not too long, my girlfriend and i were driving upstate to visit her sister, her brother-in-law and to have a quietly romantic weekend together. and as we were on the road, my girlfriend asked me out of nowhere, "which one of your female friends do you think is bisexual?" and since the question seemed to come out of nowhere, i didn't quite know what to answer. so i hemmed and hawed a bit, trying to think of anyone who might have expressed some curiosity or anyone that gave me that kind of vibe, and of course, i couldn't think of anyone. i told her that "there might be someone, after all these days, there's always someone but it didn't strike me as being very obvious."
my girlfriend then responds, "well i think your friend j is," who she had met briefly at a social gathering about a month or two before. "there's something about her to me that seems like she'd be up for just about anything." i literally sat in my girlfriend's car with my jaw at my chest, wondering where all of this came from, and why she had asked me about it. honestly, i'm still wondering about it. any ideas folks? i certainly can't seem to think of anything.
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yankee328 posted on Aug 12, 2006
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iciabruxelles said on Aug 15, 2006....
Well, to me, your girlfriend's question was not that strange ;p I'm a woman, and you can ask my husband or my ex-boyfriends, weird questions that i've been asked, or at least weird according to them. Basically, I (or women in general), if I am close to someone, who is trustable, and I think of him as my best friend, I would like to share the girly thing with him among other things, which includes the gossips :D. So enjoy her weird questions...as you only will experience and explore women's brilliant thinking and intuitions! -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 15, 2006....
yankee, just finished read your other posts. The 'j' you described above is the same 'j' as another post (with the same title)? -
yankee328 said on Aug 16, 2006....
yeah that's the same j. i mean if my girlfriend was gossiping, man that's some naughty gossiping, huh? : ) -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 16, 2006....
i should say, perhaps she got jealous? ;p -
yankee328 said on Aug 16, 2006....
you mean my girlfriend? i don't see why. but i imagine that it could be possible, right? -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 16, 2006....
did you tell to your girlfriend about your fling with and the action you got from 'j' ? If yes..yeah of course that was 99% possible!! -
yankee328 said on Aug 16, 2006....
i didn't get any action from j nor was it a fling. j was - and is - a tease. at best, j made a drunken pass at me and never told me what it was she wanted from me. i told my girlfriend about it, way before we had gotten together. and although my girlfriend knew that i had liked j in the past, i still got with my girlfriend and not j. although i know that on some level my girlfriend wanted to say "he's mine, bitch," by showing up to that social outing. but i dunno. -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 17, 2006....
yeppa..jealousy indeed ;p -
yankee328 said on Aug 17, 2006....
hehehe funny! i'm sure it's possible. it hasn't come up since, that's for sure. -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 17, 2006....
anyway, if I recall correctly, your current girlfriend is indeed you boss in your current job, right? and you want to change your job? -
yankee328 said on Aug 17, 2006....
i'm my girlfriend's assistant. in a way she's kinda like my boss but she's more like my supervisor. i want to leave the company because there are things going on that suggest to me that it's going to get bad - and quickly. it also makes it easier for us to be open about the relationship we have, if i get another job somewhere else. -
cornflakegirl said on Aug 18, 2006....
does anyone else at work know about your relationship? or is it all a secret? SCANDALOUS!!! :) i love this stuff, spill it brotha!! also, did you ever just ask her what makes her think your friend J might be bisexual? i wonder if she ever took a pass at her or anything? interesting indeed. -
yankee328 said on Aug 18, 2006....
actually it's known and people kinda gossip about it. you know she's always been like "it's just a vibe i get off of j." and she also suggests that one of my buddies might be gay or bi - and i've gotten that sense about him once. -
cornflakegirl said on Aug 18, 2006....
yea? well, you know... women are incredibly perceptive, there might be some truth to it then!
it's probably better than that it's out in the open, instead of having to keep things under wrap.
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yankee328 said on Aug 18, 2006....
i'm pretty perceptive myself and i would never think that j was bisexual. after a while, i saw her as being a bit immature for her age. and i can see her living the "sex in the city"/single girl in new york lifestyle for quite some time. i mean maybe j was looking at my girlfriend's chest or something.
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cornflakegirl said on Aug 18, 2006....
LOL, could be ;) hey you never know. and experimentation is a comon thing these days... ya never know, could turn into a sexy threesome??!!
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yankee328 said on Aug 18, 2006....
you know, i thought of that after my girlfriend mentioned it, and admittedly i thought it was hot. but considering that my girlfriend knew what happened with j, i doubt that if she was curious about it that she'd want it to be with j. that would be like opening up a pandora's box of jealousy. but hey you never know, experimentation is becoming very common. at the same time, i think threesomes can be bad for serious couples.
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cornflakegirl said on Aug 19, 2006....
yes, absolutely. i think it's a whooooole other can of worms indeed. you have a secure relationship with your girlfriend, and i don't know if it would be a good idea either. a stranger is one thing, but when it's someone you mutually have in common... well, things could take a sour turn.
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yankee328 said on Aug 20, 2006....
the thing is that my girlfriend has only met j once. so in some way, j is a total stranger for. i just doubt that those sorts of things would happen knowing what my relationship with j was in the past. and i'd rather not risk things taking a sour turn at this point in time. although, i have fantasized about it once or twice. . . okay, maybe ten or fifteen times in the past. i mean come on, i have typical male moments. : )
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cornflakegirl said on Aug 26, 2006....
LOL, i can't say that i blame you. i suppose we all fantasize about what these things would be like... but that's what fantasies are for. i'm not so sure these things would meet up to our expectations if we were to actually carry them out, but it doesn't hurt to wonder :)
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yankee328 said on Aug 27, 2006....
no it doesn't hurt to wonder. and believe me i've wondered a number of times! : )
maybe this bisexual thing comes up because j is a redhead and sometimes redheads have reputations for being wild. who knows? i just know that i'll never be able to figure that woman out!
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anonymous said on Jan 22, 2008....
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