I wish I could say that I had a good visit to see my mom.. but I can't.  I can't  fib.  I was just about to walk out the door for the third time ( packing  up a 7month old child is not easy) when my brother called me hysterically crying.  All I could get out was "those son of bitches I'm going to kill them".  He hung up.  Then my sister called me and apparently she got more information.  The grave site in which my mom lays is a well known cemetery in NNJ.  Well seems like they REALLY messed up this time.  Today of all days.  There has been 4 times that they have misplaced the marker to my mom's grave and have moved it from there, to here, to over there.  But this time... on this day... they put a headstone of another womans where my mothers will lay in a few months.  That's right.. my mom has someone else headstone over her.  And of course the office to this cemetery is closed on Sundays.  Fitting.  So we are left to wonder.  Maybe if it wasn't the first Mother's Day without her here with us.. then ok.  But she was only buried March 10th.  How can they do this?  I have no doubt they will clear it up.. but what can they do for me now.  I wanted to sit there with her today.. tell her things.. But I couldn't.  I couldn't with seeing someone elses stone there.  I want to call the newspaper and tell them.  But instead my brother will call the family lawyer who btw is a mean SOB..
So now what?  I didn't get to sit with her.. chat.  And sure there will be other days.. but not this day.. not our first mother's day without her, and not my first mother's day as a mommy.  That will never be able to be re-paid.  I'm so mad.  I'm so hurt.