But you don't have to live with your friends. And you don't have to have the same dialogue with them. I mean, I don't have to obey. Our marriage vows were "love, honor and obey" - sorry, I can't do that.

I think that is the weird thing - we don't hate each other, I just no longer like him or live him the way I did. As a friend I could cope. I'd just see him on occasions. Oh, well.

This week has some interesting possibilities. I'll see what happens.