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Why....I'm a Survivor! Someone who remains alive, to outlive....to live beyond the life of....
 
Please don't think that i go around passing out smiles and hugs. For no other reason but that's me.
 
I have WORKED hard to maintain my *smile*.
 
I carry my own cross just like everyone else. I'm NOT asking to be fussed over or hugged or any ahhhhhs, poor thing!
 
I'm sorry if you have a problem with someone who TRYS to be happy.
 
I've experienced horrors i hope half of you never. I've been slammed-dunked in life more than once. Do i feel sorry for myself....at times, yes.
 
I've been beat by my father, my mother is meaner than a snake and even sneaker, my sister lost it long time ago. My last husband with a drunken whore. I've been homeless (age14), raped, 3 miscarriages, beaten some more, 2 heart attacks, in a fire, son went to war, and a trail of tears!
 
So, when you see me smiling, happy and postive....well, i chose to be like this. I have worked sooo very hard to remain loving and trusting.
 
I have so much empathy for people. I just want the person who is hurting to know they aren't alone! I feel their pain.
 
Here on SoulCast, folks i meet in my everyday life, i'm kind. I would never add pain to their injury! So, if i can put a smile on their face or say a kind word....hello....i will do it with a happy heart.
 
So, there you go....my vent, my airing-out my feelings. Don't ask why or where this comes from.
 
Remember, i can "read" more than cards....i read your words, your thoughts and you!
 
Please be nice to one another. Have a good day. ~see ya 
 
 
 
 


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  • rupert7 said on Mar 06, 2008....
    G'day Me Myself, feel a bit better now? :-)) you have had a tuff life for sure! Only problem I have is with anyone that wants to pick on you! you are a wonderful caring lady, with a big,warm caring heart! You just keep on rollin' down that road, your travellin' sweet!  see ya!  -)))
  • Mamie said on Mar 06, 2008....
    ouch! I am torn by reading the terrible things you have endured...yes God Himself sometimes mines us like gold in a fire...I want to say, I am sorry for your struggles yet, I am overjoyed in the outcome that IS you!! Have a happy peaceful day!!
    xo, M
  • wombat said on Mar 06, 2008....
    Sometimes I have trouble saying what I feel, but reading this post--well.  All I can say is I am sorry for the things you describe, but you know you are special in how you deal with things and give so much back with your kindness.  Just a hello here and a shy smile from someone who understands.
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....
    Rupert ~ I think i feel better?! I just want folks here to know i'm not blowing smoke up their butts. I really care!  
     
    I have felt so much hatefulness here lately to others and towards myself that ....i'm on it! Enough! I don't spend half the time here as some do. So when i come here to relax and read i don't want to read HATE mail! Or someone playing some child's game.
     
    I comment more on others than i post my own words. So, Respect me and the time i put in to comment on their post. ain't it all about the "numbers"....who get the most views, comments, ....F^*#  that!
     
    Cw has a post out too. She is taking things here just as they are meant to be taken.  Heck, i posted this and went to read....then there is CW and others complaining about the same thing. Total bullshit.
     
    It's not just one or two folks here that are butthole.
     
    BUT WE MUST BE CAREFUL! That we ourselves aren't sucked-in to this BS, by just reacting!
     
    So, wow! I've got to go to work, shoot fire!
     
    Rupert i sure can go on and on when i get my feather ruffled. *smile*
     
    Take care of yourself. I hope all is well with you and your! (hug) ~see ya
  • I'mNotHungry said on Mar 06, 2008....

    I admire your strength, courage, and positive outlook on life!

  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....
    Mamie ~ i should be getting ready for work but i'm ....bented!
    Girlfriend, please don't feel sorry or anything about what i have gone thru. I'm so conditioned that life ain't bad! The small shit doesn't "mold" me any more.
     
    My point i was trying to make is ....Don't dislike me because i *smile* and wish  folks well.
     
    I'm NO miss goody-to-shoes, just one who can put my feet in your shoes :~)
     
    I am at peace my friend, i am blessed to be who i am. The good, bad and ugly.
     
    I'm proud of myself. I could of gave-up and rolled around in my sorrows but i came out fighting. And always will. I'm a Leo, i am a woman of great passion.
     
    Every coin has another side.... Have a good day yourself! ~see ya 
  • moonriver said on Mar 06, 2008....
    hi memyself. exactly like you, i've also been working hard to keep my smile. and i've gone through really bad times too in the past, maybe not exactly like you, just in parallel ways.

    but now that i'm reading you, my friend, about your past... i'm humbled. i'll continue to read you, even if i don't always comment.

    take care.

  • secretlife said on Mar 06, 2008....
    i understand completely the battle to stay positive and respect you for it more than i can say.
     
     
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....
    Wombat ~ Me special, NO, don't think so. But Thank you! 
     
    I have trouble myself trying to get my point out there is a limited way. Some things i reread that i've said....doesn't make much sense. I know in my pea-brain what i meant but....oh well.
     
    I have a secret....IF i ever stop thinking and feeling postive....i'll die! I don't want that!
     
    Thru all the things i have witnessed, i have learned a lesson. Someday, school will let-out. Maybe i'll get a gold star for giving it all i got! *smile*
     
    Take care and thank you. ~see ya
  • MissMimi said on Mar 06, 2008....

    It takes great strength to carry your burdens, and have compassion enough left over to care about others' burdens.  I admire you, MeMy. 

    And I agree -- I am heartily sick of people bickering and namecalling.  Maybe we all need to spend a little time in the time-out chair.

  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....

    I'mNotHungry ~ I ThankYou! It has been a tail-spinning life! My vices and virtues are of the same! *smile* I really got to go. i'm running late for a job. Please excuse me....i'm gone! Thank you once again for your visit! ~see ya

  • MyHeartAches said on Mar 06, 2008....
    Yes, you are a survivor.  You took the most bitter lemons life handed you and made the sweetest lemonade.
    You have courage and strength!
    2 very, very, good traits.
    Heart ~
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Mar 06, 2008....
    "Empathy is the ultimate redemptive quality of humanity.  There is no justice, only forgiveness."

    I've been saying this for a long time now.  It seems that you're the embodiment of it. 

    You are a much needed light in this place.  It does get a bit dim here once in a while.  All the more reason why you are such a cherished member. 
  • Twylarants said on Mar 06, 2008....
    You tell 'em Memy! 
    If you live long enough you'll go through shit, that's just the way it is.  This is my escape, this is where I come to get away from it all.  Like you, I'm very empathetic, and if I've been through what someone's going through (and at my age chances are I have)...I'll be glad to share any insight I have with them.
    Just because I don't talk about it doesn't mean it's not there. 
    But I'm just happy to spend time talking to all of you.
    Crap! I gotta go to work too!
     
  • quietone said on Mar 06, 2008....
    MeMy ~ woo hoo !! You go girlfriend.  I agree and know the feeling.  I am so blessed to have made the aquaintance of and met (wombie) some of the nicest caring people here.  I plan on sticking around for a while too!  You keep smiling, and so will I :)  see! hehe!!  {{hugs}}
  • FutureGoddess said on Mar 06, 2008....
    A smile is the greatest asset one can have.  While it took me a long time to find mine again, I found it. 
  • Mr_Box said on Mar 06, 2008....
    I think your smile is great. We need more smiles, not only here, but everywhere. I think you're a great person. 

    And if someone honestly has a problem with your smile, then says a lot about them. Not you.
  • travelr712 said on Mar 06, 2008....
    someone trying to get your goat memy? i haven't seen anyone say anything like you're an attention monger, did i miss something?
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....

    Moonriver ~ forgive me if i sounded like i was fishing for something. I wasn't. For the past few days....a week ....at certain posts, their own post....i get the feeling i'm being put on the back burner. I'm not over-reacting neither. I just won't go there anymore. Very simply. But i did want to state my peace here today.

    You know it's not just my perky attitude but also my green path i walk. That certain folks just stop ....being nice towards me. No big deal again, i quess i just got fed-up with all the drama....so i reacted and was dramatic myself. *smile* 

    Then there are ones that are just trying! Knowing that their actions can and will get a rise from someone, me.

    This is life. A person sees it everyday....but luckily i can walk-around these folks here and not bother with them. :~)

    Hey, i read so many folk"s posts and never have commented neither. So, no sweat my friend! *smile* Take care ~see ya

  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....
    Secret ~ When i stated those things that happened in my life. It wasn't to whine or anything. I just want certain folks to know that i'm for real. I do relate to many of the heart aches here.
    I don't bitch to often....here or in my everyday life. ....can't say in my REAL life because SoulCast IS part of my life. *smile*
    Anyway, i admire your strength and ways too! Thank you for always being kind.  take care     ~see ya
     
     
    MissMimi ~Hi! Worring over others helps free me of my own pains. It's awful but true....misery loves company. It's good to know you aren't all alone. That it's not ones self that is messed-up but life. *smile*
    Hey, my burdens are no greater or heavier then anyone elses. I just wanted folks to know i'm no strange to hardship. Just because i go around smiling all the time.
    And be gentle. Peace! No more hatefulness!
    Anyway, i do keep things to myself, i never tell the ....rest of the story. *smile*
    Take care ~see ya
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....

    Heart ~ Thank you for your very kind words! :~) Sometimes i think folks here think that i just go around and pass out goodwill without any heart-felt meaning behind the words. They are wrong. I am not pretending to be someone i'm not. As Nixon said...."Let me make this perfectly clear." *smile* My strength is my strength. Sometime i wonder where it comes from. Thanks again for your words and visit.  ~see ya

    Grape ~ NO ONE in this life of mine has said such a beautiful thing to me. Thank you, i'm humbled greatly. a very shy *smile* You yourself are a fine, kind, man. sigh.... i like this place, i've been to others and i stay here just to read folks like you! lol....am i flirting?....(hug) Thank you for putting this happy face on me. Take care ~see ya

  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....

    Twylarants ~ i understand. after 50+ years, a person sees and feels alot of things.  I don't want to be thought of as a know-it-all....hey, aren't we suppose to be like wine.... better with time! *smile* Thank you for your visit! ~see ya

    Quietone ~ I'm going to be sticking around for a long time here myself. Like you i hope i can meet certain ones. You for sure! *smile* I try hard to read newbies and ones that no one is paying attention to....why, we all are here to reach out and touch someone or to be touched. Ain't that what life is all about! Thanks, you have always been a good friend!! Take care ~see ya

  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 06, 2008....
    FutureGoddess ~ When i post a smile....i'm smiling. i just want hateful folks to cool it! It's ok if someone doesn't like me. but when i do come to their post to comment....be polite. Thank you for stopping by. Nice to see you too! take care ~see ya
     
    Mr Box ~ Thank you. I think you are a great person too, with a good head on his shoulders. *smile* I do feel sorrows, i do get my feeling hurt. Just because i am sweet  *smile* ....don't try me!  There is two sides to a coin. And i don't like showing my tail, so be nice. This post was brewing for awhile. I do feel much better. Thanks for your visit and kind words. ~see ya
     
    Travelr ~ Yup, there are a few that are just down right rude. Once again, it's fine by me. I needed to say something so i could throw it away. *smile* Just show me respect, i'm no fool! Hey, lol....i don't mind attention! Bring it on! Thank you for stopping by. take care ~see ya
  • polarheart said on Mar 07, 2008....
    MMI, thanks for sharing a glimpse into your path.  It is always wonderful when I read or hear about someone who has gone through so much and yet has a deep empathy for others.  We both know that their are others who choose to be the "proverbial victim" for the rest of their lives and they carry it on their sleeve.  But you are not like that.
     
    It blows me out of the water when I see the hateful things people here can say to each other.  Honestly, I stand with my mouth hanging open.  There must be a part inside of their brain and or heart that is slowly rotting away.
     
    Anyway, thanks for being here and for being a positive part of Soulcast.
     
    Love Polar
  • Carlar95 said on Mar 07, 2008....
    Hi MeMyself and I. Have a lovely weekend and keep smiling!
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 07, 2008....

    Polarheart ~ *smile* you have no idea how happy i am to see you! I am honored! Thank you for coming to see me. It blows my mind out of the water too, to see what can come out of folk's mouth and hearts!  I realize how strange i may seem but i'm just me :~) I try not to complain, let things roll off my back....it's hard. Somedays i don't want to start my day because what's the use. Then i come here and read this and that....then i'm all smiles again! I just want this place to have PEACE. I know that we all need to vent, but slamming each other, or treating others with no respect is just down right wrong! Thank you for your very kind words! Take care....i saw you here and stopped what i was doing....more coffee. *smile* so, i'm going and you have a great day! ~see ya

  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 07, 2008....
    Carlar ~ *smile* thank you for stopping by and wishing me a lovely weekend. It looks as i will be home bound this weekend. A snow storm is about to hit us here. No ice or too cold of temp., so this weekend i'm going to play in the snow with my 4-wheeler. yee haw! You yourself have a great day and weekend. Take care ~see ya
  • evil_twin said on Mar 07, 2008....
    I actually wish I could be as positive as you. I think it's an admirable trait. I'd much rather be known as the person who always has a smile to offer someone, rather than the person who's frowning and miserable. You've overcome a lot and I'm happy to see that you can still be peaceful with yourself and offer that to others.

    -evil_twin LA
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 07, 2008....
    Evil ~ It has been a "do or die" thing! To know that a new day can bring a Miracle....and what i was worrying over, can just disappear in a blink of a eye....all is good. Then on the other hand....i know if i don't live, love, laugh....in a blink of a eye it can be gone! So, i going around hugging with a *smile* on my face! Cool feeling. I like you and Nursecutie, you are good people! Take care ~see ya
  • killingme4u said on Mar 07, 2008....
    hey.very nice post.you been through alot and still kickin,COOL.i'm not good at leaving comments,but i feel very much where your coming from.don't know if will help any but a friend of...well,kinda gotta give in a little to my mr.attittude canine terrorist(trust me.you have no idea.)   so meet :butch  :~))   sorry.....hope see ya around.take care.
    still bored

     
  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 07, 2008....
    Hey there Butch and KM4 *smile* Thank you for taking the time to just stop by! Give Butch a pat on the head and a hug for me....ok ~see ya
  • moonriver said on Mar 07, 2008....
    hey living girl, i knew there was something about your butch that made me like him/her the first time... a nerd dog if there was one! lol

    grrrroooowwwwhhhlll!!! woof! woof! hi, butch ;-)

  • killingme4u said on Mar 07, 2008....
    alright moon.i'm  taking  that personaly.    :)
  • Madd-Shame said on Mar 07, 2008....

    And here I thought I was going through some problems. Isn't it funny how one person opens up and our problems grow so pale in comparison? My escape is humor. I can find laughter in almost any situation and then it kind of tones down its menacing qualities.

    On the brighter side of things, most CEOs claim they were caned by parents when whey were young. If that always holds up as true, I will be a the CEO of several companies at some point in my life.

    Keep up the smile MM&I

    Madd Shame

  • Me-Myself&I said on Mar 07, 2008....

    Madd Shame ~ what a name! *smile* Howdy.

    I learned along time ago....never say~ "it can't get any worse." Cause it can, in a heartbeat.

    So, treat everyday like your last day. Don't waste time or energy on something that dead and gone!

    Oh ....easier said than done. you think....

    Well, i'm 50+ years old....practice makes perfect!

    Thanks for the visit, Nice to meet you! take care ~see ya 

     

  • iamshay said on Apr 19, 2008....
    MM&I
     
    I am weary for the future, and all life's misery  .
     
    Thank u....your words give's me comfort...
     
    it's great knowing someone who apprecites life in all forms.
     
  • Me-Myself&I said on Apr 19, 2008....

    iamshay~ Hello! Thank you for stopping by and reading. So, if you are reading me, you know i love poems and quotes. Here is one for you....

    Life is not meant to be easy, my child; but take courage- it can be delightful! ~ George Bernard Shaw

    *smile* i refuse to only see bad and ugly things in this life. If i only focused on them, i'd be ....gone. I love and cherish this place- Mother Earth so ....all is good! She is my delight. My outlet, my escape from life's miseries.

    Take care ~see ya

  • iamshay said on Apr 20, 2008....
    MM&I
     
    That was beautiful...:-)
     
     
    you are amazing memi....
  • Misty_Eyed said 6 days ago....
    Loved your post, and love your infinite spirit.

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