A man can casually sleep with women and be called a stud, or a pimp or whatever word u want to use. Some people rightfully call men that sleep around sluts or whores.
A woman can casually sleep with men and be called a slut, a whore, or whatever slang u want to use. Some people rightfully call women that sleep around studs or pimps.
Im not sure how i feel about this. Let me be clear i dont like to call it anything. I dont think one is more derogitory than the other and i think they all pretty much mean the same thing.
I realize traditionall pimp mean a man who sells women. But in todays world men who are womanizers are called pimps all the time. So the meaning has adapted.
My girlfriend has had many boyfriends and dated lots of men, she has slept with 9 men. I think that is an ok number. She is 20 years old. She thinks she is a whore saying things like "i cant believe how many men ive been with its terrible im such a slut"
She would say these things when she was in a group of women who had slept with less men...
She called herself a whore when she was with me and Erika and we were talking about it. Erika admitted to 6 (i know otherwise) i was honest ive slept with 4 men. Her number was 9 so she was the "whore" of the room. She said it not me.
But in a different situation we were with another girl whod slept with 30 men and another whod slept with 16, her and i were considered prude and practically virginal.
So do these stereotypes depend on who ur around and being compared to?
Or is it cut and dry, uve slept with 10+ so ur a whore. Oh uve slept with 8 so ur not a whore yet...
My friend Melissa stands by her opinions and she insists that if uve slept with 10 or more people u are a whore.
I insist that there is no such thing as a whore, there are just people who have more sex than others.
If anything i would insist that a whore has nothing to do with ur number just how smart u are about it. I would have more respect for a woman that slept with 100 men and was safe than a woman who slept with 2 and wasnt safe...understand where im coming from?
I think whore or not its a matter of class and values.
Ive slept with 4 men, im 20 years old and 1 of the men i slept with we were unprotected. But i was on birth control and was in the relationship for 4 years...at first we were safe but after a year or so we said fuck it. But the three others i practiced safely with.
Question one : What are ur opinions on this subject?
Question two: How many people have u slept with? What is ur number, be honest.
Question three: What is your definition of a whore/slut?
