Ed: Thanks for asking and I am happy to share. I can't even imagine what he's dealing with now.
My "other Mom's" (like a second Mom) boyfriend is NOW a contractor in Iraq. He retired from the Air Force (I believe) and didn't know what to do with himself when he retired. Their house was going to be foreclosed on and they had to list it for 200K LESS than what they bought it for!!! The only thing he could do to make the money was become a contractor and head over.
When I spoke with her last night she said it sounds like a firing range when she talks to him! She hates that he didn't go over there as military, but as a civillian contractor (AKA Bullseye to the bad guys). He said to her that he hates it too that his not being military over there, he feels like he let his guys down. And coming back as a contractor isn't looked upon lightly because the units that protect the convoys are the ones that get attacked. Also, he's not allowed to carry a weapon.
He said to her that through talking with some guys he actually knows that are there (military guys serving) said it's gotten a hell of a lot better. It's not considered suicide becoming a contractor as before. The soldiers would get pissed when new contractors, or additional contractors came in.
I'll be seeing her on my trip and she asked me to scan some pictures he took of over there. I'll email them to myself and share if I'm allowed.
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http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080616/ap_on_re_mi_ea/iraq_turning_point
This link points to an article that says confidence in Iraq's government is increasing and that violence has reached its lowest point in three years.
To be fair, there are still many ongoing problems, but if we get out now as Oceanwaves proposes, the work we've done, money we've spent and lives we've lost will be for nothing.
There are signs of progress in Iraq. It's been long and slow and expensive, and it will probably take another five to ten years, but we can leave Iraq in better shape than when we found it.
Ultimately, that's what I think we ought to do.