• kittykat{A} said on Jun 11, 2008....

  Hi his-slut
  i can't really answer the question as i don't live in a 24/7 relationship with my Master and have a completely separate vanilla life away from Him, but i just wanted to drop by and say hi and welcome :-)
   
  As for incorporating things into your daily routine though, perhaps finding the opportunity to sit on the floor at His feet, which can be done even when the children are present for instance, when watching the TV together in the evenings. Or wearing specific clothes / underwear (or not)  as instructed by Him, or that He likes, knowing that it pleases Him, or perhaps wearing clamps under loose fitting clothing for a certain period of time. Do you have a collar? As wearing a collar or day collar all of the time would also be a permanent reminder of your D/s relationship.
   
  Just a few suggestions, dont know if they are what you are looking for though. Off to read your other posts...
   
  take care,
  kk
  x

• MistressDena2770 said on Jun 13, 2008....

   I just joined the site but as a former submissive to a man with children i can give you some ideas of what he expected from me, i was to take care of the household and if i failed to have things done when he wished them i would be forced to write sentences, or i would have to stand in the corner in our bedroom after the kids had gone to bed, i didnt wear a collar but had a small braid under my hair with three pony beads at the end, one was his favorite color, one was mine and one was a silverish color to represent the steel of shackles.  being submissive in a relationship with children isnt any more different than without its a matter of your mind set, if you know your place, even doing simple chores become an act of submission.  have your Master give you deadlines and for every one missed 10 swats the next time your alone without the kids...keep a journal of punishments owed, and why they are owed...so that when you are alone with him, you can bring it out, you read it to him, and then beg for his discipline, trust me after a few times of this you'll get more done and you'll need less discipline in the future.  i'm no longer submissive but i remember the thoughts and feelings of it very well.  i hope my suggestions give you some help.
   
  MD

• his-slut said on Jun 15, 2008....

  MistressDena2770  Thanks for the ides.  I had already thought of keeping a record book for punishments, to be disciplined of Fridays (Master works 4 ten hour days Mon-Thurs. so that is usually our time alone).  I'm trying to get him to make up a list of "chores" to be done while he's away.  I love the braid idea.  I wore my ankle collar (really a cat collar with a small bell)  last week and this weekend.  I even wore it to the school for the Spring Concert.  The only one to notice, my 14 yr. old son.  I told him it was an anklet his dad gave, he told me it looked like a small dog collar.  At home my oldest (16) said he knew what it meant if you wore it around your neck, but not the ankle!?!

  We passed off my sippy cup, were trying to bring this out and into our everday life, by saying it was because I spill everything on my breasts, which is entirely true!  I swear there's a magnet there.  Spegetti sause, catsup, wing sause, salad dressing, it all ends up there.  To help the idea last week I actually had two bottles of water spilled there (not planned mind you).  I had left them in the bfreezer too long and they burst out when I opened them.  My oldest just shakes his head and laughs.  They think I'm a bit ditsy to begin with.

  kittykat{A}  we do the panties thing, I ask him when I get dressed yea or nay.  I liked the floor idea while watching tv.  I'll have to try it.

• Abeni[Dr] said on Jul 28, 2008....

  I realize this is an old posting, but I had a few extra minutes today and decided to get caught up on some of my reading. LOL on the spilling everything on your breast. My sister calls them crumb catchers. I think that all women have that issue from time to time. Don't be too surprised about your eldest knowing a little about what is going on. D/s is very popular with the young people today. Watch the video for Papa Roach "To Be Loved". You can find it on you tube. My niece and her friends about stroked when they found out that not only did I know the group, but liked them as well. I haven't made up my mind yet about how I feel with D/s being pop culture. lol.
   
  As far as idea's for bringing out more D/s. I have the same issue at home. Our children are younger, so I know I worry a lot about what we are teaching them. Especially the 7 year old boy and 5 year old girl. I agree with this lifestyle obviously, but wouldn't want them having this kind of relationship with just anyone. I know for me I am given writing tasks from time to time. Not just for discipline, but for him to get an idea where my head is on things. He has also given me time lines to send him a picture via cell phone. Mostly naked ones, they are easy enough to delete after sending and receiving. He offers me rewards for getting things done, such as chores, and doing special things with the children, so punishment is sometimes as easy as loosing a reward I was looking forward to. We are also trying to instill respect in our children, by using the terms Sir and Ma'am, so that gives me the freedom to call him Sir, to set an example. [wink] But, for the most part it just all waits until they go to bed. Even with being cautious, I can still see where the kids have picked up on things. Innocently of course, but enough so, that I am still hoping to find some ways of living it, without teaching it myself. If you have learned anything new since this post, please share.

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