Maybe this will be my last blog of the day lol, what can i say i like to keep u all informed : )
Im worried about my best friend Melissa. She broke up with her asshole boyfriend and i was single when they were dating but as insecure as i am i am far more secure than she is.
We both were so excited about being single together. We were gonna party and meet people and have a grand ol time me and her.
We both were so excited about being single together. We were gonna party and meet people and have a grand ol time me and her.
Well we were both single for about a month when i met Phil...
I think she is a little nuts because i was single while she went through 5 or 6 boyfriends and i didnt bitch about being a third wheel...
Well she is all upset because today she found out that Matt and Tawny are now dating.
It wasnt that big a deal that Phil and I were together because she still had Tawny and Matt who are both single...
So it is Phil and I, Tawny and Matt, and Melissa.
I understand where she is coming from. I wouldnt be upset bc as long as i get to hang out with my friends im cool...I dont care if i see people cuddling and holding hands just so long as im included in the drinks and conversation...
Well Melissa tells me this "i just hate hanging out with u and Phil u guys kiss eachother every second ur mouths arnt speaking, it was ok though bc tawny and matt where there but now tawny and matt are dating and im sure theyll be kissing and im just gonna sit there watching people make out when i dont have anyone."
(we dont kiss as much as she thinks we do)
I know a lot of "friends" who ignore their friends when they get boyfriends so its shitty to say but i think she should just be glad i still spend every second of my weekend with her and not whine about Phil being around. She just wants to monopolize my time is all and she thinks Phil is stealing me away...
I also understand the annoyance with ur friends having boyfriends and u dont. Ive been there. I get why she is upset but i just dealt with it. Like she should. I didnt ever give her a guilt trip when id be watching a movie with her and Cameron and all i could here was the sound of spit and drool going back and forth...so i think its rude how she is putting this guilt on me.
BUT im her best friend and i feel bad.
So can someone please tell me what to do about this?
Dividing up time is out of the question bc im not in elementary school anymore
We all have to play together.
I just want to know how to make her feel better about the situation or how to help her find a boyfriend.
She is rediculously picky. She dropped this super hot nice sweet sensitive guy bc he listened to country music!
So far all ive done to comfort her was tell her i wont kiss phil infront of her anymore and that she has friends that would die for her and to start looking at the better side of things and that shell find someone and if she dont big deal men come and go and phil wont be around forever most likly and then shell have a boyfriend and the point was that through thick and thin we got eachother back no matter who is single and who is not at the time.
BUT now when we hang out im gonna feel bad.....or deep down know shed rather be hanging out with me alone. Then im gonna feel bad too.
Frustrating...how do i fix this?
