• diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....

  hehehe.. funny.. inner skinny girl? I dont think I've met mine yet.. hehe.. I'm 5 feet 3 inches tall and I weigh 110 pounds.. I know its not over-weight but not skinny either. Atleast your inner skinny girl  would be doing interesting things.. Mine would just be lazying around I'm sure! lol..
  

• Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....

  *laughing*
  i like doing things...and that doesn't sound overweight to me in the slightest.
  and i didn't mean skinny like bone thin......but.....just not horribly overweight.
  

• diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....

  Oh.. not horribly over weight is all I care about too! I've never wanted to be bone thin at all! You must be able to tell by my fondness of lazying around! hehe.. And also I'm quite fond of chocolate cake.. So that doesn't go well with bone thin.. lol..

• Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....

  *grin*
  my downfall is pasta.
  

• diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....

  Oh pasta is not bad.. Not nearly as bad as chocolate cake! But I do like pasta myself you know.. Yum.. All this talk is making me hungry! lol

• Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....

  *laughing* well...for me...i can have a little bit of chocolate cake and be done.
  with pasta....it's oh......we have leftovers....i want leftovers.
  then i eat too many leftovers.
  more and more and more......
  etc. etc.
  
  

• diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....

  Oh yes the leftovers.. How can I forget.. lol.. That happens with me too.. If I like something.. anything..  I'll just have the leftovers for lunch dinner snack etc.. until I finish it off!
  

• Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....

  *grin*......EXACTLY!
  and then .....oh...we're out of leftovers....lets cook some more....cause that was SO good.
  
  

• diabolicdame said on Apr 05, 2008....

  Hehe.. Send some leftovers to me next time.. hehe.. We can share our guilty pleausre then.. 

• Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....

  *laughing*
  guilty pleasure is right.
  
  

• lfbno7 said on Apr 05, 2008....

  One thing we don't do in heaven is eat. So this is the time and place for that.

• Mamie said on Apr 05, 2008....

  I vote that you start dancing now, Fallyn! Why wait for such a fun and good thing? Dance on soul sistah! mamie

• Fallyn said on Apr 05, 2008....

  mamie...i KNOW....but i'm SOOO shy.

• queenparanoia said on Apr 05, 2008....

  mine's is still inside... waitig for new clothes and maybe a new attitude... ;) sigh i hope she'll come out soon...

• silverwhisper said on Apr 06, 2008....

  fallyn: i used to be painfully shy when i was a teen, so i can relate. do you know how i overcame it?
  
  i decided that i didn't want to be shy anymore. so what i did was watch the tricks that other people employed in making small talk. that, coupled w/ the realization that the worst thing that a person could do or say in response was shrug or disagree, helped me realize that by living in a self-imposed prison--which is exactly what shyness forces upon you--i've shut myself off from the very thing that would help me be more sociable.
  
  ed

• Storyteller said on Apr 06, 2008....

  Perhaps you labor under the misperception that you have to be skinny to do those things. Much of shyness is a fear of rejection. And we live in a judgemental society so that is a valid fear. But as action dispels fear, we must gird our loins and march on fearlessly. If 100 people reject us, we just have to meet 1000. Life is too short to be shy. You can't afford to be shy another minute. It is a life stealer.

• skald said on Apr 06, 2008....

  I've never heard of an inner skinny girl. Only the little girl inside. or the boy and I think we all have them. 

• Fallyn said on Apr 06, 2008....

  ed....i think i've conquered that particular shyness...i don't have much problem talking to people at all......but the shyness of participating is a bit different........i'm afraid of making a fool of myself.
  i'm afraid of showing anyone how out of breath i get. etc. etc.
  
  storyteller. how true. hmmmmm. i just need to get stronger.
  
  skald...well, i can imagine being how i want to be.....it's inside me....an inside that is different from the outside.
  apparently not different enough though.....or the outside would start to match.
  
  
  

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