towards meeting that goal. I can completely understand just how proud and happy you must have made him, and I am sure your reward will be a good one. Again, well done.
   
  Now for the anal part and rules part. As many know, for my Husband only, I am submissive. We have talked about doing it 24/7 but found it to be impractical for us, but we do it as much as possible. Yes, when we started off we had limits, and it may surprise you but NO ANAL was one of mine. It was not only a limit but one I had engraved in stone, bronzed and anything else I could think of. LOL. This was two years ago. Over time and though discussions it became a soft limit that I was willing to explore, but reserved the right to put it on the hard list again if I needed. Now it is on the "please do" list. Ha ha. I think limits are important when you are starting out and building the relationship. My Master is my Husband too, but you still need to have a deep trust to do the D/s and well taking it slow at the beginning is good for learning the life, each other and building trust. As we grew the limits began just fading out, becoming more like grey areas that maybe we just needed to discuss or research on rather then making an absolute no. I am not sure at this point if we do have any limits. They just kind of faded as we grew together. So if you feel like you need the safety net of a few limits to enable you to relax and learn and truly experience this lifestyle, then that is not, in my opinion, an awful thing. Just occasionally re-examine yourself and your limits, and above all else, keep that line of communication open with your Husband/Master.
   
  Now for the anal. Yes, it hurts at first. Doing the anal plug as you are doing is a great thing. In time the pain does go down greatly. And, it does turn into a slight pain that is actually erotic. When we started all I could take was a finger for a few months, then a few months of a small butt plug followed by a few months of a medium. When he entered my ass for the first time, I honestly felt as though I was going to tear from stem to stern, but of course I didn't. At first it seemed like more time went into getting me lubed and loosen enough for him then it did in actually having anal sex. But He still found it pleasing. You need to remember to relax as he is entering. Yes, I know that is easier said then done, but it does make all the difference. I still have to remind myself to relax when he enters. Now if we are having regular vaginal sex, my own lubrication is all we need to transistion to the ass, and he enters slowly, but once in, woohoo bombs away boys. It will get better, and I am willing to bet that you will begin to like it and want it too. My Master told me two years ago, he wanted me to love it enough to beg for it........... and I do.  
   
  Good luck, and I hope this helped.

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