• T's_Pet said on May 15, 2008....

  pc:
   
  Everything seems to be crashing in on you at once.  I've only "known" you on the site for a week but here are a couple of things I've learned about you in that short time.
   
  1)  you are totally devoted to B.  That comes across in EVERY single post that you make.  He is extremely lucky to have a partner like you.  Please keep the strength with him - of course, I don't know him but I know how much you love him and that makes him worth all of this when he's able to be back with you fully.  That will happen and the two of you will mean so much more to each other on the other side of this. 
   
  2)  you ARE a helper to everyone - just a you stated.  I have become a different person, a much better pet due to this site and YOU were the first person to help me.  I can see from others' posts that you do the same for them.  You are a leader here - people look to YOU for advice and help.  I know I would truly miss you if you go away . . . and I would guess others would as well. 
   
  Times are hard - you have many things going on and of course, you're going to feel this way.  Let US help YOU now. . . tell us what you're feeling.  You don't have to put on a brave face here - you can say whatever you are feeling. 
   
  Please take good care,
   
  T's_Pet

• lionesss said on May 15, 2008....

  tut tut tut tut hands on hips toes tapping, WHY ON EARTH HAVE YOU NOT TOLD ME ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????/ remember the time i stood at your desk for "mmmmmm" how long was it for ?? just so you wud come out and play with me that nyt eh? and a few days after the clouds wernt so gloomy or dark as we 1st thort,  i know we are both older and things are very different to that senario but what im saying is that sooner or later we will get you back up on your feet,its ok to cry, "i do" read them cards ive sent you  each and every1 and those words were writen just for you from me, ok
  love you with all my heart babes xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx little cub lionesss 

• secretlife said on May 15, 2008....

  i'm sorry to read all of these troubles you're dealing with-
  believe me i know how personal problems can weigh you down......feels like rocks around your neck...and you can't for the life of you figure out your own shit...so reading everyone else's problems sometimes isn't the best stategy.  what i do, when i'm feeling low like that (which is sometimes 2 or 3 days a week lately) is stay away.  i know the feeling of wanting to help...but there are times when the best we can do is try to keep ourselves afloat for our families.
   
  it feels like we put ourselves on hold so often....like we have to give up ourselves.
  and it's hard.  it's a very hard way to live each day and remain positive.
   
  all i can offer you is that for the past two years, i've noticed that there are still days where i have a positive outlook.....where i've gotten over one hurdle, and can see that maybe there is hope.  i know these types of days will come your way....it's just a matter of taking care of you when you need to, and re-invigorating your spirit whnever and however you can.
   
  feel better.
   
   

• blogslut said on May 16, 2008....

  Hi Pusscat,
   
  It's the easiest thing for someone to say, and the hardest thing to actually do.
   
  But you've just got to try and hang in there and try your best to stay strong.
   
  It's all you can do, and just wait until you see that light at the end of the tunnel and everything will start looking up.
   
  xx

• Ownedgalbabs said on May 16, 2008....

  pussycat:
  
  You know its been said a zillion times that when it rains it pours.  I am not so sure there is anything I can offer.  Not so sure I have any sound advice and saying I am sorry can only help so much.  But sincerely I am sorry that you are going through all of this! 
  
  I also know that the saying, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" is likely something you have heard way too many times.  But you know in your heart that it is true. 
  
  Doing the only thing I know...sending you a great big cyber HUG!  And lending my ear, in case you wish to bend it.
  
  You are in my thoughts and please take good care of YOU!
  
  babs
  
  

• sweet_rose said on May 16, 2008....

  Take a walk and get out of the house for a short time. Find a nice quiet spot and have that cry. If you do not find the space to release that built up energy your are going to blow when you least expect it.
   
  There is nothing wrong with feeling "sorry" for yourself right now. You are dealing with some pretty heavy stuff. I know you're trying to be devoted to B at the moment, but frankly the person you need to be devoted to is yourself. Find her and love her, she needs it right now more than anyone.
   
  Hugs,
  rose
   
   

• onlymimi said on May 16, 2008....

  I can only echo what rose said.  My heart is so heavy to hear this, pc.  You are always so encouraging and supportive to everyone here.  Please check in, even if it's just briefly so we can do the same for you. 
   
  Please, take care of yourself.  Do what you have to to keep yourself safe. 
   
  I'll keep you in my prayers.  This too will pass.  Hang in there, sweetie.

• diabolicdame said on May 16, 2008....

  That sounds really rough.. and I don't know what I can say to make you feel better.. but I can give you (((hug)))! And things will get better.. they always do.

• destinydiva said on May 16, 2008....

  (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))  sorry things are really shitty, and pc..you are entitled to let it all out ya know :-)  sometimes you have to sit back and let someone try to make you feel better...okay hows about a really crap joke??  ...
  irish man looks in the mirror and says to his mate... I recognise him but I cant put a name to it...  his mate takes a look in the mirror... and says "it's me you daft buggar!!"
  
  he he he ...that tickles me that one :-)
   
  aww wish I could make  stuff better for you,    someone once told me that  things always get better when you think they cant get any worse... so hang on in there, I'm certain things will look up for you really soon..  and keep blogging!!!  thats the beauty of this place... we loves ya when your happy, sad, angry,horny!!!   :-) .....whatever!!!!   but I do understand how this place can also get too much .. so if you need some time out... take it....BUT YOU HAVE TO COME BACK OR ELSE!!!!! :-)
  
  ((((((((((((hugs))))))))))
  
  love destiny xxxx
  
   
  

• somethingunUSual said on May 16, 2008....

  Obviously, You're An Idiot..

• DaddysLittleSlut said on May 16, 2008....

  PC, PC, PC,
  Who better to help PC than the number one helper of all time PC?  Putting up smile when you're crying inside helps a bit.  It help keeps your outlook positive.  But at some point you acknowledge the problem so you can fix it.
  If i were in your situation, I know you would have sound advise for me.  You would tell me which doors to pound on, who to start harassing for answers.  Where and how to soothe my soul in the mean time.
  And i know you wouldn't let me keep my pain bottled up inside to festering and boiling until i ached so bad i couldn't speak.
  I don't think anyone on this site has shown more love to more people than you dear Pusscat.  And while you may not have a paypal account setup with cash rolling in like you could really use, you do have a whole lot of love rolling back to you because people do recognize a beautiful soul when they feel one.
  There is a way through this PC and if anyone can find it, I know you can!  All my love sweetheart.
  dls

• DaddysLittleSlut said on May 17, 2008....

  I've been reading your post again.  And trying to listen harder.  You are doing what you need to do aren't you sweet girl.  You need to find happy, helpful support to help you through this time.  Maybe even a laugh now and then.  I hope to see you back soon. 
  Much love,
  dls

• silverwhisper said on May 18, 2008....

  pusscat, did the money clear yet?
  
  sometimes, all you can blog or comment is what's in your heart. so do that! primarily, that's what everyone else does here.
  
  ed

• destinydiva said on May 18, 2008....

  so glad things are looking up for you pc :-) xx

• pusscat said on May 18, 2008....

  Really weird at the moment though. . . .we were going to do a 'scene' tonight - his idea, not mine.  We made love last night with just a little D/s in as we hadn't done so in about a fortnight so, as you can imagine, B said he wouldn't be able to hold on very long.  He said he finds it much easier to do a good scene if he's not too horny.  Well, he just popped his roung the door after his shower and said he's getting dressed as he needs to go for a walk for half an hour?!?!  I asked what was wrong and he said his head is exploding and he needs to go for a walk.
   
  i asked if it was anything I'd done and he said no but he had to go out.  He was dressed in 5 mins and off he's gone.  I don't know what happened in the half an hour between us chatting away, him having a shower then having to go for a walk??  I spoke too soon didn't I?  Sod the scene - what's happened to B that he can't tell me? Fuck fuck fuck fuck x 1000,000

• destinydiva said on May 18, 2008....

  awwwwww  sorry, try not to stress too much about it....at least until you get an explanation xx  

• pusscat said on May 18, 2008....

  Thanks dd

• lionesss said on May 18, 2008....

  hello sweets,, take a big deep breath an leave it  to blow ova as its only going to be lots of tears, and you dont need them ryt now eh, be as calm as you can,ok love you millions big big hugs 4u,

  lionesss xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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