I was with my ex for four years. He was always mildy abusive physically
and emotionally. On my 20th bday my friends gave me a surprise party at my house. David and i got into a fight and he shoved my across the room
i easily skid five feet on our hardwood floors. My elbows were slashed open
when he through an ashtray at me. This was infront of twenty+ people.
I couldnt cover this one up for him, it was over. I moved out.
A few months later he talked me into coming back
his speech was some thing: "im a new man, ive never been apart from u this long i love you so much ill never hurt u again, one more chance u wont regret it blah blah blah"
Well i bought it. He told me hed started dating someone casually while we were
apart and that hed end it asap, she meant nothing.
Well the next few months id see her around and he always had brilliant excuses
she needed to pick something up
she just showed up for no reason, she needed closure...
it was never his fault..
after i believed she was gone for good i agreed to move back in with him..
thats when i surprised him intentionally to say hello and guess who he was
naked on the couch with. Yup, the girl hed broken up with.
That was the straw that broke the camels back, i havnt spoken with him
in 6 months and i never will again.
I was foolish and trusting and he was a master manipulator.
thats my woe story...
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