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When I came to the pool at 11.30 this morning, there was a settle on the door that said Closed. I was surprised. So was an elderly man who came at the same time as I.

 

A sport teacher came out of the house and we asked him why it was closed. He said that an old man had died in the steam room. A man who was born in the 20’s.. The pool will be opened again at 2, when the next shifts arrives he also said.  

 

I did not bother to go to an other pool. I went home and did some things I had to do and then I went back to the pool at 2.

 

I was glad to see that my favorite shift was working. I was glad that they did not find the body this morning and that they did not have to deal with this.  I like all the other shifts but this one is my favorite.

 

In the pool I met a man who told me who had died. Valdimar he said. Which Valdimar, I asked. I know two men who frequent the pool with the name Valdimar. One of them works in a shop and comes everyday at 12.15 and swims in his lunch hour. He has done that for years. He is a choir singer and so is the other Valdimar too. I did not remember that but I said is it Valdimar who sings? The man did not know. Well finally I understood which Valdimar it was.

 

 

I have talked about him here, before. The first time I talked about him was when I took mum to a church where there was some entertainment for elderly people. I was surprised when my acquaintance from the pool sang a solo with a choir there. I had been swimming at the same time a he for years. I had no idea that he sang.  I also often saw him and talked to him when he was on his walks.

 

I also talked about him  here when my son Gummi had some pictures at an exhibition.  I was proud of Gummi. He had 5 pictures at this exhibition. I met Valdimar there at the opening and asked him why he was attending. He said that there was a picture on the wall of him singing solo. He never asked me why I came.

 

Valdimar would swim so askew and it would bother me. Well but he was a nice man always smiling, always friendly. The last time I met him he told me about his daughter. She is a well known author here in Iceland and of course he was proud of her. I had been swimming with this man for over 20 years and I had no idea. Well today he went swimming. He did not come out of the house a life. I think he had a good life and now I say good bye to him. Every person you meet in life affects you in some way.



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  • uniquely-ironic said on Apr 02, 2008....
    I'm sorry you lost a friend.
     
    It sounds like this man had a very good life.  He was healthy enough to go about his business till the end.  Had children he was proud of.  There really isn't a lot more you can ask for.
  • skald said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Uniquely.  He was not a friend but he was an acquaintance, someone who was nice and we talked. Thank you, I think it will be difficult for his loved ones to loose him this way but for him it was probably good. 
  • quietone said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Yes it seems his life had gone full cycle.  It will be odd not seeing him swim askew for a while and you will miss that.. maybe.  I hope this is the end of your closed pool for a while.  see you in a few days my friend.  {{{hugs}}}
  • skald said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Quiet.  I am going to miss you and your wonderful PM's. Have a very good time in Disneyland and then post a lot of pictures for us when you come home. ((((((Hugs)))))

    As you know I was not sure weather is was appropriate to  publish this but I  did and that is because of your words. Thank you my friend. Living in such a small community as I do has formed that opinion of mine. But I don't think there are any of  my natives here. The death has to be announce to the love ones first and I don't want to hurt anyone.
  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on Apr 02, 2008....

    Is that Valdimar on the picture skald?

    It is very nice of you to write about him on this day (may his soul rest in peace); I have missed the blogs that mentioned him before.

    And, I don´t think it is inappropriate that you wrote about him.  See friends here will think about him and in a way, if one is a believer send good thoughts to heaven his way. . .

    I truly agree with what you wrote:

    Every person you meet in life affects you in some way.

    We experience it in our daily lives, and of course here in SoulCast as many of us have written more than often. . .

    By the way, I finally googled about Iceland today, I have been meaning to for a long time.  You have made me interested to get to know your country better.  I was not aware until today that Icelandic has North Germanic origins.

    What made me curious is ( beside the interest in language), the word you wrote : settle . . .

    in German one says Zettel for note. . .

    I don´t mean to be impolite, dear skald, I only find it very interesting!  Did you mean to write note, and wrote in your native tongue instead?  I sometimes do that while speaking, and I am not aware of it! 

    I love your blogs; I hope you will consider Trinov´s suggestion (I hope I am not mistaken...) to compile your blogs to make it into a book together with the beautiful pictures you took. 

    If not for the public readership, I am sure your grandchildren, and someday their grandchildren would enjoy reading, like so many here!

    paper ~


  • the_infernal_optimist said on Apr 02, 2008....
    It does sound like Valdimar had a full, rich life. Thank you for sharing the story of your acquaintance with us.

    ~Infernal
  • polarheart said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Dear Skald, my condolences for the passing of Valdimar.  I am sure that all who knew him at the swimming pool will remember him and miss him.  It is very kind that you did this tribute to him.
     
    Polar x
  • skald said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Paper.  Yes, it was Valdimar on the picture. It is taken of the picture at the exhibition.  Thank you for your very kind words. I am glad you goggled for Iceland  Yes we speak an old Germanic language and all the languages I know are just Germanic. English is that too with a lot of Latin and words from other languages,. as you know. I speak, German, Danish,Icelandic and because I speak Icelandic and Danish I understand fairly Swedish and Norwegian. When I came to Holland as a teenager I sometimes understood and sometimes did not. Later when traveling with Dutch people in ,my country I understood when the guide was talking about things I knew, like where we were or what we had been doing and if not I understood nothing. lol
    The word settle which i wrote, I was so sure it was English, It is not Icelandic we have a word seðill but that means a money note.
    Y

    Thank  you so much Paper. You are so kind and I am so glad that I am finally getting to know you after all this time. Yes and may Valdimars soul rest in peace.
    Infernal. I think Valdimar had a good life and I hope so.
    Polar. Thank you and I am sure Valdimar will be remembered. ((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))
  • fearing said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Oh Skald, that is awful news.  I am so sorry.  I'm sending you a hug.

  • Alyss said on Apr 02, 2008....
     I am sorry for your loss Skald.
  • pickersplock said on Apr 02, 2008....
    It's so unsettling when someone passes so quickly and without warning like that.
  • skald said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Fearing.  Thanks.Fearing.

    Alyss.  Thanks Alyss.
    Pickers. I think so too. Thanks Pickers.
  • Trinov said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Hi, it must always be a shock to find that someone we know died. And it is a question whether someone would want to die all of a sudden, without suffering and pain, but not knowing, or if it is better to be prepared for that change (and the same question for the family and friends involved).

    Among the legends or stories of how people lived in very ancient times it is said that people then did not outwardly age, but lived long lives as youngish (middle age ? )looking people and would die without warning in what looked like a sneeze .

    My grandmother was 96 and a half when she died, she had been fairly healthy until about 93 (but she slipped on a wet floor in this negligent senior citizens place), but one day she said to me" Come tomorrow to take me home". And I understood that she intended to die, and I was with her that next day, and she just gradually stopped breathing with no pain or suffering.

    So if anyone dies with no pain or suffering, after living a long life and a good one, they are just going 'home' and I think that we still miss them,but mourn them, not really.

    (Yes paper it was me that suggested that Skald put together a book with her pictures and her comments, for such a book would have an audience)
  • skald said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Trinov. Thanks for that suggestion. I have to think about it. As I don't believe to much in my self in that field. There are so many good photographers here and I just do this for the benefit of Soulcast if anyone here is interested. Also Paper.  Thanks for suggesting it again.
    Trinov  What you say about your grandmother dying with no pain, that is very interesting. I remember you talking about this neglecting home she was in and her dying there. I know some old people intend to die.

    I don't know if this man  died  without suffering but it must have been quick and that is always good but  on the other hand  I have heard that people who die unexpectedly don't know where they are and get confused. That is not good.

    I wonder why those people in the legends kept so young for a long time. That is wonderful.
  • TinSoldier said on Apr 02, 2008....
    I'm sorry that your friend passed, but you have written a lovely memorial for him.

    I think that remembering someone after they are gone is probably one of the kindest things you could ever do.
  • Mamie said on Apr 02, 2008....
    oh gosh, Skald, I am sorry to hear about your friend. I am sure you will remember him with a smile each day that you go to the pool. Mamie
  • Trinov said on Apr 02, 2008....
    Hi, some say that it was because they were all vegetarians, others that that was how it was and that will be that way again. People now are staying younger longer. A woman of 27 in our generation often started to look middle aged, now women in their forties look young. There was a saying in my day, that if a women didn't marry by 30 she had no chance, now, thirty somethings are young and look young.
  • CreativeWoman said on Apr 02, 2008....
    skald,
    I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your friend.  It must have been quite a shock.

    CW
  • scipio said on Apr 03, 2008....
    Skald, sorry to read about the loss of your accquitance. May his soul rest in peace.
  • queenparanoia said on Apr 03, 2008....
    so sorry about the loss skald...
  • skald said on Apr 03, 2008....
    Tin.  Thanks so much but as I told  Uniquely he was not a friend  just an acquaintance.
    Mamie.  Yes, I will remember my acquaintance with a smile. Thank you
    Trinov.   I think we looked young here in our 30's and 40's but it is , oh the phone rang and now I don't know what I was saying. Yes the generation before us would say that we were going to be spinsters if we did not get married before 30 and it sounded like that was something to be ashamed of. How they would really brain wash us or at least try. Some of them not all. My grandparents would never speak like that. Yes. it might be that way again that people age slower and and look young much longer.
    CW Thanks, this was a shock but he was just an acquaintance not a friend.
    Scipio.  Thanks so much. May his soul rest in peace. And you got it right he was an acquaintance.
  • skald said on Apr 03, 2008....
    Queen Thank you queen. 
  • TinSoldier said on Apr 03, 2008....
    Yes, I understood that he was just an acquaintance. I just felt better using the word "friend" if that makes any sense.

    I still think that your remembrance of him was a nice gesture.
  • skald said on Apr 03, 2008....
    Tin.  Yes, I understand and thank you. I thought maybe you Americans had an other concept of the words than I. :-)
  • diabolicdame said on Apr 03, 2008....
    Hey.. Its always sad when someone passes away but it sounds like he had good life and people (like yourself) remember him for good things.. ultimately thats what matters I think.. May his soul rest in peace.
  • MissMimi said on Apr 03, 2008....
    I'm sorry to hear this, skald.  It was very nice of you to remember him this way. 
  • skald said on Apr 03, 2008....
    Dia.  Thanks so much and you are so right.
    Mimi. Thanks so much.
  • silverwhisper said on Apr 04, 2008....
    ah skald, i'm so sorry about your friend. jeez, i'm afraid i don't really know what else to say...

    [hug]

    ed

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