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Hello everybody! I'm new and I'm young and I'm inexperienced.
        Yes, this is my first day and my first post here. Of course I've been reading blogs here for a while and even have some favorites (all in due time!), but I've only actually signed up a few minutes ago. From whatever experience I have of first days and first times, I have a feeling you all will probably not accept me into your fold immediately. But I'm hoping you'll come around! I'm writing this post as another venture in the world or firsts. Ahhh, the uncomfortable, unsure, capricious world of firsts. Not all my firsts have been pleasant. Not all of them have led to something meaningful. Some of them have even failed to progress beyond the first. But there have been many others that have been refreshing and warm and even fun! So here i am, once again in the world of firsts. What kind of first it turns out to be depends on you.
        So, tell me about your firsts. Any first will do. How was your first day here? Why did you start blogging? What kind of response did you get? Was it what you were hoping for? How do u feel about firsts in general? Do they make you a little nervous? They make me a little nervous. This is making me a little nervous! So, lets get to know each other..
       


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  • Lucytorial said on Mar 16, 2008....
    First time I met you! hi and welcome to the fold! silly goose, of course we won't sit here and watch you and say nothing! goodness me, we're a nice lot here, friendly bunch of people.

    First time I blogged wow.... I had a HUGE welcome here, made me feel easier about blogging.  They will come you watch them.

    Oh just so you know I'm a regular deleter of my posts... usually only keep a few at a time... been here since 06.
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 16, 2008....
    Hey lucytorial!
    Thanks for making me feel better already. You're my first commenter so you'll always be special! I'll be keeping an eye out for your posts now that I know.. I've read a few and have seen you in comments. Its really nice to finally say hi!
  • Lucytorial said on Mar 16, 2008....
    I am honored to be your first commenter and also your first subscriber... ooohhh never had a virgin before! mwaa hahaa I have a sick sense of humor sometimes sorry.

  • diabolicdame said on Mar 16, 2008....
    He he he he.. Oh thats alright! I'm pleased to have given you my 'flower'. Ha ha ha.. I'm a little twisted too sometimes! We'll get along great.. I've just been reading your posts.. i love the wedding song one!
  • gingersoul said on Mar 16, 2008....

    Hello diabolic....first time i say hi to someone with this name..does it count as a first? I read your comment on Moon's blog...you already met one of the best  here.....

    Let's see.....first time here i read an erotica piece...not bad......i had my first response pretty soon after i posted my first blog and i had a quite slow beginning......but i liked it here, as i can say, at first reading....lol....

    Sc had me at hello...welcome!

  • Zayda said on Mar 16, 2008....
    Diabolic: Welcome to the posting side of Soulcast.

    I read for awhile before I started posting here as well. I actually started by commenting on a few blogs to break the ice, so to speak before I broke out my own first blog post.

    I found the welcome here warm and the community just as warm as the welcome, which is a large part of the reason why I have stayed at SC for so long.
  • bluegum said on Mar 16, 2008....

    welcome to soulcast diabolicdame, i just comment ,you will be just fine just a teenyweeny question how tall are you.

     bluegum.

  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Gingersoul: It sure does count! As I said I've been reading for a while, so its a pleasure to finally be saying hello to you.. and thank you for the welcome. I already like it here as well.

    Zayda: Thank you.. It feels real nice to be welcomed like this! I actually wanted to start out with comments as well.. but I've always been wanting to blog and never actually have, so I decided to take the plunge! And I'm surely not regretting it.. Its nice to b getting to know all of you.. I'll be seeing you around.

    Bluegum: Hello bluegum! Thanks for the welcome.. And any particular reason you're curious about my height? I'd be happy to tell once I know what made you ask..
  • Lucytorial said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Bluegum you are one naughty boy! don't worry diabolic... he's an aussie male who likes a good sheila! tee he hee

    I like your name actually, diabolic dame... watch out! she's diabolical in her charm!
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Ooh ok.. Thanks Lucy. I was wondering if its standard protocol here. Hehehe..
       And I sure am diabolical. I'll give them all they need but I'll take their soul for it. He he..
  • bluegum said on Mar 17, 2008....
    i detect a certin wildness in this filly a little on the small side well put together though ,stands at about 15 hands kicks and bites a little .he he he.
    bluegum.
  • silverwhisper said on Mar 17, 2008....
    welcome to soulcast, diabolicdame--nice to meet you!

    hm...firsts, eh? well, let's see--a week ago today i had my very first experience writing a letter of resignation and actually turning it in. :>

    ed
  • travelr712 said on Mar 17, 2008....
    as to being accepted immediately, if people seem standoffish, perhaps it is because we've had a rash recently of some negative experiences with alts here, and since no one really knows who anyone else is, people can be kind of skiddish until they get to know you, so try not to take it personally. you're doing what it takes to get noticed here. commenting on other people's blogs, engaging them, letting them get to know you. that's about all you can do here. good luck :-)
  • rupert7 said on Mar 17, 2008....
    diablo-- is that OK with you? I don't really think you are a devil! "-))  who did you arrive here at S.C., may I be so bold as to ask?....I mean of all the blog sites you end up here??  Fact is that there is no better place to be and you are sure to make a bunch of friends here....welcome!
  • evil_twin said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Welcome to Soulcast! I'm sure you'll have lots of fun here. I've been here for awhile, but my first day here was pretty good I think. It must have been since I'm still around! I think you'll find the people here to be really friendly and helpful and I'm sure you'll want to stick around too.

    -evil_twin LA
  • destinydiva said on Mar 17, 2008....
    hiya diabolic, cool name! :-) welcome to soulcast xxx
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Bluegum: Now I can't reveal everything but I will tell you that you're right about the biting ;-)

    Silverwhisper: Hi Ed!! Its really nice meeting you as well! When I discovered Soulcast, your's was one of the first blogs that I explored.. And of course it got me hooked..
      Writing your resignation huh? Thats quite a first.. I had read something about a job that wont let you check your mail or surf the internet. Is that the one you left?

    Travelr712: Thanks Travelr.. I'll keep that in mind. Actually I'm really happy with the reception. This is first time I've tried blogging and everybody here has really put me at ease. Also I'll try doing whatever I can to help everybody here get comfortable around me. I felt better right away with the first comment Lucy left me. So far everybody's been real nice!

    rupert7: Hey Rupert.. Sure you can call me Diablo! Thats another nice first right there :-)  And I don't know how I landed here but I've kept coming back until I've finally introduced myself..  I'm glad to be here and thanks for the welcome!

    Evil_twin: Thanks a lot for the welcome.. I'm already having fun!

    Destinydiva: Hi destinydiva! We share our initials.. DD!  Thanks for the compliment and for the welcome....


  • silverwhisper said on Mar 17, 2008....
    diabolicdame: as a matter of fact, yes, that was the one! i didn't realize you've been around for that long! :>

    ed
  • Eilan said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Welcome to SC, diabolicdame!

    I knew some people when I came to SoulCast, so I didn't really feel like a n00b.

    As for firsts in general, I tend to get nervous, particularly if I'm not sure what to expect.

  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Silverwhisper: Oh well then its good cos we can get more of you now! And yes I have been reading for a long long time.. I finally decided to take the plunge and introduce myself.. get out of the shadows. :-)

    Eilan: Hi!Thanks for the welcome. Yes I can relate to that feeling.. I felt it yesterday writing this post! he he he.. But I see now that this is actually nice and I'm glad!
  • silverwhisper said on Mar 17, 2008....
    well, not entirely true--i was going to write a separate blog entry about that... :>

    if you don't mind my asking, about how long have you been poking around before you put up this blog entry?

    ed
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    I'll be looking forward to that entry and I don't mind you asking at all Ed. I think I've been reading since Oct-Nov 2007. I know that may seem  a little... well... lame! But I've never blogged before so I think I was a bit apprehensive about it. Then yesterday I was reading something here and I decided to join in on an impulse. It was a good impulse I think! :-)
  • hinana said on Mar 17, 2008....

    Hi dia,,,can i keep your name that short?

    and welcome to SC! =)

    I read fro a bit before I joined here too, these guys keep you hooked dont they =P

    A first of mine is...well the first time I had to go work at a weddign it was completely last minute and I was freaking out, I was so nervous about my work.

    But yeah, I hope you like it here and I look forward to readign you =P

  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Hi Hinana! Yea sure you can keep my name short.. and thanks for the welcome!
        I totally got hooked to this place when I started reading.. You're very right about that.
    And work at a wedding huh? That sounds like fun.. I like weddings.. although I'd probably freak out too if I was in your place.. People can be soo fussy about their weddings!! he he ;-)
  • hinana said on Mar 17, 2008....
    lol yeah it is fun. i do henna and makeup though, so if i make a mistke, its BAD
  • silverwhisper said on Mar 17, 2008....
    nah, i don't think that's lame--but i'm surprised you were able to hold your tongue for so long! :D

    ed
  • polarheart said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Hi DD!  Welcome to SoulCast, I hope you stay, you sound like the perfect personality for this place :-)
     
    I usually give newbies this LINK on how to get the most out of SoulCast.  I trust it will be of help to you.
     
    I have been here for one year and three months.  I did not know anything about blogging when I joined.  I did not expect the warm welcome that I received.  Needless to say it is the reason I decided to stay. . .I have made wonderful friends here and it plays a very important part in my life.
     
    Have fun!
    Polar
     
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Hinana: I love henna tattoos.. I've had them done a few times.. I can imagine some bridezillas giving you trouble over them!

    Silverwhisper: Actually Ed even I'm surprised I held my tongue for this long! I'm really a bit of a chatterbox! He he he..

    Polarheart: Hi Polarheart!! Thanks for the welcome.. I sure will stick around.. Thanks for the link as well.. I can use a bit of help with getting around this place :-)
  • silverwhisper said on Mar 17, 2008....
    o good...i hear my cue to post something very controversial. :D

    ed
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Hmmmn.. I wonder what you have in mind Ed..!
  • fearing said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Welcome to SoulCast! 

    I'm not big on "firsts", change and I don't like each other but I'm learning.  ;-)

    When I started blogging here, I found it to be very welcoming and friendly.  That is why I'm still here.  The people are wonderful!

    Nice to meet you.


  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Hi Fearing! nice to meet you too. Yeah nobody likes change but you gotta live with it rite.. And I'm happy to report that so far I'm finding everybody here really friendly as well.. Its really made me comfortable.. 
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Welcome to the neighborhood. Hope you make yourself at home. As you can see....there is alot of good folks here. So, enjoy. Take care ~see ya
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Mar 17, 2008....
    My my my...  This is quite the welcome you've received here.  I never got a welcome like this...  Where was my welcoming wagon?  Where were my coupons?  Maps to the city?...  [sulks]

    Sorry to be late to the party.  I see the welcoming wagon's been here already, so I'll keep it brief.  Many of the people commented here are good eggs.  Great folks reside among the pages here.  Kind, caring, witty...  Many of them are also master wordsmiths.  You'll soon be captivated and bound by their wordcraft and you'll be compelled to care deeply for them, whether you want to or not. 

    It's been my experience that you get exactly what you put into it here.  I certainly hope you find this place as rewarding and fun as I do. 

    I look forward to seeing you around these parts. 

    A belated welcome and happy blogging! 

    -Grape-
  • secretlife said on Mar 17, 2008....

    l'm late to your party too!

    but welcome to soulcast all the same diablo.

    i was here about a month before i actually tried to talk to anyone.

    i remember the first person i subscribed to was ALIENated.   have you met him yet??? 

     

    have fun!

     

  • Fallyn said on Mar 17, 2008....
    the first time i was here i was someone else.... i mean...a different username.
    and i only posted here a few times...and no one really commented.

    and then a year or so later, i tried again...this user name...and actually had something to say....
    and the response was tremendous!
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 17, 2008....
    Me-Myself&I: Hiya! Thanks for the visit.. I'm looking forward to seeing you around!

    Grapekoolaid: Hello there! I'm actually pleasantly surprised and very happy about the welcome everybody's extended to me here and I'm glad you could make it.. late or not. Its a lot better than anything I expected and it has really put me at ease about the whole thing. The maps actually help a lot too cos I really didn't know my way around at first.. Thanks for the visit and I'll be looking forward to seeing you again.. I'm already having fun!

    Secretlife: Hi! Thanks for the welcome! No I actually havent met ALIENated yet but I'll go looking for him now that you've mentioned him..

    Fallyn: Uh-huh.. Well I usually have a lot to say and hopefully it'll be good enough to keep everybody interested.. Thanks for the visit!
       
  • MissMimi said on Mar 18, 2008....

    Sorry I'm so late showing up.  Welcome to SoulCast, DD.  This is my second incarnation here at SC.  My first one retired to the Bahamas and is currently being served pina coladas on the beach by nearly naked men.

    Enjoy the ride and make sure your tray table is in an upright and locked position.  ;)

  • diabolicdame said on Mar 18, 2008....
    He he he.. Thanks MissMimi! I'll make sure to catch up with your first  reincarnation next time I'm in the Bahamas ;-) 
  • quietone said on Mar 20, 2008....
    hi diabolic... you snuck in on me!  welcome to SC!  my first time here was very scary.. I wrote a short hello and then paused a very long time before I hit the submit button... that was almost a year ago!  hope to see you around!  :)
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 20, 2008....
    Hi quietone! Thanks for the welcome.. Yea I know the pause before hitting the submit button! I did that too with this first post.. but I've been writing more since then and have hit the submit button another 3 times now.. So I'm beginning to get more comfortable with it.. Thanks for the visit quietone.. I'll be seeing you... :-)
  • fallenangel12 said on Mar 22, 2008....
    New here too.
    They seem friendly here. This is like my 2nd day here, and Im still nervous. So I guess I share the same feeling.
     
  • diabolicdame said on Mar 22, 2008....
    Yes they are friendly here.. Its nice to meet you.. Don't be nervous.. I've only had 3 days more than you here but I know you'll be fine :-)

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