Discover that your perfect match (soulmate) is someone other than the person you've married and get to meet him/her
OR
Marry someone you love but never meet your perfect match (soulmate) at all?
Well after an unsuccessful first marriage I did indeed marry my soulmate, but if I had to choose one or the other it would have to be the first. As others have said, at least a close friendship could develope.
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