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Well Schmuck, hate to tell you, but it ain't worth it. Chances are, you'll ruin the friendship. Now I know all men have gone this route before, thinking with their dicks instead of their brains, but it never works out. Women have this thing where they pigeon-hole men into these categories weeks after meeting them. If you've known her for a while, the chances of things happening are even slimmer. If you've known her for maybe a week or a month, then you're not really friends, so be my guest. Who cares if things get fucked? You didn't really know her anyway. But if you've known her as a friend for at least 6 months, DON'T FUCKING DO IT! Unless you like rejection, of course.

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  • sleepninja said on May 04, 2006....
    I don't see a problem with turning a friend into something more... I actually think it's the best way to start out because by that time you really know and respect each other. It makes for a better "how we got together" story than "I was so drunk at a bar one night..."
  • anonymous said on May 08, 2006....
    I ended up dating a friend and we're still dating! So it CAN happen :)
  • NeverTrue said on May 10, 2006....
    Lame dude... Hooking up a friend is acceptable only if you LOVE drama. Are you a drama queen? I bet you are you little drama queen you...
  • anonymous said on May 12, 2006....
    This just about always fails. Friends dating always leads to awkwardness if things don't work out and it makes it awkward for those around. Unfortunately, I've learned the hard way.

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