I've Topped regularly, but I see there as being a difference between Topping and 'Domming'. Domming to me is what a Master does over their Submissive/Slave, whereas Topping is what you do with a play partner (The line is obviously a very large one, and the two intermingle often).

The topic I have chosen to bore you with today (I can hear the stifled yawns already) is that of teaching a submissive/slave.

Often, a slave (Since that is what most of my writings are going to appeal to, you degenerate, filth filled whores) will absolutely believe everything their Master has to say. In fact, if it goes far enough, they can begin to believe anything a even mildly dominant persona says. This of course is something I consider to be unhealthy.

As you, humble reader, will guess throughout the trips through my blogs, I enjoy the intellectual. I would like to be able to actually discuss deep things with a sub/slave and not have her stare at me blankly (It makes me want to hurt them, both physically and mentally, and not in a good way - a fight of Morality I've won every time, admittedly, but the wanting is still there)

But being someones Master, *Versus - Dominant* often means that they look up to you for teachings, insight, guidance - they trust you with the very core of their being, and every Master I have ever had the pleasure of talking to has enjoyed nothing more than watching their property grow and flower (and their subsequent deflowering, as wonderfully delicious as that is).

My point is this, Should we punish a slave for raising an objection? Or making a query? I honestly think that that would be a bad thing *Unless you have a slave who likes to try topping from the bottom from time to time, of course* I believe as much as I as one Master has a responsibility to look after a little ones health, part of keeping that health in check, is to make sure that your own slave is aware of it.

I was receiving a good anal tonguing once, early morning, a wonderful thing - I had been noticing as the days went past she was getting more and more adventurous with her tongue. One of her 'not so secret' desires of scat play coming into view. I almost casually offered to shit in her dogbowl for her if she was a good girl. She quirked her head at me and asked, very politely 'Master, would that make me ill?' I don't believe I had ever felt as proud of her as I did then.

Her asking that question, rather than accepting my offer, and being a 'good slut' showed that she was thinking about her own health. Though her view of why she would look over her own health is 'obscure' *It is her responsibility to make me happy, as such, it is her responsibility to keep herself physically well, so she may be for my use, and at peak condition, always - her words on the matter not mine* Her reason for asking was not because she was worried about getting ill, but worried that her getting ill would lead to my displeasure or unhappyness.

Questioning Acceptance is a thing we all should embrace, not punish, If anything we should be punishing a girl for NOT questioning certain things. Blind Acceptance is not a good thing - as shock horror, Master won't ALWAYS know best. Sometimes in the heat of a moment, or a trail of thinking, we will overlook a danger or a risk, and asking about it, rather than keeping it to themselves CANNOT be a bad thing.

Encourage your girl to question, Push her when she needs pushing, even when she doesn't realise it, and don't let her accept everything you say as gospel, and what you do as being 'right' all of the time. It can often end up being more trouble than it's worth.

*Sickman thanks the readers for making it this far, and wading through his often, disjointed thoughts. Sickman wonders exactly why he is speaking in the third party, but is sure it will go away eventually*

Sickman