Quick update on what has been going on around here. I have been looking for new places to live, Our landlord has raised the rent and we just can not afford it anymore. I want to look for a place for my husband and I to live on our own. His father I feel tortures my son everyday. Anyway I found two places that would be awesome, one of them comes with utilities included and we would be paying $200 less than what we are paying now. I brought this to my husband's attention and he still refuses to move out on our own. He says that it would be better to stay together so that his dad can send more money back to Mexico. So I went on the internet and got a paper and found several 2 bedrooms they could move into calculated bills and figured they would also be able to save more money than they are now. I brought this also to my husband's attention. So my nagging question is, why? Why does he refuse to move away from them? Why is he not wanting to save $200 more dollars? Why won't he even give it some thought? Doesn't he see that I am unhappy living with them? I mean I know he does I have told him several times but still refuses to make a move. Yes I understand his parents will be leaving in one year to go back home but they will be living int he same damn city it's not like they will not see each other. Atleast no less than they do now. I do not know what to do, since we have not signed a contract yet we still have time to keep looking.