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re·gret (rĭ-grĕtʹ) verb
re·gret·ted, re·gret·ting, re·grets


verb, transitive

1.     To feel sorry, disappointed, or distressed about.

2.                 To remember with a feeling of loss or sorrow; mourn.  

 

I buried my dad on March 4th , he was a good man.  He was the type of person who did for himself.  He got by on his wits and his intellect. We buried him in Arlington National Cemetery in the columbarium overlooking the Pentagon.  I think he will be happy there amongst his fellow servicemen. 

 

My dad was a true American hero; he fought hard for everything he had in his life.  Finally, he fought valiantly for life itself, but ultimately he had to surrender.  I had never seen my dad surrender to anything, so I know that he welcomed death in the end. 

 

My dad was a scholar he cared a great deal about the truth: historical, theological, and personal truth.  One of his favorite saying was “To thine own self be true.” 

 

I think that my greatest regret is that I did not know him as well as I would have liked to have known him.  My dad was always off somewhere teaching, or lecturing.  I used to think that he didn’t care about me at all.  I came to realize, though, that everything he did he did for me.  Ain’t that a kick in the head?  We don’t seem to realize what we had until it’s gone.  I will miss my dad; the arguments, the friendship; his very presence.  God knows he has received a good soul.  May he rest in Peace.  Peace and Long Life

 

Love Worf      


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  • fearing said on Mar 09, 2008....
    Just stopped by to say I was sorry about your dad and give you a hug.
  • destinydiva said on Mar 09, 2008....
    I'm sorry about your dad, ((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))  you sound incredibly proud of him :-) xx
  • pickersplock said on Mar 09, 2008....
    I lost my Dad January 11th of this year.
    I know exactly how you feel and I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 09, 2008....
    I'm so sorry for our loss.  Your blog is a very fine tribute to him.  He will continue to live in your heart.
  • husbandhater said on Mar 09, 2008....
    Sorry about your dad Worf. We Salute him as we do the many other heroes like him. It sounds like he was a wonderful man and it is sad that we don't relize the great things about our loved ones till they are no longer with us. My dad just recently re-entered my life and I think we are hoping that the change we see infront of us is authentic.
  • mobil said on Mar 09, 2008....
    Tomorrow will be 21 years since my own father passed on Cops. I am sorry for your loss.
     
    That you and he came to an understanding, this is what is important in the end.
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Mar 09, 2008....

    Thank you all very much.  I think my dad would have liked you all.  He loved to argue just about anything. :)  Peace and Long Life

    Love Worf 

  • GrapeKoolaid said on Mar 09, 2008....
    My condolences...  
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Mar 09, 2008....

    Thanks Grape :)  Peace and Long LIfe

    Love Worf

  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Mar 09, 2008....

    Husbandhater,

    (I love that name.) Please, Make it work between you, and your dad.  I think about all the wasted years I spent being angry with my dad before we came to and understanding.  I wish I could get those years back; that's all it is, though, a wish.  Peace and Long Life

    Love Worf  

  • ALIENated said on Mar 09, 2008....
    Worf, I lost my dad a couple of years ago. I cannot believe it has already been
    that long. I feel different since he is gone. We were good friends in addition to
    father and son. I am more like his clone than his offspring. His birthday was
    almost the same day of the year as mine, so we were very similar. I see him
    when I look in the mirror. I miss him every single day. 
    
    I feel different because I feel like my link to the past is gone. It must be similar
    to the way I would feel if I jumped out of an airplane, pulled the chord on my
    parachute, and nothing happened. Even in his final weakened condition, I still
    felt like he was stronger than me, that I could fall back on him if I needed help.
    Now I feel like I am falling through the air, waiting the smash into the ground, 
    and plow six feet under it. It is a strange feeling.
    
    Anyway, all that to say, I think I know how you must be feeling, but your
    dad's body is buried there. He is with the Lord. He must have served his 
    country if you buried him at Arlington. I, for one, thank him for his service. 
    
  • scipio said on Mar 10, 2008....
    My heartfelt condolences.
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Mar 10, 2008....

    Alienated,

    I feel like somebody has kicked me in the head, hard.  They say, though, that time heals all wounds.  I guess I'll find out if that's true.

    Scipio,

    Thanks a lot.  Peace and Long Life

    Love Worf

  • silverwhisper said on Mar 10, 2008....
    my deepest, most heartfelt condolences on the passing of your father, my friend. i am so very sorry to read this.

    ed
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Mar 10, 2008....
    Thanks Ed, I thought I might have informed you by other means though? Still and all thanks so much for your kind words.  Peace and Long Life
     
    Love Worf
  • Scottish_GRRL said on Mar 16, 2008....
    Dear Worf,
    I feel for you brother.  I lost my own father 2 years ago on 10 March.  I feel fortunate that I didn't have unfinished business, but I miss the chats I used to have with him, once we lived on different coasts.  I know from talking with my stepmother, that my father loved me and worried about me even as I turned 40.  Know that your father loved you, even thouh it wasn't shown the way you might have wanted.  In time, the pain of grief dulls, but people who are important alsways stay with us.  I know my father sees me from where he is; I'm sure yours does too.  Cheers, SG
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Mar 25, 2008....

    Thanks Scottish Grrl, I appreciate your kind words.  Peace and Long Life

    Love Worf

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