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Arrrgggh!  I must like pain, because I keep dealing with my family.
 
I found out last night from my sister that my aunt Sissie will likely die any day now.  She has downs syndrom and is really very old considering her condition. (60 ish)  Apparently she went to live with her caretakers when they moved to Indiana a few years ago and has been in a nursing home the last couple.  She lost the ability to swallow last month and now is no longer responding to verbal stimulus.  I'm not sure why this didn't come up in conversation when dad called since that's were my sis got the info.  I will miss her when she's gone (my aunt).  She was always such a happy gentle soul.
 
I made the decision to ask my aunt about just how many fiddles there are in the family.  Apparently my initial estimate of 2 was off by about half.  My cousin has one, there used to be another one that seems to have disappeared and there's rumors of yet a third one.  My aunt can't be sure which one I ended up with, so I'll send pictures since she says that's the only way she could ID it.  I'll be damned if I send it to her seeing as how she's managed to let two go MIA so far.
 
I also further aggrivated myself by starting a project at work that requires me to redo all the data input for an account for the past 3 years.  I'm a stickler for clear concise organization of financial data and this file blows my mind.  I'd like to choke the admin who passed it off to me.


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  • secretlife said on Mar 11, 2008....
    i'm sorry to hear about your aunt ui.
    you wrote about her here before. 
  • beyondtheveil said on Mar 11, 2008....
    unique- Concerning the title to your post, we do sometimes insist on torturing ourselves, don't we? Especially when family is involved.

    Your aunt has lived a long time considering her condition, but we're always sad to see them go.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 11, 2008....
    SL - Yes, I did.  I had known she was sick, but not that she was this closing to passing on.
     
    BTV - *smiles sheepishly* I have a nasty habit of following through on things even if I know it will only aggravate me.  My aunt has lived a very full life for someone with her condition.  I think heaven will be happy to see her.
  • mobil said on Mar 11, 2008....
    Funny how we don't have to see someone we love for many years, then we hear of their death and it all comes rushing back. I wonder why that is?
     
     
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 11, 2008....
    mobil - I don't know either, but all of my memories of her are good ones.  Really.
  • silverwhisper said on Mar 11, 2008....
    jeez, u-i, i'm so sorry about your aunt. egads...and WTF is up with your aunt?!

    ed
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 11, 2008....
    SW - thanks about aunt sissie.  As for the "other one", I dunno.  I get the feeling that my dad's family was disfunctional with a capital D.
  • queenparanoia said on Mar 14, 2008....
    so sorry about your aunt.... at least now you know you have time to say good bye...
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 14, 2008....
    queen - yes, it's nice to be able to at least attempt to say goodbye.  Unfortunately she no longer responds to verbal stimulai, so it will be one sided.

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I demand to know how it got here so fast, lol....
A few things I'm struggling with....
....its starting to look like that is not in the stars for me....
i did it again...