• D6fer said on Apr 19, 2008....

  1st of all.....there is a whole lot of different things going on here......your friend gets the kind of attention that she does because of the whole package that she presents.....same with you.....she could be trying to sink your boat...at least subconciously....after all, you are changing.....she was used to you the way you used to be.
  You know....guys have different ways of getting into a girls pants.....with mellissa they use the direct approach, because of what I said above.....with you, they use the romantic approach.....the end result is the same.
  I think in time the grass that is greener will be that of the yard of the woman with the husband with the great job and the great kids.
  If you want to know how to get to that grass....just ask.
  

• beautifullybroken07 said on Apr 19, 2008....

  i have the same problem as your friend... well not really a litle bit of both of your problems... i get guys who just want to fuck and then i get guys who "fall in love" and become stalkers (not good)
   
  i think that you want that but when you get it, youwill regret it. you will feel used and not wanted. buut then again everyone wants a couple one night stands wel some people at least but then when they do find a guy who just wants to sleep with them they get attached and the guy wants nothing more then to fuck you... that is what is the sad part because you will get hurt in the end.
   
  if that is what youwant then portray the part a little bit... be more outgoing, dress sexy, and flirt as much as possible... they say "confidence, wear it like makeup" confidence gets you far...
   
  hope everything works out
   
  much love
  broken.xo

• D6fer said on Apr 19, 2008....

  beautifullybroken......I think you are right about the regret thing.

• lfbno7 said on Apr 19, 2008....

  I have more brains than I know what to do with. You're having fun. Just do what you want and enjoy the ride. Some day maybe you'll meet a guy who makes all these questions irrelevant to you. This is your time to just be with whoever you like. These are the good ole days for you, so have a ball. Your life is a lot better than sitting around waiting for your next doctor appointment and hoping for a normal shit. I'm not there yet, and I hope I never get there, but I think that's what old age has in store for a lot of us.

• anonymous said on Apr 19, 2008....

  I don't know what you your life is like.  I know this may sound asinine but you sound like a poorly scripted book. Call me a coward for being anonymous, but I would like to still talk after I say what I say and you might not like.  I think your a habitual liar.  I think your as made up as nothing more than a brain wave shorting out.  Why? Because your profile says your just 20.  Now you say you were in a long term relationship of four years. You fix windshields and smoke dope, except when your being a cosmetologist.  But the only one being painted stupid looking is us that feed into it and that includes me, but I love comic books and super hero's to.  Your a liar and you spin a tale well, so why the deception? Why not just be what most of us know already? You fool only those who desire fantasy over reality and never look beyond the next harlequin cover for your next reality. Face it, any woman that wants just a fuck can get fucked even if she has one eye and no legs to spread. If you really want to be a whore, you may as well get paid for it and you will get all the I only got a hard cock and twenty dollars ten for your lying ass and ten for your dope, both easily had.  But I like how you write your stories, but stories is all they ever will be, not reality. Sometimes I really think you believe your own lies in convincing others, and thats a good thing or the story would suck dick as often and as much as you do, for nothing.  Blessed be.    

• bloodrayn said on Apr 20, 2008....

  yeah... i understand, i had a friend, she was a girl and i'd do anything for her.. one day after i asked her if i could do anything for her she snapped and said chivalry isn't used anymore. i'm begining to believe it because girls hate lt when i say ma'am.

• lfbno7 said on Apr 20, 2008....

  You're not supposed to say maam. You're supposed to goof on them. Make fun of their shoes or something. If all you do is kiss up to them, they think you're either boring (no challenge at all), have low self esteem, or just want to talk their legs apart. You're supposed to mess with their heads and be confusing. That way they'll try to figure you out, not knowing there's nothing to figure out. They like puzzles and challenges so be one. Just mess with their heads and goof on them. If you're a generally nice guy, they'll laugh their heads off. If you're a bastard, they'll spread their legs for you in seconds and then cry when you wait a few days to call.

• travelr712 said on Apr 20, 2008....

  lfb's got it right, and that's the way it's always been, no matter what women say. they want to be treated like shit, because they chose to be with men who treat them like shit, and throw away men who treat them well, the way they always say they want to be treated.
   
  you see star, it's really quite simple. women want to be conquered, not pampered. they want to be desired with animal passion. now, if what you want is to be pursued like your friend, then get some tight fitting clothes that reveal allot of skin, put on some makeup to highlight your cheeks and your eyes, and when a man talks to you, act like you're really interested in what he's saying, accepting of his attention.
   
  if you act demure and shy, you attract the patron who wants to get married and protect you and have children with you and be happy ever after.
   
  if you act forward and open you attract the shallow guy who just wants to have sex and then forget about you, till he wants to have sex again.
   
  but i do agree with you on one particular point, and i'm sure i'm going to get nailed for saying it. women seldom know what they want, and once they get what they thought they wanted, they don't want it anymore. now, that's not true for all women all the time, but it is true for most women most of the time.
   
  or maybe i'm wrong :-)

• sweet_rose said on Apr 20, 2008....

  I see it as a self esteem issue. Grab a vibe, masturbate when the need "gets real bad". You're looking for these fuck buddies to fill what your lacking on the inside.
   
  The only thing you may get filled with is an STD or worse. A child of a mother with no self worth.
   
  rose

• anonymous said on Apr 20, 2008....

  or just history?
  

• BADDA_BING said on Apr 21, 2008....

  accept only the best in everything.

• starchini said on Apr 21, 2008....

  ok to everyone thank you for ur comments and i will respond individually after my 2nd job.  Its after 5:30 right now and i was just peeking in when ANON caught my eye!  FUCK YOU!  Im not fake.  Im as real as it fucking gets and maybe bc im completly honest is the reason u find me fake.  Yea my life is crazy i work two jobs oooo is that so fucking hard to believe?  My dad owns a glass company and i work for him during the day and in the evening im a cosmetologist.  Yea, not that im especially proud of it but i also smoke pot on the weekends.  THAT MAKES ME A LIAR?  I admit that i smoke pot and u think that is fake?  wtf?!  People like u piss me off.  U make me wanna give u all my information just so that i can prove to u that im not a lying artard.  But i cant do that for obvious reasons.  gaygaygaygay

  dont worry im not done with u yet anon!  Ill be back after i get done working at KATE'S HAIR SALON, this evening!  bitch.

• starchini said on Apr 21, 2008....

  The fact that u dis my writing capabilities doesnt bother me at all.  I know im a shitty writer.  I dont claim to be good at it.  I dont have hours to spend on the computer editing my shit.  I have many errors and prolly quite a few grammar problems.  Like i say i dont reread it and i only use backspace ehrn i rt s lru pgg oops i mean when i get a key off. 

  And yes u are a coward for being anonymous and if anyone here is fake its you for thinking "i want to still talk after i say this" meaning, everyone thinks im a nice sane person so when i want to be the real me lets go all anon bwahahaha.  Ur fake.

  Habitual liar?  IM A LIAR?  Ive not once fibbed anything here on soulcast!  Wanna hear some honest shit that i havnt yet bothered to write that goes along with all my other honest shit that i do write about?  I some times pick my nose when no one is watching!  I masturbate frequently.  I burned a house down in hs (accident).  I got a c- in american history.  I failed a college course when i forgot what day finals were.  My aunt is a drug addict.  My cousin Emilia is a loser.  My favorite food is broccolli!  And im a little gay!  lol...

  Fuck yea im just 20.  Ill be 21 may 4th.  I was born in 1987.  I met david just before my 16th bday.  I remember bc he almost left me when he found out i was illegal, in retrospect i wish he would have.  My dad opened up his glass company like 20+ years ago.  Ive worked as a glazier since i was 14.  Im his "apprentice".  Family business u know?  After hs i went to necc and cosmetology school.  Went off for a while now im back home glazing and styling hair. 

  Just bc ur life is boring doesnt mean im lying about mine! 

  Ud prolly shit urself if i told u i use to sell pot in Highschool.  I was all anti pot for a long while.  Then i thought u know what i cant thing of one good reason to not smoke it.  So i smoke pot on Saturdays.  Im not a pot head and i dont think me smoking a joint once in a while makes my life unbelievable.

  U have no clue what u are talking about i am the most down to earth no non sense chic ever.  Im a fucking taurus. 

  So really why dont u tell me why u think im lying?  Gimme one good reason, other than u think everyones life is as boring as urs and if theres isnt its bc they are liars...ur the one in denial.

  Oh and if u dont wanna get ur little clan of soulcasters angry with u for being a bitch u can g'head and private message me who u really are.

  I have better things to do than smear ur name around soulcast so ill keep u the anonymous coward if i choose to blog about it. 

  oh and ur not paying attention to my blog or ur too retarded to grasp it.  I am not a whore.  I want a fuck buddy so that i wont be a whore.  One person to have sex with, no emotions involved.  I dont want a relationship.  I had one, fuck that noise.  I want someone clean to have sex with whenever i want.  If anything, i think i deserve a fucking metal for not having sex in the past 6, omg now its 7, 7 fucking months!

  oh and just so u know I am starchini and i think u are stupid and i dont like you!  And i dont give a flying fuck who reads that.  Bc im not a coward or a liar.

• starchini said on Apr 21, 2008....

  D6fer...so u are saying that melissa is used to me being the fat friend and now she is just trying to keep me down?  Subconsciously of course.  Melissa is too good a friend to do that shit on purpose.  That makes sense i supose.  I hadnt thought of that bc i havnt lost that much weight.  Only 60 pounds, so i still consider myself fat.  Good point of view.  Thank ya dicksfer.  : )

  Broken...u make good sense.  That part u said about "portray the part" made me take a step back.  Im starting to realize i may not really deep deep down want a fuck buddy.  Something about it morally just doesnt sit right with me.  But im so frickin horny.  Im still so angry with men...i dont want a relationship but i want sex, i miss sex.  But i just cant bring myself to have sex.  Ill get close then ill be all "ill be right down!, missy wants me, didnt u hear her?  Ill be right back, stay here".  I dont know whats going on with me.  Im weird.  I want a fuck buddy but then i dont...

  Lennie, i think ur right.  I think im simply just thinking about it too much.  I just gotta shut the fuck up and live in the moment.  I dotn think ur ever gonna just hang out waiting for ur next Dr. Apt.  lol, i picture u on a scooter cruisin along the sidwalk dragging ur cane in the basket.  lol

  Blood, ma'am makes us feel old but no no no no no keep being chivalrous.  Open doors buy flowers pay for a few meals take her on a picnic!  I LOVE gentlemen.  I just cant find one.  I love the gentlemanly attention i get from my crushes.  I just want a little bit of the other stuff too, u know?

  Trav, that isnt me at all.  I dress "classy" or the uglier word "conservative" i mean, im in style and all and show a bit of cleavage but my clothes fit how they should and i dont dress like a slut.  My makeup is fine the way it is.  Women dont want to be treated like shit!  I dont want to be treated like shit.  Thats why i like this phil guy.  He treats me like a queen.  I just cant get passed his "weirdness", he just isnt my type.  But I LOVE HOW HE TREATS ME!  I will not date another asshole.  not ever.

  Please please do not think women like assholes.  Its not true.  it really isnt.  And im gonna hate myself forever if i think my blog turned a few gentlemen into jerks. 

  Sweet rose. lol.  i "vibe" almost everynight.  Its not that.  Its not self esteem either.  I dont care what some women say a vibrator is not as good as the real thing.  if it was selfesteem i would have done soooo many guys by now.  I just dont like any of them in a relationshippy way, just a sexual way.  But i havnt done either in 7 months.  Maybe im a just a scardy cat.  I think i want sex but then i get there and say maybe later.  grrr...

  Anon, i dont understand the point of the link u gave.  what does bronx saying thanx and polar and silv saying ur welcome have anything to do with anything?

  Badda, ok.  : )

  Im sorry i took up so much room chewing anons ass.  It was pretty immature but it really irritated me.  I dont give anyone reason to think im lying and for it to smear my nose in the ground really pissed me off.

   

   

   

   

• anonymous said on Apr 21, 2008....

  i see you noticed that even with a fake name you can not say it is anonymous. Oh it might not be our real names but names yes, the only anonymity here is anonymous, by the way thats why  i joined soulcast so that i could write anonymously.  there is nothing cowardly about blogging anonymously unless everyone here blogging anonymously is a coward. anonymous blogging is soulcast is it not?  i have subscribers the same as you.  but they are all fake names except in here your name becomes your identity and you are no longer anonymous which defeats the whole purpose of being in a anonymous blog site. maybe i wish to protect my name here from being associated with you? anonymous? not cowardly at all, its anonymous. if i put my name here fake or not i am no longer anonymous.  you can guess all you wish honey, i am still anonymous just as soulcast intended it should be.  Blessed be.

• starchini said on Apr 21, 2008....

  ur twisted.  Even though my "name" is starchini im still anonymous.  No one knows my REAL name.  That is who is anonymous.  Being anonymous with ur "handle" is cowardly bc even if i knew u were "imgay69" i still wouldnt know who u were but maybe then i could remove u from my subscribed list. : ) Are u really calling me a liar and fake and dissing me to no end and then saying BLESSED BE???  wow u are a moron.  I do not bless u, u can sneeze all u want my lips are sealed.

• hottips4u said on Apr 21, 2008....

  awwwwwww poor baby you still do not understand, starchini to all us here identifies you even if its a fake name, no one but you starchini can have that fake name. it identifies you here like you real name out there identifies you. anonymous is anonymous. soulcast is anonymous. i am anonymous. get it yet? Blessed be. see ya~  jessi.  hehe
  
  you should pay attention to what anon says, its true...poor baby !   pay attention and learn hehe
  

• hottips4u said on Apr 21, 2008....

  see what i mean?  its that simple, oh, and by the way, I am not you anon, or am i ?  thats the p[oint star4u, any one here can be anon.  anon stuffed me often enough, but I've been having a long weeked and not here for him to play with, now that I am back, he'll leave you alone.  I think he/they like arguing with me...hehe''  hell look what the shit head did to my post while I was away!  fuck um and move on its that simple gal.
  
  Jessi....chill out and fuck anon. ; )
  
  Hottips4u
  

• hottips4u said on Apr 21, 2008....

  Oh, by the way, you make enemies trying to argue with anon, believe me I know, I got enemies I never intended nor wanted, not all of it about anons, but a bunch of it by anon, oh and puppets, and trolls, and assholes, and cunts, so ya see, anon was right about one thing and I say one thing only in all that he/she it said...only anon is anon.
  
  I like my name, and even if my name identifies me here, I don't mine my name ta da bullshit I say, and for the most part what others say.  If they didn't like me at least once in a while, I would have been gone long ago.  Killing my isp means nothing, second third line, independent dial up and I get a new isp, broadband...proxy via proxy and wham...here I am again.  Just like those I argue with here, they take it normally with a shrug and move on.
  
  What I am trying to say is fuck anon star, fuck me, fuck all of us, you came here as star and to me your star, zayda is zayda and so the fuck what if it was otherwise ? Your here ta have fun, and maybe, thats some folks way of having fun...deal with anon like any other name...one at a time and return it back the same way its delivered to you...with a gain of salt.  ; )
  
  So what you smoked pot, I advocate legalizing it, guess that makes me an asshole to some, others indifferent, to other yet, an advocate. ; )  All in one persona, now thats a real bitch...hehe
  
  Jessi.
  
  
  

• starchini said on Apr 21, 2008....

  hottips.  I understand the community feeling u get here but seriously its not real.  Everyone is Anon here no matter the "friends" that u have on this site.  Even though u feel like u get to know them they are still a faceless anonymous name that uve become attached too.  So if the point is to say what u want to here and ur indentified by a "name" that still has absolutly no impact on REAL LIFE.  so i still dont understand the point of anon.  I think that if people use anon its just an indicator that they are not being there true selves and that there blog is bullshit and by not wanting ur "name" attached to ur comment is cowardly.  Its bullshit.  Its gay, i cannot feel anydifferent.  Its a cop out and i can say: NOT ONCE HAVE I EVER BEEN ANONYMOUS!

  I still cant bring myself to block them though, even though they piss me off to no end i still want to hear what they got to say.

  This anon though is just retarded.  Im starchini in real life.  The only reason i dont give my real name is so no one in my real life knows who i really am.  Otherwise i would. 

  GRRR!!!  Speaking of that Jessi, how was ur 4/20???  : >

   

• travelr712 said on Apr 21, 2008....

  what i was saying star, is that if you want to attract the kind of men that your friend attracts, you can if you dress like that. i wasn't saying that you do or that you should. i'm saying that i figure that's why she attracts that kind of attention.

• starchini said on Apr 21, 2008....

  im not sure why she gets that kind of attention, she doesnt dress particularly whorish.  She dresses a lil more revealing than me...i think she just has a fuck me attitude and i have a fuck off attitude. 

• travelr712 said on Apr 21, 2008....

  well, that'd do it to :-)

• hottips4u said on Apr 21, 2008....

  Fuck, I am no man expert, having only been with three in my entire life, once as a kid of a very young age, once as a teen with a teen and then Cam when in college and only man since then.  Not because I couldn't have, but because I just am not into it like that, nor interested in the diseases out there and fucking is a sure fire way to be subjected to an early death or a horrible disease you get to live with.  Cock or wuss just ain't worth it to me.
  
  As far as anon goes...its no big deal ta me, just another persona.  I am Jessica and I have blogged on gaia online, Imvu, jayrob, deftmove, nobodys smiling, future shop, mylot bluelight, yahoo, msn...hell....even more.  There are a many anonymous sites and I still write of a few, but soulcast is the one that literally came into my livingroom in a hell of a way and not at anything I did, but what some here have done, and I was not the only home in the only state I now find out.  I am not alone in having contacted law enforcement on both State and Federal levels, I have spend good money to assure I am represented.  Those are not threats, they are facts and true.  If I can put the ass thats sharing with kids, stalking or delivering death threats....if I can put them in a prison, I won't hesitate to. 
  
  No threat at all, don't try to share porn with kids, don't fuck w/ kids, don't stalk me, don't threaten me or my kids/family...and there is no chance of trouble...do those other things and I'll try and drop a prison on you.  Thats me and I am open about that, thats not a treat, its just a fact.
  
  My 420 was not celebrating Hitler in any sense, fuck him glad he's dead.  My 420 was spent on Lake Ontario fishing, camping and having a blast in the outdoors. To me, thats living, (camping means out to dinner sometimes), maybe a movie (RV) and chill, but its outdoors I spend my days when its nice.  Truly, fishing hunting trapping, running, camping, working in my garden, or designing a new color arrangement or an entire new look synthetically...thats my pleasures in life.  Pretty simple, but fulfilling for me.
  
  Jessi.
  

• starchini said on Apr 22, 2008....

  See that is exactly why i want to have a "buddy" to sleep with.  I dont want a relationship but i miss having sex.  I agree i dont want my crotch to rot off either so thats why i dont sleep around. 

  Camping eh?  Sweet i love camping.  So u being an advocate of legalizing pot, I thought u mighta celebrated the "holiday".  I spose not.  Ah well.

  U can put all the people in prison that u want to.  I dont think its a threat, i think its just good sense.

• hottips4u said on Apr 22, 2008....

  I smoke a little as an older teen and in college occasionally with friends.  But once I step into running my own small business, then becoming a Mom, I walked away from it without a problem.  Just not into it anymore, but I see no lasting adverse effects from when I once had either.  In fact I have met some many professionals in all kinds of fields, all ages of adults that smoke it regularly, again it doesn't stop them from being productive and good in their respective businesses.
  
  At this time in my life I can say that to continue incarcerating and ruining a persons life over a little pot is a bigger shame on society and the needless destruction of ones future (not smoking it, but, being convicted of any drug crime).
  
  I promote legalization due to the lives that have been marred by over zealous efforts of a hypocritical society and over reaching law that is crippling to the average individual in working class Americans who otherwise never indulge in criminal activity beyond perhaps smoking a joint.
  
  That is tragically the case yet today, and needs to change and stop persecuting what is otherwise far less dangerous than alcohol for the recreational pot head, imo.
  
  Jessi. 
  
   

• bloodrayn said on Apr 23, 2008....

  The only thing that could turn out bad that i can think of is that he may take it as a sign that you do have feelings for him.that and he may be a bit obsessive. Blood

• starchini said on Apr 25, 2008....

  He is starting to think i have feelings for him.  I mean, i kinda do but i dont nearly like him as much as he likes me.  He says things like "i didnt think id ever find someone as great as you" (implying he "has" me, wrongo)  and he is a touch obsessive.  I think itll die down though.  I mean arnt women always bitching that their men don pay enough attention to them?  I dont think i could ever make that complaint with phil.  And i htink a complaint of being paid too much attention to is not a complaint at all...ya know?

• bloodrayn said on Apr 26, 2008....

  yeah. i mean, my mom complains she gets to much attention from dave. but she can never make up her mind. anyways, just be careful.

• starchini said on Apr 28, 2008....

  Ok : ) thanks

• bloodrayn said on Apr 28, 2008....

  no problem. might not know you well, but i still care.

• starchini said on Apr 29, 2008....

  aww....: )

• bloodrayn said on Apr 29, 2008....

  just be careful with him star.

• starchini said on Apr 30, 2008....

  ok  : >

• bloodrayn said on Apr 30, 2008....

  =)

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