Such an interesting and a delectable topic, my thanks to those who brought me to this site (You probably can't even begin to guess who you are, you might even be reading this right now, blissfully unaware - a part of me enjoys that)
I have a few favorites. a few years ago I used to love corrupting those who were very sensitive to such words as 'cunt' or 'slut' - turn them from hating the words to being unable to live without them, but alas, such words are so borish, are they not?
Cumslut is a nice start, but perhaps too gratifying to actually be taken humiliatingly *If that's not a word, it is now* Generally all the ....slut words are positively reinforced words for those useless whores who find themselves within my attention. Cum recepticle, is often a really good one, usually when the little fuckpig is so useless she doesn't know what the word recepticle means - then it can be doubly satisfying.
Some women don't like having their intelligence degraded. Does it make you feel inferior? Does it anger you? - Maybe some of you don't realise but the whole point of degredation is to have you wallowing in a nice little pile of either self-pity or self-acceptance, sometimes both. Engaging in witty wordplay is often a good way to make a dumb fuck really drop into that delectable space. But when it angers them, it only amuses me.
That's not to say I haven't had bouts where I would stray away from insulting someones intelligence - fuckpig/meat is a delectable, as is 'hole', cockwhore, useless gutter-scum. The word 'useless' in itself is such a powerful word in this form of play.
Still there was a point and purpose to this little blog (I usually take a while to get around to it) and that was the idea of belief. Some people seem to believe that me calling others those names is abusive, to begin with (Well I do like to abuse, but I don't think it's the sort of abuse they are thinking of) But most people who actually set out with those words in a malicious manner actually BELIEVE them.
One of the hottest sessions I've ever experienced was with a girl (Even though she was older, they are always 'girls' in my eyes) who was intellectually more than my equal, she would in all probability, do quite well in quiz shows, or the annual scrabble competition. Either way though, insulting her capabilities, her past, insulting what she was doing, it was delicious....
When I insulted her intelligence 'you're just a dumb little gutter-slut, with too much air in the brain to ever amount to anything of importance' (Not hot for some of you I'm sure, but everyone is different) Do you think for a moment I believed it? Not a chance, the woman was more successful in most everything she did than I could ever dream of.
I think that's what the difference between 'real' abuse, given out by those with malicious intent, and my own. Because without believing what I speak in that regard, means that it is merely an extension of roleplay and fantasy, does it not?
I think bitch is one of the most underused name calling words. Perhaps it's because it's easier to think of things like 'fuckslut' 'cumpig' and so on. Bitch I think is a absolutely great word to use. Playing on someone who has bestiality fantasies? Dogbitch is an excellent way to bring her closer to that 'space', racial slurs often also work well with bitch :)
Putting someone into a state where they feel insignificant, well, it's downright hot, for them, and for me...and I'm not going to lie, it's mostly about me.
Sickman
Sickman posted on Feb 22, 2008
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whoreslave said on Feb 27, 2008....
Yes- "real" abuse vs. play abuse are entirely different matters. In play, you are stroking your own pleasure, while at the same time, stroking hers, even if hers has an underlying desire to feel bad in some way, clearly, feeling bad gets her hot, (Does me, damned straight!) and doesn't actively cause her harm, unless of course, she already has self-esteem issues, which your name-calling exacerbates, but then, most Doms don't enjoy playing with slaves who are doormats, and we, Dom and sub alike, know a doormat when we meet one.
I'm a relatively intelligent, literate, and very well-educated fuckhole, and not long ago, insulting my intelligence would have done nothing for me sexually, because it undermines truth, rather than questioning it. When someone like you puts me on my belly and calls me a fucking whore, you question the truth of my virtue, and my value as a person. You are telling me it doesn't MATTER that I am intelligent, or worse, (and cups raised to the Gorean folks for this,) that I actually possess more intellect than I deserve, and that I need to be broken and punished for daring to allow myself to become your intellectual equal. If at this same point, you instead told me I was ignorant, a moron, a fucking dumb slut, then you rip the illusion away somewhat.
That's just me. (And it's actually past tense- being called or treated like an idiot has a certain sexual appeal to me now, though it's still less stirring for me than going right for the overall worth.)
By the same token, a bulk of the heat I feel from degradations like fuckpig, and whoremeat come from being MADE that by the man standing over me, and from his understanding that I am NOT that, and from his pleasure in driving me down. If a man threatens a serious whore with making her fuck a whole line of men and drink their cum, it's not a threat. It has no shock for her- it causes her only delight. Threaten ME with that, and I'll be shaking and begging not to be used in such a base fashion. Even more delightful, to make me beg for it, even as I cry at the shame and pain and humiliation.
It's NOT that I am a whore. It's not even that you PERCEIVE me as a whore- it's that you very clearly see that I'm NOT, and for that very reason subject me to it, through calling me names, making threats, forcing me to become this for your amusement.
And yes... it's hot. But you didn't even address a key element in name-calling: Tone. Do you grab a fistful of hair as she kneels on the floor, and scream at her that she's a worthless piece of shit? Do you lean in close, your fist still tight, and whisper it in her ear, that you're going to make her a whore...? Do you stroke the tender red welts and bruises, and coddle her sweetly, cooing what a good obedient whore she's being and much you love to see her cry?
All effective, but each unique in the specific effect, wouldn't you say? -
Sickman said on Mar 04, 2008....
As much as I would like to say it's all about me - we both know it's not all about me. Though a slave often likes to think that it is all about the Top. I agree, sometimes I just feel that desire, and then it is all about me, but those days are few and far between.
Doormats are not fun. I like my girls to have morals for one *Something that a LOT lack* intelligence, and actually have some personal virtues. This allows for, I think, superior roleplay. Now that's not to say I couldn't play with a Doormat, but I think if I did play with a doormat it would be a very very dangerous thing, I'd be more likely to 'harm' a doormat, and really not give a shit. That's not a path I want to go down.
I agree that intelligence demeaning requires specific setup's for it to work to it's full intent. It is difficult to get someone into the mindspace where that form of degradation and abuse can make a girl leak fluids like the good whore she is.
Force is always a great thing, and me sitting back on a couch with you kneeling in front of me, my foot playing with your cunt and calling you all sorts of names is no where near as appealing as certain other activities.
Or do you do all three, depending on the situation at the time? The first is of course wonderful, and can lead to a purely physical reaction, the second can make her cream just by the tone of your voice, and the third can fill her with a sense of belonging, and if done right, perhaps one of the most foundation breaking orgasms a girl can ever have.
But it's not all about the O - in fact, it rarely is. Wouldn't you say?
And how did you know I'd love to see you cry?
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sweet_rose said on Apr 08, 2008....
That was and interesting chat between the two of you. Well said...rose -
HisPet19 said on Apr 10, 2008....
this was so very interesting to read...and your little conversation with whoreslave was also neat. i think i'll have a look at some more of your blogs. :) -
Mucho said on Jul 16, 2008....
What is interesting to me is how words can become sexual triggers. How words can create sexual desire. It's a subject that not much has been written about.My interest has to do with my desire to write fiction in the cyber form. You know, like a chat between two people (written like a play--all dialogue).