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Yesterday I told you the story of my long-lost portable transistor.

Consider this as the continuation of that story, but more particularly, how it turned into a radio romance with a working woman.

When the fascist military dictatorship took over the country of my birth, thousands of young activists like me were forced to retreat from the raids, arrests, and murder in the streets, to the relative safety of the underground movement.

We continued to resist the dictatorship in the many ways we knew how – not always organized, but hey, most of us were youngsters barely weaned from the comfort of middle-class homes.

I myself was 16 going on 17: a veteran of countless street fights with the security forces, true, but still basically a young boy caught up in the furious eruption of a social volcano.

Like thousands of others, either I had to leave home or risk arrest by the military regime.

With the help of my parents and fellow activists – including my sister and brother, who were also being hunted down and had to go underground – I spent my first months living in an isolated hovel. I had to, to evade the secret police while I pursued my clandestine political work.

Like I said in my earlier blog, that National Panasonic transistor radio became my only source of news and musical relaxation during the time I stayed there.

The hovel was part of a ramshackle wooden farmhouse surrounded by luxuriant but unkempt gardens, fruit trees, and a high fence. The occupant was Soledad – a dusky peasant woman – and her two kids.

She was actually my aunt – a young first cousin of my mother – who grew up in the hinterlands before Mama took her in. She worked in our family grocery during summer, and returned to her mountain village for the planting and harvest seasons.

Aunt Soledad was a dusky beauty, with shiny brown sun-burnt skin and tough limbs like the mahogany wood from our forests. She was also, to put it politely, simple-minded. Her dream consisted of going back to the farm and raising a family.

Her dream did happen, but not in the way she liked. She married a peasant boy and had five children in quick succession (as is normal in these parts) before his husband abandoned her. She worked as laundrywoman, as cleaning lady, as fisherwoman, and finally as farm tenant.

Unable to make ends met, she was forced to leave her elder children in the care of relatives, and single-handedly took care of her young boy and baby.
I stayed in the hovel, while she and her two kids stayed in another part of the farmhouse, although we kept a common kitchen and I shared in the expenses. As I was her nephew, she doted on me like her own son. If I wasn’t busy, I helped keep house and baby-sit her kids.

The house had no electricity, no television, no tape or record player, no magazines, no nothing. Our nearest neighbors were perhaps a hundred meters away, so there was no chance for casual over-the-fence chats. Her daily grind was always work, work, work.

So what I did, while I was there, was to keep my portable transistor radio powered on all day, usually in the kitchen. Suddenly, the farmhouse was alive with news and commentary in early mornings and evenings, and soap operas and music the rest of the day.

You could imagine what this could do to suddenly expand the horizons of a peasant woman with an impoverished intellect.

Thus began my radio romance with a working woman.

It isn’t what you think – if that’s not obvious yet.

In the months that I stayed with Aunt Soledad’s household, she literally fell in love with my radio.
It did a lot to ease the drudgery of her life, if not exactly to broaden her social and intellectual world.

Often, I had to be out for days on clandestine missions. She would beg me not to take the radio, which I needed for my own use. So I often left it with her.

I was in fact saving up a part of my monthly allowance so I could buy her a transistor radio of her own. Unluckily, I made the mistake of sneaking into the university in the middle of an anti-dictatorship protest that was being monitored by the secret police. I was sighted, collared, and dragged into an unmarked car.

Later, after my prison stint, I would return again and again to Aunt Soledad’s farmhouse. The setting of one of my early favorite blogs, My fatal attraction to a beach beauty, is in that exact locality. She played a nice role in that story. By then, she had married a widower, a kind and gentle farmer.

Fast forward to 30 years later.

This time, my portable radio (still inseparable from me) is a China-made Kaide KK-1012, a 12-band cutie with a special feature of being able to receive the audio (no video of course) from local TV stations.


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I found this radio very rugged and reliable, and its capacity to monitor TV audio as particularly useful. For example, I could spend days in a rural village with no electricity, and still be able to basically follow a favorite TV sports coverage or talk show.

In one clan reunion, I meet Aunt Soledad, who I haven’t seen in as many years. She's aged gracefully, with nearly pure white hair, and wrinkled face like intricate crack patterns on old chinaware.

We greet and hug each other like mother and prodigal son. But the practical peasant in her promptly sees me twiddling my Kaide radio.

“Oh, Moon, I see you’ve got yourself a very nice radio.”

“Yes, Auntie. It’s a powerful radio, able to pick up stations all over the world. It can even pick up your favorite TV programs.”

“Really?” Aunt Soledad is visibly impressed, her dusky eyes staring at the Kaide sitting there on my palm.

As usual, my naughty prankster’s mind runs wild with the possibilities.

“Of course,” I say. “J.P. is one of your favorites, isn’t it?” In many rural villages with electricity, entire families gather in the few houses with TV during the evenings to watch their favorite shows.
J.P. is one such TV series with a popular following. “This radio can pick up that program, and you no longer need to go watch it at your neighbor's place,” I assure her.

“Really?” My aunt’s eyes double in size as she ogles the radio more intently. She stares closely at the wide dial display, which looks like a miniature TV screen.

I power on the radio, switch to TV-tuner function, pull out the antenna to its full length, and twiddle the dials. The speaker emits the familiar although tinny sounds of J.P. dialogue. Aunt Soledad is amazed and speechless as she listens, still staring at the radio like it was a TV screen.

This prankster drops the punchline. “Look more closely, Aunt Soledad. There it is. I see J.P. has started. You see the images? Small, but very clear. It’s even in color!”

“Aiii-eeeee-aaa, Moon! I can see the image. I can see! It’s really true! Your radio is like a small TV!” My aunt’s face lights up like the imaginary TV screen that she sees in her mind. Incredulous, she turns alternately to look at me and at the Kaide, now suddenly the radio of her dreams.

I know exactly what she will ask next.

“How much does this radio cost, Moon? Can I afford it?

First, I explain to her that the radio can only pick up TV sounds, not show the moving images. She’s disappointed, and chides me for playing a prank on her. (She remains one of my favorite prank victims, hahaha.)

Turning more serious, I discuss the real problem to Aunt Soledad. Sure she can afford it, or I can even give her one, it’s among the cheapest of its kind. But being poor cash-strapped tenants, her family will find it too costly to regularly replenish the batteries.

My aunt, however, has learned a lot since our radio romance of 30 years ago. She now knows the inestimable value of mass media. She and her family want to follow what is happening out there in the big wide world. They want to look beyond their tiny, disconnected villages. Batteries are the least of their problems.

So Aunt Soledad insists, with an affectionate pout, that I get her a Kaide.

Which I did. I bought one for her, together with a year’s supply of batteries. Aunt Soledad was nearly out of her mind listening to her favorite radio stations and TV shows. Yes, TV-audio only, but hey, it’s better than nothing.

When Sophie learned of what I did, she upped the ante. She gave her own gift to my aunt: a Philips RL117 Freepower Radio, which runs on a built-in battery that is recharged simply by turning a dynamo crank. The crank folds nicely into the back panel of the set. No more need to spend on batteries.


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front panel


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back panel

This Philips radio is now being used by Paquito, my Aunt Soledad's husband, as he tends to cattle, orchards and fallow gardens in the nearby mountains. Cranking the Philips for an hour, which charges the battery for a day's worth of listening, has become his relaxation as he rests in a field hut under the shade of fruit trees.

So there. My radio romance, now starring Soledad and Paquito,
goes on until this very day. Which, by the way, is March 8, International Working Women's Day.

This story is dedicated to my Aunt Soledad and to hundred millions of working women of the world who struggle to lift themselves from poverty, oppression, and ignorance.

May all of you have a liberating working women's day!

Note: If you're interested in what I wrote for Working Women's Day last year, click here.




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  • gingersoul said on Mar 07, 2008....

    Moon....only you......:-)

    I was thinking to write something about March 8 and i was going to talk about Hillary and other political women around the world...but your auntie is a better example of how much is still needed to do for helping millions of women like her and how much, given the rigth possibilty, anybody can expand their own limited horizons...

    I love this post....you are such an amazing writer. I could see Soledad and her farmhouse...and you growing up in the middle of all that...

    Funny coincidence, i have posted just now, basically at the same time, a blog in which i tell the story of another woman (me) fullfilling a long time dream of her and expanding her own horizon as well.....nothing compared to Soledad and her radio...

    Thank you for remembering tomorrow's date.

  • TinSoldier said on Mar 07, 2008....
    I don't read you nearly enough, moon.

    *wistful sigh*
  • beyondtheveil said on Mar 08, 2008....
    moon- Your aunt's story has been told and retold (through life) countless times in humanity. I consider them the heart, soul, and nurturers of our kind. They are most of the goodness that springs from us as a people during their stay as mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and sisters. Hardworking, sometimes lonely, sometimes mischievous, we love them all.

    So well written, as usual. (I'm so happy she got that radio)
  • moonriver said on Mar 08, 2008....
    ginger -- i always remember this date. can't avoid that, because my many women friends (now, now, friend... don't get jealous, you hear?) always make sure to remind me about it.

    i guess the story practically wrote itself because of the circumstances of the times,  because i've been writing this story in my mind for quite a while now... and also because i've always had this curious streak about women involved in reaching out to other women through radio, one way or another. that includes my recalling your own italian radio experience, of course. parallels galore, i know... :-)


  • polarheart said on Mar 08, 2008....

    Moon, this is a very precious story.  I am not at all surprised to read that you were an activist :-)  Your story is still true of many people in today's life.  I remember in South Africa my husband had a rural worker help him with electrical work.  My husband asked him what would he like to do/have one day. . .and his answer was that he would like to have a nice sound system; NOT a trip around the world, not a house built out of brick and mortar, not a car. . .but something that makes sound :-) 

    Thank you for sharing these precious memories with us.

    Polar x

  • moonriver said on Mar 08, 2008....
    tinsoldier -- thanks for reading not just this blog, my friend, but also the other blogs linked to it. i read your comments on my other blogs. i'll reply to them soon after this.

  • moonriver said on Mar 08, 2008....
    beyond -- this is one topic that i think i'll never tire of, never exhaust. sometimes i myself am surprised about this special fondness i have for writing character sketches about the women in my lives. my mama... my sister... michaela... three women who made me cry (written for march 8 last year, but posted a month later)...my two girls... and a few others. i still have a long list of stories about women i know, awaiting to be written.

    last year, in fact, i noted this tendency in a blog about my feminine side. maybe i need to undergo some hypnosis or psychoanalysis to unearth this aspect... perhaps reconstruct my earlier lives as a woman...  :-)

  • moonriver said on Mar 08, 2008....
    polar -- thanks, and i'm glad this story made some connection with your own experience.

    sometimes we tend to forget or underestimate the hunger for information, for world culture, among the billions of people still living in the vast rural areas of the world.

    there is a growing global movement -- and it's strongest in africa -- for community radio as a powerful vehicle in empowering people at the grassroots.

    and women should be the first beneficiaries of community radio, since in most agrarian and third-world economies, they are typically tied down to housework or the most tedious kind of manual in-situ work. in such constrained circumstances, even a simple thing as a cheap portable radio, and a community radio station with women-oriented programs they can tune into, is already a powerful liberating force for them.

    psst, don't mind my activist jargon. i'm in march-8 mode today... :-)

  • boytoy said on Mar 08, 2008....
    Good read!
  • Mr.Stupid said on Mar 08, 2008....
    moonriver, That was a very good story. I don't like to read much, but that was very educational. Where is this place you came from?
    When I was a little boy, I would come home from school and watch tv. Sometimes the ABC after school special would be on. That story reminds me of that show.
  • moonriver said on Mar 08, 2008....
    boytoy -- thank you. i'm glad you liked it.

    mr.s -- thank you too. many people all over the world don't like to read much too, and some can't even read at all. but that's what where radio should play a role, as a vehicle for popular education. and tv too.

    the place where this story actually happened isn't important now. it's commonplace enough to occur anywhere especially among the teeming millions in asia, africa, and central and south america.

  • queenparanoia said on Mar 09, 2008....

    i know something they dont know....

    hehehehehehehehehehehehehe... ;)

    nice post moon... =)

  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 10, 2008....
    Just went back almost a year ago! *smile* boy can't time fly. There one moment and here the next.
     
    Just acting silly....went and read your post about the three women that made you cry.
     
    I have always enjoyed reading your stories, when you write you make it so visible!
     
    You are such a ladies man!!!! lol....And a man of passion.
     
    Thank you for sharing your heart and soul here with your stories. *smile* ~see ya
     
     
     

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