This is my section of my blog called The Ranting Commentary. This will cover social issues as well as Political Issues. In this one I will cover the subject of Men and Women with Disabilities. This ranting Commentary is inspired by bumping into a an old friend who turned out not to be so nice.

I was happy to see her since we are both survivors of a residential program that was very horrendous. So I talk to her for awhile I asked her if she would like my Cellophane number. She being pardon my language, "a bitch about it". I know she is getting married and everything else of that nature. I don't get this need to be totally separated from Men who are not married once you get married or engaged. There is a difference between being loyal to your partner and being totally separated from yourself. I am of the belief that if you truly want to feel independence in a romantic relationship setting. That either your partner should give you the free will to be friends with people of the opposite sex.  This also includes giving your self-the free will to keep yourself open. We have this need to keep ourselves mentally safe from all dangers. I have to tell you something i have been through the psychology of it, and I've got to tell you that the, "I need to feel safe and comfortable". Is very much a bullshit reason if you truly want to psychologically grow then take some risks reach out and talk to someone.

By, the way I do understand that the closer that you live to someone the more you don't want to be near them. I have to say that with all do respect to Sociology and Psychology majors I want to hit you with some realities. If you truly want to help your clients grow psychologically then understand that risks have to be taken. Sociology majors The American society is filled with a passive Eugenics Bias that is sickening I have to say that I have not seen so many people afraid of reaching out to someone. Don't look for a scapegoat if someone is actually going to grow then he or she need to take responsibility for their own actions.  Thinking for yourself actually requires to go beyond your boundaries and test things out once in awhile. It's bad enough that everyone lives in fear of each other. I understand Stranger Danger as a child.  It is about time that the Adults stop reliving their childhood and actually face the reality of their own situation to improve their own lives. I have never been a fan of Psychology in fact I am a big critic of that profession.

Furthermore, we as a general practice treat psychology of a societal type as the right thing to do. Fear everyone you meet as a possible threat to your mental well being so that when you do make an acquaintance your not even going to be able to trust them because society tells to fear everyone as a threat. As far as I can see there is this misconception that you cannot talk to another Male once you get married is bullshit. Diversifying your support system is necessary for a Healthy Psychological state. Don't get me wrong, I know that boundaries have a purpose. I am going to say that when you get to a point where you throw religious morality as an excuse the fact is in my standpoint that most marriages are going to fail anyway. It is Human nature to lie cheat and commit adultery with someone else because your spouse gets bored with you. It even gets worse the majority of my fellow men hypocritical as it is for me to say this. Have made this societal rule necessary on the misconception that we can actually be trusted to use mind over basic biology.

The fact of the matter is that the majority of Men have made excuses for bad behavior with the subject of their own biological urges.  We have no credibility left among women as result some of them become celibate the other become Lesbian. Men you are doing it to yourselves when you can't find someone to go out with because of your own mucho arrogant nature at the time during the relationship. I am not just going after guys in this commentary, i believe that Women should stop trusting their genetic biology when it comes to who they choose as a partner. Not all sensitive guys are gay, there I've said it. I would not complain when the relationship turns sour when your boyfriend turns out to be an asshole. You chose the Asshole deal with the responsibility of your own actions for the fuck you made. There happens to be plenty of sensitive straight guys out there you have to take the initiative and make the effort to actually try and find them. For both the Gentleman and the ladies try actually starting off as friends and don't treat your partner as a conquest.