• wishyouwerehere said on May 18, 2008....

  It's definitely selfish and inconsiderate, Flower, especially because he should have understood that you would have to make arrangements for your grandmother.  It may be a good thing for you to take an occaisonal moment for yourself anyway, especially if your brothers are willing. 
   

• silverwhisper said on May 18, 2008....

  all i'm gonna say is i'm glad he's an ex boyfriend, fire-flower. what a jerk!
  
  ed

• lionesss said on May 18, 2008....

  hello fire,, right now its not a good thing that your worring about what your ex is all about, he obviously is not thinking of you,
  of course you need time out for yourself but take yor dogs for a walk you prob get more sense out of them anyway, dnt worry your doing fine lionesss

• Fire-flower said on May 19, 2008....

  Thanks guys. I feel much better about it now. At least my dogs never pull that on me:)

• GrapeKoolaid said on May 19, 2008....

  He prolly shoudn'ta made plans with you only to break it off...  And to wait until you text him to say that he can't make it?  That's low... 
  
  I think you should start making mad plans with him and just blow him off left and right.  A big plan, too.  So that he plans his day accordingly, and when he calls you to come pick you up, just tell him you have a date. 
  
  That'll learn him. 
  
  I know...  I'm petty... 
  
  I never said that I wasn't, though...  :p
  

• Fire-flower said on May 19, 2008....

  You know Grapy, I'm starting to see merit in that. I'm not normally so inclined, but maybe that's my problem with men. I'm nice to the point of stupid....

• blondee0718 said on May 19, 2008....

  Ugh!  This is the reason I can't stand guys!  I love 'em, they just drive me crazy!   They are so inconsiderate!  Obviously he knows you'd have to jump through some hoops to make your "date" possible, and the fact that he blew you off with a text makes me wanna choke this guy!  Where are the manners? 
   
  He was the one who asked you to catch up.  He probably had another offer and figured it was no big deal to leave you hanging.  I think it's a good thing this guy is an ex....  Chivalry is definitely dead.

• Fire-flower said on May 19, 2008....

  Blondee - I think it's what you said - he had a better offer.... it would never occur to me to treat anyone like this, so I'm always gob-smacked when I see it. Thanks for stopping by.:)

• cuppajava said on Jun 02, 2008....

  you are not over reacting at all - the fact that he used the word ' hun ' is an insult to anyone,and he clearly doesnt have a sensitive bone in his body

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