I am what I feel to be a very individualistic person.  I don' t depend on other people's approval. It is nice to have a few close friends that share my values and feelings about life. I am a bit of a loner due to life's experience. I have learned lately to exclude most negativity from my life . I say most we don't always see what is adversely affecting us. I am however developing sensitivity in this direction as well.

We create and attract most of the bad things that happen to us. I do say most, not all events that befall us. Some are out of our control. The majority of bad relationships that we get into are with people that are not good for us. Why do we keep attracting the same type of people? Mainly because we keep seeking that same type of person. There are exclusions to this and I recently experienced this so I do say most!

I have recently downsized my friendship base due to the fact that I am trying to keep my life positive and calm. I am hoping for no more panic attacks, chest pains and depression. Tired of feeling that I need to take a pill to calm my self because my heart is racing and I feel as though I am going to have a heart attack. A pro active approach was the answer. We really are the creators of our destiny in most cases and one has to empower himself with positive forward thinking.

So, how do we accomplish this?? Hard work ...what I mean by hard work is that you have to change your mindset and realize that YOU are capable of taking control of your life. That you must make the sometimes difficult decisions to be strong, gain confidence and not feel as though you need someone else to validate how intelligent, beautiful and wonderful you are! Through life's experience most of us have been knocked down and lost our self confidence. Let us work together and find what matters most...... US!!!!