Lets see. Mostly, my blogging has a point when I start out. This one however will probably not, it's just getting ideas and tossing them at my groupies ;) *Since either DLS or pusscat said 'how does it feel to be like a rock star*
Okay, that's not entirely true. The word of the day is Perfection.
I'm not perfect, far from it. I've got a host of my own issues, as I would like to think every Dominant has. I'm young, for one. Something which shocks a lot of people, mostly because they can't see it (I often get the arbitrary title of 'old man' by a lot of my friends, not sure if that's a compliment or not).
Ultimately though there is something that amazes me about D/s in it's entirety, and that is the matter of perfection. I think a lot of subbies/slaves see their Dom's as perfect. Not all of them, and probably none of my groupies for that matter *Since they all seem to like the realism behind a lot of my posts*
No, Jezz, I'm not talking about you dear, though you reminded me of the topic in the first place. What is it with these girls *and I assume guys* idea of perfection? Is it the same thing that makes those perhaps 'nastier' Masters who don't care for the girl, merely want to use her as an object of all the things that float around in their head as a 'perfect slave?
I'm already off topic, there is a difference between a subbie who seeks perfection Vs a subbie that see's their Master as perfect. I don't mean 'perfect for me' I mean 'perfect'. That they are on this platform sky high and no matter what that person says or does, nothing could tear that person from the 'perfectness' they've been lumped into?
Is that perhaps what we mean by doormat? I think we've already gathered, dear readers, that I enjoy fixing things. Hell I openly seek out and fix things where I see a problem *Something that has required some curbing, believe me* Is it because I see myself above the people involved in the problem? I'd hope not. Though I don't know a Dominant without some air of arrogance, however minor.
So, dear reader. Do you see your SO as a perfect being? That they can't be taken from the pedestal they have been put on? Can you see Him or Her doing something horrible, and you still being head over heels in love, and still trust them?
Is this devotion?
Sickman



