I've made the personal choice not to fly anywhere. If I can't get there by driving, I most likely will choose not to go, unless it's absolutely critical. It has more to do with what I've experienced in airports and dealing with airlines, than with fear of flying.
I have months where I travel every week and spend 2 days a week flying. I have no fear of flying. In fact, its a relaxing time for me because there's no email, no contact w/the "ground", so to speak. I sleep, listen to my ipod..... read.
I, like many who commented above, hate airports! And, I have found, security varies GREATLY from airport to airport, which doesn't leave one with a sense of comfort. For example, I have made it through security with purfume and lotion (I had forgotten it was in my bag), and I have been pulled aside for having mascara in my bag (again, forgot it was in there).
I know you've probably heard this thousands of times, but flying is much safer than driving. I think I also heard, at any point during the day, there are 3000 planes in the air at one time. - and over 99% of the time, they take off and land safely... I know, the fear is in that less than 1%, huh?
I haven't flown in over thirty years actually, I didn't mind it then but I don't see myself jumping through all the hoops at the airport these days. My kids fly regularly and don't seem to mind the airport mess at all. I just don't see it myself. I think that is the main reason I don't fly now. The airport thing, not the actual flying.
Then again I have always hated airports. They are just too damn crowded, they stink and they are (or were at least) havens for all sorts of unsavories.
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I love flying but I've never understood the tiny pack of honey roasted peanuts.
I don't mind flying. I like going to the airports and seeing all the hustle and bustle! Of course, after 9/11 I was not going to get near an airport but I have come to the conclusion that when it is my time to go, it's time- plane, train, or automobile! :-)
Twyla, thanks for reading my junk! As a yankee as well, you rock! Rant on!