I need it rubbed. Correctly. Why is this so hard?
Remember the South Park movie, where Stan is looking for the clitoris? Even though that movie totally satirized, well, everything the clit bit had much truth to it. Guys don't really know what it is. Why it is there. What good it does.
Recently, Fox had an article on their site about the top 10 sex mistakes men make, http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,352520,00.html and a grave lack of clit knowledge was at the forefront. I printed it off and gave it to my guy, expecting to be screaming in delight later that evening. Instead, he pushes and kneads it like a loaf of bread dough. In manufacturing, his hands are large [mmm] and rough, and me being not wet enough [from lack of clit play, of course] creates much stress! I got out my vibe, gave myself a quickie, and then he fucked me. Such is our routine. Even AFTER the article!!
It has been said that men are not taught about the clit, and that not much education is devoted to it. Guys think that we just cum after they are ramming us for 10 mins or so. However, I would think in this information age that we live in, guys would have heard more about the necessity of the clitoris and it's many delicious functions. If the clit is not necessary, why eat someone out? Most gals aren't going to go into waves of orgasmic hysteria after you try to fuck them with your TONGUE! It's about the clit, baby.
Barring a 9th grade health lesson, the clit is the little flap of skin, like a button, above the urinary opening on a female. Most women, and I forget the stats, orgasm only with direct stimulation there. Bouncing on a hard cock feels great, but to get to the big O, you need the clit for many of us.
Licking it, rubbing it with fingertips, massaging it gently, playing with the labia [vaginal lips] and touching it with a vibrator all are wonderful. Fingering the vagina, and then drawing up some of the wetness onto the clit and rubbing that works wonders. Sucking it, and swirling a tongue around it feel heavenly. Consistency is key. Keep going!
Guys, after you slide into her, gently rub the clit more. It feels even better to rub it when something fat and hard is inside of you. Or, encourage your woman to not be shy and instead rub her own clit while you pump her. A favorite of mine is doggy style, and while he thrusts I use a vibe on my clit.
Please remember it is not a lump of bread dough! It is not something to touch for 2 mins or so, and let alone thoughout the entire love session. Don't bite it [unless you like that sort of thing, ladies, but yikes!] and if your hands are rough, be gentle. Use plenty of lube.
Don't neglect it. A well-cared for clit results in a happy, panting woman, who then worships you like the cock-god you want to be.
Honestly, though, I don't know why this is so hard for guys to put into use!!!
Ok, enough of the sermon. I am off to rub my own!
