Fallyn's tags:
i want attention.
 
i love attention.
i crave attention.
 
but.
i think i'm strong enough that i don't make myself a nuisance.
i just try to calmly stay in the background unubtrusively waiting for attention.
 
what's the difference between an attention whore and one who just really wants attention but isn't willing to do "anything" to get it?
or is there a difference.
 


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  • diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....
    The difference is that the former is annoying and the latter is not! And you are very nice.. so you certainly fall in the latter category..  :-)
  • Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....
    *laughing*
    but i don't get the attention that i want.
    and i want to stop wanting it so badly. :P
  • diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....
    Oh we all want attention.. and none of us get as much of it as we want.. lol.. You're not alone.
  • Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....
    *grin* that's what's sad...that i'm not alone.
    the world is so full of not alone....but is still such a lonely place.
  • diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....
    Lonely place.. yes.. You can be in a crowd and still be lonely.. Cliche but true.. 
  • Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....
    i KNOW.
    is it just cause people are scared of showing themselves?
    or is it that they see people....and don't want to be a part of that ?

    i think i'm guilty of that sometimes.
    not wanting to be exposed to peoples crap......lets keep it on the surface please. etc.

  • diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....
    Yes I think you're right.. I think people find it easier to just keep things shallow and watch sometimes and not look deeper.. Also sometimes we overlook those who are trying to look deeper.. Works both ways I think..
  • Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....
    i think it does.
    i think what we want is to be accepting...and yet have people around us that are not completley full of prolems.

    or at LEAST people around us that are equally tuned to give and take.
    some people just take and take and take.
  • diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....
    Take and take and take.. I know.. Wouldnt you like being somebody's queen of the day?! 
  • lfbno7 said on Apr 05, 2008....
    If we were together, you could go on and on about any old thing, as long as you drew pictures on my back with your fingertip while you talked. I'd pretend to listen, too, but I'd just be focusing on your fingertip drawing me pictures. Nothing is surer to make me happy and calm than that.
  • Twylarants said on Apr 05, 2008....
    Uh, hello? I read this a while ago and thought "oh, I gotta come back later and tell Flyn she is not an attention whore" and what do I find when I get back?
    Lennie's back.  Literally.  Lennie's back.
    You are too funny Mr7.
    Now, who could ask for better attention than that, Flyn?  You have an entire back!
  • Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....
    *laughing* iffy....um....thanks?
    i think.

    twy...*grin* not a clue....*laughing*
    i wonder what it's called though when a person craves THAT much attention.
  • Twylarants said on Apr 05, 2008....
    It's called.......uh......I dunno, I got nothin'.
    I think I'm a lfbno7 groupie.  Maybe not a groupie so much as I want his brain, and I don't think that's what a groupie's after.  But I'm old and groupies are usually young, so I'm not a groupie, I'm a brainie.
    I'm a lfbno7 brainie.  Am I the only one?

  • Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....
    *laughing* i like iffy.
    *grin*
    and yes, i know his name is lennie...but....it's iffy to me.
  • Twylarants said on Apr 05, 2008....
    Iffy, Lennie, Leafy, Leafbeano....he's still Mr7 to me...lol!
  • Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....
    *grin* man of many disguises
  • lfbno7 said on Apr 05, 2008....
    hey you
  • silverwhisper said on Apr 06, 2008....
    this is something about which i've

    you don't do that. :>

    ed
  • pickersplock said on Apr 06, 2008....
    Hey, Flume!  Who doesn't like a little attention now and the?
  • mobil said on Apr 06, 2008....

    I don't think there is any difference is there? Cept attention whores are very vocal and quiet attention whores are hmmm.........quiet?.........haha

    Your the bestest type of attention whole Fallyn, you oughta run for President !

  • Storyteller said on Apr 06, 2008....

    There are so many kinds of attention I don't want to get. Here are some of them:
    False flattery from people that are trying to manipulate me.

    Any attention from the police. Even when they innocently drive behind me I get paranoid.

    Attention from former lovers and their current lovers.

    Credit for something I didn't do. Like if I won an award for saving a life, but it wasn't me that did it.

    Media attention that contains false information.

    Attention for anything I wrote that I feel is subpar.

    Attention from criminals,  gang members, and bums.

    Sometimes, attention from greedy children. If you give them one toy they want 10.

    So, I'm all for real attention from those that love and respect me, but most attention I can do without.

  • Fallyn said on Apr 06, 2008....
    ed, no, i suppose i don't do that.....negative attention doesn't really do anything for me....neither does positive attention achieved by begging or other false ways.
    i do like a lot of attention though.

    pickers....i don't know. *laughing*

    mobil....WHAT? *laughing*

    storyteller...so true. all kinds of attention i don't really care for either.
    just can't get enough satisfaction from the attention i do get.

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