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This may be a tired cliche, but it remains true. Today is the first day of the rest of our lives. Of my life, at least.

It's a day as ordinary as can be -- Tuesday 25 March 2008. The vernal equinox has passed.  The March full moon aka the Worm Moon has passed. The Lenten season has passed (although I did try to time this blog for Easter Sunday). There is no numerical signicance or symmetry to 25-03-2008, like there is in the dates 01-01-2000 or 08-08-08, for example.

But I choose this day to end my series of blogs (Vernal equinox glimpses...) with Countdown Zero. I want to share with you my near-future glimpses of what 2008 will bring to my life. These glimpses are not yet real-life events or sure-fire eventualities. But they are not mere vague hopes, either, because I've been quietly working for them to turn into reality. If not this year, then next year.

So here is my list of the things that I'm doing my best to happen in 2008 extending to 2009.

  1. Enter a work-study program in an American, or European, or East Asian university, and visit friends and relatives and do some traveling and personal research while there.
  2. Set up a new website that will show some signs of modest success. (Actually, revive an old website that I allowed to hibernate.)
  3. Do some long-distance biking or backpacking across at least a few national borders, as part of my preparations for a more ambitious once-in-a-lifetime project (which Mobil knows about).
  4. Finish writing a book. Get myself a publisher. (I'm already in contact with two.)
  5. See (and probably help) Sophie achieve her own dream of setting up and running a special school for children with special needs. And finally see my Silver Girl sail on high, when her time comes to shine.

These are my glimpses for 2008 and beyond. Tall order? Maybe. But then again, maybe not. It isn't as if I planned this on the fly, a spur-of-the-moment wild idea. I have blueprints. Difficult? To paraphrase an inscription that I quoted in a blog I wrote last year: "Difficult things I do at once. The impossible takes a bit longer."

My words might prove to be, in the long run, mere bravado. Sometimes they are. But I've never been so dead serious as now.

There have been some false starts, yes. Late last year, for example, a series of windfall opportunities buoyed up my plans, and I shared some of my enthusiasm in a blog about parallel worlds. Alas, it was to be a short-lived advance.  It was something I couldn't sustain. But it's an advance nonetheless. And this year I will build up on it and be on my way. Again, wish me the best of luck.

If you have your own glimpses to 2008 and beyond, my friends, you are more than welcome to share them here. I love listening to wild dreams and impossible schemes.



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  • quietone said on Mar 25, 2008....
    Hi moon.  those goals and dreams of yours sound very ambitious for sure.  Especially the biking and backpacking, but what an adventure!  For me, not so much, but I do hope to do some traveling this year and see some good friends of mine.  I have been doing a lot of work on my own self, so that is what I am concentrating on now, a new me in the "now here".  :) 
  • Battycat said on Mar 25, 2008....
    I'm still trying to work out what mine are! Good luck with yours, they sound good to me :-)
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 25, 2008....
    I do wish you all the best for your plans! And I don't think its a tall order. I think the hardest part is aiming for your dreams.. to have the courage to not settle for the easier, safer, more moderate life.Achieving them is not really as difficult. Once you've jumped in the water, you have to swim, right?
       In 2008 and ahead, I want to finish my college graduation with distinction. I want to go abroad for my masters to one of the universities I've shortlisted. I want to travel while I'm at it too.. preferably with my boyfriend who's already abroad. I want to get myself the kind of job that I've always wanted. I want to learn a classical form of dance.
        Wish me luck too! :-)
  • beyondtheveil said on Mar 25, 2008....
    moon- People like you are probably always going to have a set of ambitious goals - and that's good. It keeps you closer to happiness and fills a niche in your persona for feelings of worthiness, accomplishment, meeting new people and on a good day, perhaps helping them.

    I've lost a lot of these things as the years have gone by. I no longer want to be "tied" to things and be loaded with appointments of one type or another. My ambition has fled to Jupiter. I've come to the point where I want day to day freedom, the freedom to be somewhat worthless. Not to those around me, family, friends, or even strangers for that matter, but for the world at large. The world is too big for me now, I just want to cruise it with the windows down at night and look at it in my rear view mirror.
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 25, 2008....
    I plan to be true to me. To be happy. To work for my future. To be  Whatever?!  I'm just making time now. :~)
     
    Good luck in ALL that you do! Take care my friend.  *smile* ~see ya
  • gingersoul said on Mar 25, 2008....

    Moon...oh, you know i have serious reactions when it comes to make long term plans.....not even for one year.....i just can't...dont ask me this....:-)

    But since our  friends' plans can eventually collide with us i hope yours will bump in my no-plans one day........who know? Maybe you will be hickjacking on some lonely road to Roma and i will pick you up......lol..

    Since we have been so lucky to meet here of all the odd chances offered by internet......why not in real life ?......;-p

     

  • moonriver said on Mar 25, 2008....
    hi quiet -- Yes, I often have self-doubts about these plans, whether I can pull them off or not. But I fight these self-doubts by concentrating on the details of my plan. The gaps, the uncertainties, the givens. Hey, I'm glad you have travel plans yourself, plus working on the new you. I wish you the best too.

    hi battycat -- That's the spirit. Continue working on your plans. Sometimes our dreams and schemes look like a giant, messy jigsaw puzzle where no piece seems to fit. But we plod on. And on. And then... the moment comes when it all starts to fall together. I wish you the best too.

    hi ddame -- I like the way you said it... "Once you've jumped in the water, you have to swim, right?" I guess I'm lucky that my favorite teachers always taught me the same thing: learn by doing, by trial and error. You seem to have a good focus in your life -- pursuing your masters, in your travels with your Bf, and in learning classical dance. I wish you the best too.

  • moonriver said on Mar 25, 2008....
    hi beyond -- I wasn't always like this. There were years, when I was younger, when I was so focused on my very specialized work, that I hardly allowed any time to pursue my other interests. I think I've passed that stage, now more concerned with expanding my horizons, achieving synthesis or integration.

    You have your own path before you, my friend. I've always sensed you to be an old soul, and old souls find Zen-like satisfaction in seemingly simple but actually profound daily deeds, like woodcraft, and pet dogs, and gardening. I particularly liked your image of "cruising life with the windows down at night and looking at it in my rear view mirror." I wish you the best for 2008 and beyond, my friend.

    hi memyself -- Like beyond, I've sensed you from the start to be an old soul, who has found her path and focus in life. So there. Be true to yourself, work for your future, and be happy! I wish you the best too, my friend.


  • moonriver said on Mar 25, 2008....
    hi ginger dear friend -- I know, I know... no long-term plans for you. And I won't ask you to do a Powerpoint presentation of your Quarter1, Quarter2, Quarter3, and Quarter4 projections, complete with graphs and flowcharts and timelines... :-)

    Leave it to this planning geek to compute the probable trajectories, velocities, masses, etc. for possible collisions and near-collisions between two cosmic bodies *wink*

    Why not in real life indeed, my friend? Who knows? One summer, I might just find myself an intern in a certain human rights agency in Europe, biking along a highway on my way south to Roma, and suffer a busted derailleur in a Pontremoli localita... maybe I should get your phone # just in case I need to hitch a ride to the nearest repair shop, no?

    Will you be fetching me in your old Fiat? or in your old reliable farm horse and cart?

    I wish you the best too, my friend.

  • gingersoul said on Mar 25, 2008....

    No way....you will call me and i will drop everything i will be doing and i will come to pick you up ....even at Pontremoli and  that woudl be two hours driving distance from my home.........no repair shop for you...you will be staying with me at my home....and i will  show you around my places...

    It sounds a great plan, now that i think about it....:-)

  • moonriver said on Mar 25, 2008....
    It's a deal then. Is the Bracciano Castle and Lake along the way? Can we drop by for a quick picnic? :-)

  • gingersoul said on Mar 25, 2008....
    Absolutely....even though we must first stop at my place so you can take a nice shower and then proceed for the lake......you would love it......;-)
  • moonriver said on Mar 25, 2008....
    You are so graceful in your offer, lady. Thanks. :-)

    I would be greasy and sweating from all that biking. I might mess up your bathroom... but if you're ok, then I'm ok.

    But first things first... I need to pursue that European job first. Lol.


  • gingersoul said on Mar 25, 2008....

    My shower will be ready when you will be ready then....LOL.....

    No problem about messing up...you will be the one to clean up.....:-D

  • queenparanoia said on Mar 25, 2008....
    i hope you could share the book if it gets publish!!!! =)
  • moonriver said on Mar 25, 2008....
    queenie -- When my book gets published (take note, my friend... "when" not "if"), you'll be among the first ones to receive a copy. After Botoni and Ginger, who were first in line. I'll send it to you in a package where I'll include some goodies. (Take care... I'm an inveterate prankster in sending packages.) :-)

    ginger -- No problem about me cleaning up after the mess, lady. I'm a world-class expert in cleaning messy bathrooms. :-)
     
  • queenparanoia said on Mar 26, 2008....
    yay!!!!
  • silverwhisper said on Mar 27, 2008....
    am marking to return, moon.

    ed
  • TinSoldier said on Mar 29, 2008....
    I don't know what the future holds for me. I've been coasting along on autopilot for a couple of years now which sometimes gets downright depressing.

    I should set some achievable goals, but... I dunno. I feel like I've taken the blue pill and now have non-specific regrets about life continuing to always go on as before.
  • moonriver said on Mar 30, 2008....
    Tinman friend -- You know Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, I'm almost sure. "To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven."

    I read your account for 1996 on my vernal-equinox series, and I think I understand the difficulties of adjustment. I was on auto-pilot for several years too.

    You remember Piet Hein of course. He has this cute little grook, "T.T.T." Means "things take time." I'm sure you'll have your due time to fly and soar, my friend.

    In my case, I feel my time to fly is just around the corner, and if I don't take the preparatory steps now, my chance might be lost.

  • busybusybusy said on Apr 01, 2008....

    dear you,
    one year i spent a whole summer listening to that one s&g album and painting on my front porch. good luck with your goals...mine are just to sail on, continue to learn, make things happen, have things happen to me, and sometime get to mexico, but that probably won't be until 2009.
    love,
    anonymous

  • moonriver said on May 01, 2008....
    dear busybusy--

    an entire summer doing paintings on your front porch? that would be a dream come true for me. it would be like when i was 18, 20 years old again. although i played a more varied selection as i painted -- james taylor, rolling stones, jeff beck, john mayall...

    mexico is in my sights too, but that would be beyond 2010. our clan has partial roots there, and i plan to do some genealogical as well as broad-historical research among its incredibly rich archives.

    well, good luck on your travels.

    love,
    moon

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