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Lets see. Mostly, my blogging has a point when I start out. This one however will probably not, it's just getting ideas and tossing them at my groupies ;) *Since either DLS or pusscat said 'how does it feel to be like a rock star*

Okay, that's not entirely true. The word of the day is Perfection.

I'm not perfect, far from it. I've got a host of my own issues, as I would like to think every Dominant has. I'm young, for one. Something which shocks a lot of people, mostly because they can't see it (I often get the arbitrary title of 'old man' by a lot of my friends, not sure if that's a compliment or not).

Ultimately though there is something that amazes me about D/s in it's entirety, and that is the matter of perfection. I think a lot of subbies/slaves see their Dom's as perfect. Not all of them, and probably none of my groupies for that matter *Since they all seem to like the realism behind a lot of my posts*

No, Jezz, I'm not talking about you dear, though you reminded me of the topic in the first place. What is it with these girls *and I assume guys* idea of perfection? Is it the same thing that makes those perhaps 'nastier' Masters who don't care for the girl, merely want to use her as an object of all the things that float around in their head as a 'perfect slave?

I'm already off topic, there is a difference between a subbie who seeks perfection Vs a subbie that see's their Master as perfect. I don't mean 'perfect for me' I mean 'perfect'. That they are on this platform sky high and no matter what that person says or does, nothing could tear that person from the 'perfectness' they've been lumped into?

Is that perhaps what we mean by doormat? I think we've already gathered, dear readers, that I enjoy fixing things. Hell I openly seek out and fix things where I see a problem *Something that has required some curbing, believe me* Is it because I see myself above the people involved in the problem? I'd hope not. Though I don't know a Dominant without some air of arrogance, however minor.

So, dear reader. Do you see your SO as a perfect being? That they can't be taken from the pedestal they have been put on? Can you see Him or Her doing something horrible, and you still being head over heels in love, and still trust them?

Is this devotion?

Sickman  


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  • jezzabell said on May 03, 2008....
    I know that I, nor you are perfect.
    That doesn't mean I can't try to, while being myself, be all that you want me to be.
    I pick devotion.
    <3 you. jezz.
  • sweet_rose said on May 04, 2008....
    Steve and I have had this talk several times. It is a great subject to bring up sickman.
     
    I do hold Steve on the highest pedestal there is. He is the man that keeps me safe when I cannot think clearly for myself. He is the one I trust with all that I hold secret inside myself.
     
    When I step outside of that, I can not imagine the weight that bares for Him. It's a major responsability. Because I hold Him in such high reguards, I vowed to remember one thing.
     
    He will make mistakes a long the way. What keeps Him on that pedestal is His willing to say, " I fucked up" and move forward. We take it with a grain of salt and learn from it. He is Man enough to say, " I am not perfect."
     
    rose
     
  • pusscat said on May 04, 2008....
    It's true what you said about being viewed as older Sickman.  I for one am guilty of that but purely becuase of the maturity in all of your posts and comments to posts.
     
    At the moment I can't really comment personally about perfection of my Dom or him being on a pedestal.  There isn't an arrogant bone in his body though (should that worry me though I wonder?).  I think s_r hit the nail on the head - them being able to admit their mistakes, learn from them and move forward.  I hope B will be able to do that in time :-)
  • DaddysLittleSlut said on May 04, 2008....
    Perfections such a funny concept.  If He takes forever to pick out a dinner item (but then I end up smilling and getting all gushy every time i think about it) is that a fault or a perfect example of his thoughtful nature.  You said your groupies probably don't have the problem of thinking their Master's perfect, and I'm definitely your groupie.  So, no problem right.  And you're also right on when you said 'perfect for me'
    That's how I see Master...perfect for me.
  • WASnotWAS said on May 04, 2008....
    Wanted to say hello

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