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Last night I finally got on at the same time as Lucy...we were having a great conversation. It was fun and I was really enjoying it. Then I hear "Mom! Mom! We need you!" I didn't really think too much of it because well they yell for me all the time. It is so much easier than walking up the stairs to tell me what they need. Then I hear "Oh My God! He is bleeding really bad!"  Again, I didn't think much of it...they have a tendency to over-react. Like when the oldest got her piercing and it tore a little. She described it as almost ripped off.
Then the oldest boy comes up with blood down the front of his pants. Two dogs follow making bloody paw prints all through the house. Then oldest screams and runs upstairs. "He is really hurt and there is alot of blood."
So, I head down the stairs and out to the garage where hubby is propped against the wall with a rake through his foot. One of those straight iron rakes..three prongs went all the way through. He tells me to hold the rake while he lifts his foot off. It was horrible. But this is my husband. Heads upstairs...rinses his foot off...stops the bleeding...wraps in a sterile wrap and goes and plays WOW.
You see he has to work in the morning and he wasn't going to spend his night in the ER. That would just suck!
This morning he forced his swollen foot into his shoe and off to work he went. Not on crutches either. Just little grunts as he steps down on it. He said "I had my tetanus last year...why would I need to see the doc again." "A rake went through your FOOT!"
I spent the night pissed off because he wouldn't go...it oozed blood all through the night, staining the sheets. I had blood streaked through my house from him, the dogs, and the kids. There was a pool of it out in the garage where he was standing.
I told him if he was well enough to not see a doctor he could help me clean up this mess. He was less than impressed.


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  • uniquely-ironic said on Apr 24, 2008....
    That's a pretty impressive accident.  I hope he does have it looked at over the weekend, though at this point whatever infection he is going to get or not has already incubated.  Stitches are out too now.
     
    I had to laugh at "I told him if he was well enough to not see a doctor he could help me clean up this mess."  Sounds like the voice of reason to me ;)
  • Fallyn said on Apr 24, 2008....
    men. *muttering under my breath*
  • vacantmind said on Apr 24, 2008....

    u-i...I couldn't believe he wouldn't go. If it was me...he would have just carried me to the car. But, I can't lift this man so I am stuck with his decision. I called the doctor and he prescribed a soak...so hopefully he will do that tonight.

    Fallyn...EXACTLY!

  • MissMimi said on Apr 24, 2008....
    He should at least get a tetanus shot.  Very foolish.  Ask him if he'd like to see a doctor if gangrene sets in.  Good grief.
  • vacantmind said on Apr 24, 2008....

    MissMimi...He did have a tetanus just last year so, he is up-to-date on that one. The thing is..I know what gets raked up with that thing...We have three dogs! Nobody sprays it down afterwards either. I just worry about all the stuff that got trapped inside his foot. He did wash it out pretty good but its just not equal to having it flushed out by a doctor.

    Very foolish indeed!

  • MissMimi said on Apr 24, 2008....
    I forgot to say before...  owie!  Just owie!  That has to hurt like a motherf---er! 
  • Fallyn said on Apr 24, 2008....
    well...if he gets gangrene and has to have his foot amputated.....feel free to say "i told you so"
  • diabolicdame said on Apr 24, 2008....
    That sounds painful! Thats not a little needle in your foot.. and I'd go to the doc even then! Good thing you called the doctor.. I love your retort about helping clean up as well! Haha.. Men can be just so difficult with these things!! 
  • LadyGamer said on Apr 24, 2008....
    Tetanus is taken care of.  Ask him how he feels about GANGRENE!!!
     
    OMG! That man is nuts.
  • namyogrl said on Apr 24, 2008....
    i guess he never heard that you should NEVER remove something that is sticking out of your body. Men, its a wonder they are stll on the planet
  • vacantmind said on Apr 24, 2008....

    MissMimi...Owie! Is right...pulling his foot off that rake was horrible. I think since he accomplished that he felt tough enough to deal with the healing.

    Fallyn...I keep texting him asking if it is throbbing...just a reminder that its "Not Okay."

    dd...I am a wimp. I would be at the hospital for a needle to. Especially, my feet they are super sensitive.

    LG...He is nuts! He thinks he can tough anything out...except a cold. Then he is sucking it for all its worth.  I think if I nudge it enough times in the bed tonight he will decide he at least needs the pain meds. Then I can't at least get him in and get a shot of penicillin.

    namyogrl...He was going to remove his foot from that rake no matter what was said to him. I think he learned his first aid skills from his dad!

  • secretlife said on Apr 24, 2008....
    oh man-  he needs to go to at least his doctor and let them have a look and suggest something-
    can you call? or have him at least call?
     
    lol...i'd have called  911 and had the ambulance take me!
  • evil_twin said on Apr 24, 2008....
    Oh wow! Ouch! I thought I was accident prone smashing my head open on a cabinet. But I really do think your husband needs to see a doctor. Puncture wounds are the worst, and from a dirty garden rake?? It's going to get infected if he doesn't get some antibiotics. He really needs to go and have that looked at! I know I'm a hypochondriac but he could honestly lose his foot if it gets bad enough.

    -evil_twin LA
  • vacantmind said on Apr 24, 2008....

    secretlife...If my foot had been stuck on that rake...I would have screamed "Nobody touch me!" Then dialed 911. I would want some kind of pain med before lifting my foot up. I did call the doctor who prescribed a soak for him but, he didn't want to prescribe antibiotics without seeing him.

    evil twin...when I saw you commented...I giggled. I thought he is going to be so happy that all he had was encounter with a cabinet. I agree he needs to see the doc. He isn't doing anything to take care of it. I can get pretty persuasive when I want to...he will see someone before the weekend!

  • LadyGamer said on Apr 24, 2008....
    You need to get a couple of chain necklaces and let him know that you support his pioneering ways in the body piercing industry. It's pierced, now for the jewelry!
  • vacantmind said on Apr 24, 2008....
    LG...YES! I could just see the look on his face...he might think I am serious. I love the piercings!
  • Lucytorial said on Apr 24, 2008....
    That is soo funny because when you ran out the door! I had to too... man men are stoopid huh!

    they just wrap it up, walk on it, she'll be right mate kind of bullshit while we clean up the mess!

    **still giggling**
  • Fallyn said on Apr 24, 2008....
    that is SOOOO funny.....and rather ridiculous. and it's so impossible to tell them to their faces that they're bieing idiots.
  • hotaka said on Apr 24, 2008....
    It must be a male thing to play it tough, eh? Too bad he didn't consider that you would face the cleaning up if he didn't help. I saw a program on TV where a guy was trimming his lawn with a WeedEater and it hit a nail and sent it flying into his chest and stuck him in the heart. He didn't die (miraculously) and since he couldn't see the projectile that struck him, he thought it was just a stone. He came in the house with his shirt blood-soaked and his wife got all in a panic. He told her it was just a stone and he went up to take a shower. The bleeding wouldn't stop and his wife said he should go to the hospital. He finally acquiesced and went and had an X-ray taken. The X-ray clearly showed a nail stuck in his heart. The doctor said it was a miracle he was alive. He had the nail removed without complication and survived, and as a souvenir they kept the sweatshirt unwashed and bloody with the hole in the chest.

    Some guys are just too tough, eh?
  • CayenneMan said on Apr 25, 2008....
       vacantmind, it seems we are all  "he-men" while we are young but it often comes back to haunt us when we get older. It's a good thing that he is up to date with his tetanus shots. Wednesday a friend was helping me extend a wall in my family room  when he shot a nail thru his thumb with a nail gun. It went right thru his bone. He wanted me to pry it away from the wall with a crow - bar I said no . I wanted to call an ambulance but he refused. I ended up cutting a junk of my wall out with a circular saw and drove him to the hospital in my truck with the wall still attached. You should have seen some of the looks we were getting. All is fine now.
  • vacantmind said on Apr 25, 2008....
    Lucy..for some reason he thinks soaking it in water was all that was needed. I can tough it out he said. But, why would you want to? He drives me mad with this stuff.
     
    Fallyn...I told him over and over again that he was being an idiot. He was going to end up being off work for months if he didn't seek treatment. Now, its only a few days.
     
  • vacantmind said on Apr 25, 2008....

    hotaka...some guys think they are being tough when they prove themselves to be idiots. I love him but this was dumb.

    CayenneMan...Through the bone! Ouch! I would have let you call the ambulance.

  • Fallyn said on Apr 25, 2008....
    vacant...yes...but that's teh point..YOU would have....you're an intelligent woman.

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