If you ask a number of people, you still might get mostly the same answer on this. If you don’t want to have to wear a “mask” with some people and not with others, then perhaps you need to strive to be the same person all the time.
Nothing is more confusing to one’s friends than to have to keep guessing “who” you really are. The thing that gets me about this is, people are quick to judge, that apparently if someone is wearing a “mask” at times, then that person is “fake” and two-faced. I don’t believe that is always true. I think that some people have trust issues.
Are you the person they can trust to really be themselves around. Are you the person who is going to not judge who they are by what the say and do, but are you going to take the time to really get to know that person? It is so easy for us standing back looking in and see the obvious changing of “masks” and think that person is fake and two-faced and untrustworthy, but if you stood back and looked at yourself, and asked yourself this question, am I trustworthy enough for that person to feel comfortable around me so they don’t feel compelled to wear a “mask”?
