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PapaJ & Cry’s Last Post!

Y’all know how much Dee has loved Soul Cast. She blogged sometimes around the clock it seemed to me.

Time she needed to be resting, and trying to regain her strength. But when she would lay down a lot of the times, she found it hard to breathe.

No matter how much she tells me that blogging does not make her anxious, I think it does. I watch her and I see the anxiety.

It hasn’t been without its rewards, but the way this day and too many others played out, I think the negative outweighed the positive.

I told the doctor I thought she was at the computer to much and he agreed with me, but for a different reason.

He said she has never regained her strength since July, the first visit to the hospital, and he sees her continuing to deteriate, according to her records. This was the first time she actually saw him, but it is all there in the records.

We have a membership to Genesis Health Club, and He said he wants her to start out twice a week and graduate to three times a week.

First she needs to get rid of a bad lung infection she has at the present. For that he has put her on bed rest. He said to treat it like she had the flu.

To start out, she will be getting two breathing treatments a week and will graduate up to three. He is doing it this way because he wants to see how she tolerates the treatments. With her being sick and all and little strength he says even that can deplete her strength.

Now the diagnosis:  She explained to you that she had ( COPD ) which is chronic obstructive lung disease. The type she has is Emphysema, which is a chronic obstructive pulmonary disease.

We think in her case, it was caused by long-term exposure to tobacco smoke. She did work for several years around toxic chemicals, but we think it is more likely that it is due to her smoking.

She has smoked that I know of since she was 21. She has said it was younger than that, but not regularly till she started working as a waitress, and told me that everyone smoked.

She only stopped smoking five years ago. So, she has smoked for Thirty years, and with her asthma, you can guess what that did to her lungs.

There are two different faces of emphysema, primary and secondary, and she has secondary which is more serious. Probably due to years of chronic bronchitis.

Prescriptions:

Spiriva Inhaler ( tiotropium bromide inhalation powder ) and ADVAIR. She is on a strong antibiotic. She is one sick lady.

We wish you all well, and she may end up doing her own blog at some later date, but I will try to discourage that because the longer she prolongs leaving the harder it will be.

She needs to be out moving and not sitting here at the computer. The doctor was very concerned because when he listened to her back, he heard no movement of air which suggests the air is trapped, and we need to get her moving as soon as she get well enough to do so.

Right now she is on steroids and Azithromycin, a strong antibiotic. She goes back for a recheck next Monday. Take care y’all!



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  • gingersoul said on Mar 03, 2008....

    Oh Papa......i am so sorry to read this....very sorry. I know what an emphisema can do to a person....my mother-in-law suffered from it.

    As much as i hate to say it....SC is not good for Dee right now.

    I saw how involved she can be ...how much she likes to blog and comment..

    We will miss both of you but she needs to take care of herself....and you need to stay close to her.

    Dee and Papa, you both have been a precious addiction to Sc. You are two very nice people. I sincerely wish you all the best. {{{{{hugs}}}}}. 

  • bluegum said on Mar 03, 2008....
    crybabylu i've enjoyed your friendship over the net ,i wish you a speedy recovery to good health,[[[[[[ hug]]]]]].
     
     
          blue.
  • Lucytorial said on Mar 03, 2008....
    As usual shit hits the fan and I don't know what happened.....

    Please send regards to Dee and I will miss her too actually, thanks for letting us know and I hope she mends a little of those nerves/ anxieties.
  • hottips4u said on Mar 03, 2008....
    Move it for your health Dee....when health permits of course.  Baby steps Dee, Ma says Baby steps and soon enough, you'll be alive once again.  ; )  I'll be here when ya come around dee.  Thanx pa for the insight to tell us all.

    jessi.
  • Lucytorial said on Mar 03, 2008....
    You know the sad part is that papa and Crybaby have become voices for me in a way that are sweet, fun loving caring and well honest! its a shame that that is taken for granted isn't it?
  • MissMimi said on Mar 03, 2008....
    Very best wishes to both of you.  You'll be in my thoughts, Dee.
  • moonriver said on Mar 04, 2008....
    dee, papajack -- i love you two. take care of each other, and come back as soon as you're able, ok? i've read your recent blogs, they havnt diminished my high regard for you, and i fully understand. you dont have to explain. you two remain tops on my list. ((hugs))

  • lfbno7 said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Please God make her better real quick. I would like her to ask her doctor about whether she should try taking MSM. It is harmless as water, so there's no down side, and it is inexpensive as well, and it has helped many people with breathing problems. There are several books out there calling it a miracle nutrient (not a drug). My wife takes it for her arthritis and it seems to help quite a bit, simply because when she takes it regularly she doesn't complain of arthritis. It doesn't work instantly, so don't expect results the first few days. It must be built up for a few weeks. But many people do report much better breathing and energy after taking a lot of it for a few weeks. I hope it helps. I have never seen the word "miracle" attached to a nutrient as much as to MSM. Here's hoping. You can google it and see what you think. Its specialty is chronic, long lasting health problems.
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Mar 04, 2008....
    I will keep you and yours in my thoughts.  Come back when you can, if you want to, but only when you're healthy enough to.  Gotta look out for number one, after all.  Don't worry.  We'll still be here then. 
  • polarheart said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Dear PapaJ and Dee
     
    I am really sorry to hear about this terrible affliction.  If blogging adds stress to Dee then it should be removed and I can understand that completely.  I think she just found it to be an outlet because she felt "stuck at home".  However, we cant stop living in the real world, which is kinda easy when there is this place to come to.
     
    Dee, may Our Heavenly Father touch you and help you in this difficult time.  Think on Him and His love for you. . .and give your strength to getting better.
     
    Love and hugs
    Polar
  • sheltercrow said on Mar 04, 2008....

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  • FutureGoddess said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Good Luck and good health - may this find you back her soon blogging away with no problems at all. 
  • pickersplock said on Mar 04, 2008....
    We'll miss you botth!  Get better, Dee.
  • Mamie said on Mar 04, 2008....
    best wishes for a healthier, happy springtime to you both. I am glad you have a firm diagniosis to work off of and a regimen ,it seems, to get you back on your feet! Blessed be, mamie
  • rupert7 said on Mar 04, 2008....
    P290Xsm

    Cry and papa too, both of you and especially you cry...take care now,and hopefully we will see you here again,even if it is for short periods. For gooness sake take care now. 
  • queenparanoia said on Mar 04, 2008....

    take care dee...

    {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

    i hope you feel better soon...

  • CreativeWoman said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Best wishes to you both.

    CW
  • skald said on Mar 04, 2008....
    I am very sorry to hear how ill Cry is. Take care. 
  • destinydiva said on Mar 04, 2008....
    this cant be your last post ever ever....  cus its like the twilight zone...  the withdrawal symptoms will kick in...and you'll be back... 
    at least I really really hope you will be back...  :-)

    take care dee, your health is far more important, just dont stay
     away forever ok??  :-) (((((((((((hugs)))))))))

    destiny xx
  • Twylarants said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Dee~ I'm glad you were able to get a definite diagnosis and a treatment program. I just know you'll start to feel better soon.
  • SikariChepiNashota said on Mar 04, 2008....
    that's sad to know :0(...hope she does get some good rest...i know how difficult this is, my godmother has it, too....she's always been a chain smoker....so now she's out of breath always and has to be with an 02 beside her bed...

    rest, relax and i'll pray for you dee..
  • RollingC said on Mar 04, 2008....
    I will keep the both of you in my prayers. ♥ Rc
  • JoyousLoving said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Take care and feel better.  Health and happiness are more important than anything else so be sure to take care of them.
  • beyondtheveil said on Mar 04, 2008....
    I will expect you both back later, when health permits. You will always be welcome here. Good luck on all things.
  • bloc said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Bye, I'll surely miss the two of you :)
  • mobil said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Goodbye ! Hang in there !
  • Battycat said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Oh I'm so sorry , say hello to Dee, and I'll be thinking of you all.
  • quietone said on Mar 04, 2008....
    take care you two.  My brother had the same diagnosis, so I know what you are going through.  He is going to Boston to see if he qualifies for a lung transplant. You both are in my prayers ~
  • truthsayer said on Mar 04, 2008....
    You two take good care of each other and get well.  You must do what you must do to get well dee.  Life is too short to sit still  : ) And remember to have fun while you are getting better.
     
    Be good and be blessed. 
     
    truthsayer   
  • vacantmind said on Mar 04, 2008....

    I think we would be a great reward. If she accomplishes her goals for the week she can visit us once a week for x amount of hours. She can post her progress and come back the next week to see the comments.

    But, if it has to be goodby. I wish you well. Now, go out there and get your life back!

  • wombat said on Mar 04, 2008....

    Sorry to read this and wanted to stop in to wish you better health and better days ahead.  Take care and feel better soon.

  • Fallyn said on Mar 04, 2008....
    *VERY VERY BIG HUGS* i really hope she feels better and gets better. all the best.......
    know we'll be thinking of her.
  • brit said on Mar 04, 2008....
    Best wishes to you both! You both have been so kind and caring. I appreciate you!
    Take care!
  • papajack said on Mar 07, 2008....
    I appreciate everyone who took the time to comment on this post. My wife and I have further discussed blogging and I am going to trust her judgement.  Hopefully, she and I can do a better job of avoiding some of the drama in our opinion that exists on this site. Thank you.
  • lfbno7 said on Mar 07, 2008....
    I avoid it by blocking people who annoy me and not reading what they write, or not returning to posts where I found something annoying. In some cases I have no idea where the discussion went after I commented, because I just left and kept walking. People don't get a hold on me. I just walk away and don't look back.
  • papajack said on Mar 08, 2008....
    That is a very good reply. Thanks.
  • wakingharmony said on Mar 20, 2008....
    {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Pappa & Dee}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}      I really can be a scatter brain .....I can not see some things that are in front of my face and other times I see more than I should.  Dee Hang in there I will always included your family in my prayers (No wonder I have a feeling of some conection to Yall!
  • wakingharmony said on Mar 20, 2008....
    I hit twice accidentally  ;-)
  • wakingharmony said on Mar 20, 2008....

  • crybabylu said on Mar 20, 2008....

    Mags: I know you ain't been here in awhile because of your sickness, but we aren't leaving now...didn't know if it was plain or not about this post...I was down in complete bedrest for a little over 24 hrs. and I told Jackie I wasn't giving up my soulcast, that I would cut down at least until I got over the infection.

    But yes, I think you would know somehow how I feel, wished you didn't, but heck what did we know about things when we were young.  Makes me mad at the kids today, because they have all this information available, and they still ignore it.

  • papajack said on Mar 21, 2008....

    ginger.......haven't gotten back to this post till now.  I appreciate your kind remarks, but Dee is doing better now, and she wants to stay.

    bluegum.......thank you for wishing dee well, and she is feeling much better. and as you probably know by know, she is still here at soulcast and still posting.  Thank you.

    Lucy........thank you for wishing dee well, and i do think her anxieties are better.

    hottips.......sorry I am just now getting around to this post.  I think I forgot to come back to it with an update.  Dee is doing so much better, and I think she is handling soulcast better too.  Thank you.

    Lucy......I am sure that Dee appreciates you too.  Thank you.

    MissMimi.....Thank you.

    Moon.....We are sending hugs right back at you.

    lfbno7.......Thank you.

    GrapeKoolaid......Thank you for your good thoughts and well wishes.

    Polar.....Thank you for your comments and your prayers...

    Shelter......Ha!

    Pickersplock......Thank you.

    FutureGoddess.....Thank you.

    Queen.......Thank you, and she is much better now.

    skald.......Thank you.

    CW.....Thank you.

    destinydiva.......You are right, this wasn't.  She is much better and back to posting.

    Twyla......Thank you for your friendship and good wishes.  Hope all is well with you and yours too.

    RollingC.....Thank you for the prayers, as you know she is better and back to blogging.

    Sikari......Thank you.

    queen.....Thank you.

    Joyous......Thank you for your words of encouragement.

    beyond.........well I guess you are right, we are both here.

    bloc......Thank you.

    mobil.....Thank you.

    batty........Thank you for your warm thoughts.

    quietone......Thank you for your prayers.

    truth......Thank you, now when are you going to get yourself back here?

    vacant.....Well, she is much better, doing her exercises, etc. and blogging too.

    wombat......Thank you for your warm wishes.

    Fallyn.......hugs to you too, thanks.

    brit.........Thank you and where are you, we haven't seen you in awhile.

    Waking......Thank you ,hope to see more of you.

     

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