On Wednesday I have to go to court for an evaluation of my Parenting Time, those of you who are divorced know what this is. For those who don't it is regarding the amount of time you get to spend with your children when your divorced and don't get to have them live with you.
Each time over the last three years I have been misled, mistreated by me ex and her family in order for them to do whatever they want during my Parenting Time. I have to see them at my ex's house due to my health issues which I will not go into right now.
The problem is she wants to get me to stop seeing them completely as to the point of offering me out of child support in exchange for surrendering my parenting time visits completely. Now that I know what she wants, what the hell do I ask for? She claims to be living in one place, but I believe she is living elsewhere and she is so desperately deceiving me in order to frustrate me and get me to quit coming completely one way or another especially since I sometimes have not felt good and did not go.
Not too mention that it is 200 miles round trip for me to visit them each time. And since I took a job which interferes with my parenting time she has been even less cordial despite my ability to pay something in the way of child support. And people wonder sometimes why I want to just quit living.
johnlove posted on Mar 21, 2008
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uniquely-ironic said on Mar 21, 2008....
I've been there. I'm still kinda there. I am not the custodial parent of my children 9 months of the year. It sucks! I made the excruciating choice to leave them with their dad so that they could keep going to the only school they had ever attended.During the divorce I actually had them taken from me with only daytime visitation for awhile. I fell into the courtroom of a judge who didn't take into account my income and required me to have seperate bedrooms for my son and daughter.I was able to eventually correct it, but it was painful, expensive and heartwrenching. So ....... let me say this from where I'm standing today.DONT GIVE UP ANY CUSTODY YOU HAVE. FIGHT FOR YOUR KIDS.I'm not saying to do anything outrageous, but don't let her wear you down. Ask for full custody and request child support from her. If she's trying to cut you out the only thing you can do to restore balance is to ask for the opposite extreme. If you have relatives who can watch the kids part time or any other such arrangement, bring it to court.Your kids need you. Even if it doesn't seem like you can humanly do more, they need you. Some day when they look back they will see that you fought for time with them and how unfair their mom was, but that won't be today.
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