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There is no such thing as bisexuality. Either you suck dick or you don't - HD

My friend said it one day, I did not know what I was and he obviously did not either...

Bisexuality. What defines it? I have never had sex with a male, I don't really fantasise about it, I don't go get a hard if I see a naked male, I don't go looking for the sexy male. But I fantasise about the female body, I look twice on a sexy woman and I often watch the curve and lines and movements of the female.

So why do I say that I am a bi? For me it is not the sex or the fantasies. It is the emotions. I can fall in love with the same sex. Pure and simple. I can fall in love with both sexes. I don't know why or how or anything like that but I can do that.

I fell in love with a guy once, and it was like "butterflies in the stomach, writing poetry, wanting to touch him, wanting to be with him, raising a child with him, wanting to be old with him". I have fallen in love like that 3-4 times (well 5 times but I don't count the first time). I am in love at the moment with my girl and I feel the same emotions.

I read somewhere that it was not the gender that matters it is the person. On my sake it is the truth. I don't care about the gender. I know that if I would fall in love with a guy, I could have sex with him, I could touch, lick, suck and feel him in every way. Like I have done with my past lovers.

So that is me.


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  • secretlife said on Aug 12, 2006....
    I don't think there's anything wrong with how you feel- But I think you are not comfortable with this yet, so it's good to write about it and try to work it out. I'm pretty sure there's such a thing as a bi-sexual. The quote you have in your post is homophobic-
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 13, 2006....
    i think your friend is wrong. my question is how do you define sexual identity, though? personally, i think that your sexual identity is more a function of chemistry than it is of physics. sexual identity and its definition is something i've ||{1}|| about before, if you're interested. ed
  • Dazlak said on Aug 14, 2006....
    Of course my friend is wrong, I am a living example of it. I just put his quote there to.. well basically this was probably the first think I remember hearing about bisexuality. I don't know if I am comfortable with it or not.. I thinks so yes... Silverwhisper.. I am not a native english speaker so I have to admit that I don't really understand you when you talk about chemistry vs. physics. I have to admit that. I read your post and you talk about the heart or the genitals. For me it is about the love. The gender is not an issue. It is the heart.
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 14, 2006....
    dazlak: sorry, this is an expression i've been using for some time. chemistry = heart, physics = sex. :> ed

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